Kinky enough?

[cruiser3074]

My g/f and I both agree that sex has been somewhat routine and we both want to change that. She said we could be more kinky and myself, I haven't been experienced to that much kinky sex. Just like to know what are some great ideas that I could introduce so the sex can be tons more fun. I would do anything for her and I hope this helps. Thanks!

 

[SweetErika]

How do you two define "kinky"?

The Blank Manual is worth browsing through, particularly the section called "Spice Things Up."

 

[cruiser3074]

Most likely anything that is out of ordinary sex, tying up, bdsm, sex in public (within reasonable privacy), the usual. I'd like to find out some fresh ideas that maybe anyone has tried here or would like to try eventually.

 

[sunandshadow]

food is a nice innocent way to start - put fudge sauce or champagne or something on each other and lick it off.

 

[interfacial]

There's the basic stuff like
new positions, different places in the home, using ice, light spanking, light nibbles, light licking/kissing all over the body (some parts like toes best after/during a shower), mutual masturbation, watching a sexy video together (you'll probably want her to pick), making a sexy video (as long as you don't care too much how it turns out), roleplay, dirty talk (be careful, sometimes darker fantasies are made known this way hehe), titty fucking.

Some medium stuff would be bringing various toys into the mix, anal, a little less light on some of the things I mentioned abovie, secluded outdoor activities,

And of course there's the bigger stuff. Pain as a device of pleasure, domination, public activities, additional partners, etc.

 

[Chicklet]

I suggest introducing a blindfold, with no other bondage at first if she's not that into that sort of thing, and bringing out an ice cube or two. The difference between ice and lips on the body can be intense.

 

[silverwhisper]

ice is always good. i can also speak highly of the use of artist's paintbrushes.

ed

 

[cumhungry]

how about each of you go to an "adult toy" store and each pick out an item and then have a fun evening sharing your new toys!?? make sure before hand tho that its ok to state firmly if something is off limits or that either of you are unwilling to do right now. that way you don't come home with the electrical stimulating gizmo that she might not quite be ready for, and she doesn't come home with the 12" strap on that perhaps you're not quite up to yet! makes it all the better if you each pick out something you'd like for yourself........i.e i brought home nipple clamps one time, for ME, not him! the absolute beauty of sex with a long term committed partner is that you don't have to try and cram it all in to one whirlwind weekend, you can take your time. sometimes we'll go thru this KINK phase where we want to all sorts of things and start sizing up yard implements....and other times where good ole basic throw me down and fuck me silly is perfect.

 

[hogjack]

Several ideas:

- Each of you should talk with 'foreign' accents when you are together.
- Create a Romp Room holding every imaginable sex devise and call frequent meetings to take place there.
- Undergo facial surgery to look more like the other's fantasy person.
- Ask your friends to become sex slaves during hours convenient on their schedules.

 

[SweetErika]

food is a nice innocent way to start - put fudge sauce or champagne or something on each other and lick it off.

Just to clarify, do NOT put food/drinks in or close to the vagina, as it can cause massive yeast and other infections. Sugar-free mints/candy, popsicles, etc., are usually okay, but anything with sugar, alcohol, milk products or that could have bacteria is asking for trouble.

If you're interested in BDSM, the BDSM talk forum and its Library sticky are a really good place to start. The library sticky has a link to a fairly comprehensive checklist; we went through it together recently so we could get a better idea of our turn-ons, limits and what we wanted to explore in the future.

 

[cruiser3074]

Thanks everyone for all the ideas. If anyone else has an idea that hasn't been brought up, please do share. I have all these ideas in my head that she will love.

 

[DAZZED48]

kink

You might try role playing.A little costume drama.Whore with a heart of gold.Rent a stud,etc etc etc.

 

[RawAndNatural]

Eat her pussy from behind while she is lying down on her belly. Begin to kiss the back of her thighs and butt checks often. Lick her whole vagina and around it, just hone in on the clit till she gets close, then back off. Keep kissing her butt checks closer to her crack each time. Kiss and lick in her crack, but don't hit the rosebud yet. Go back to licking her pussy, then slowly give one long big lick up from her pussy straight through her crack passing over her rosebud. Read her body and reactions. If she's turned on and into it, begin to kiss and lick around her rosebud before eventually starting to toungue it and toss her salad. You will be one of the few, if any guy, that has ever tossed her salad, rimmed her, or performed anilingus on her. If she gets into it. It will be a very intimate thing. It isn't just kinky. Letting someone do a forbidden thing and having to trust eachother builds the bond between the two of you even stronger.

That's just a start...........there's so much more to try.......

 

[assmenow]

I'm a 46 year old male.
If i could join you I would suck your dick while she watched.
Then turn around and feed your dick up my ass while I ate her out in a 69 so her head was right below your dick in my ass and she could see what anal sex looked like.
Hope this helps you both.

 

[Kama2k]

Ever tried whisky????

Very recently we were having one of those longer sessions and while doing her doggie , I suddenly i grabbed the whisky bottle which was nearby and poured one large into her vagina and continued thrusting .Believe it or not, she came screaming and thrashing. I felt good too. I think what it does is it makes it less wet inside, the stickyness is gone,increasing friction. she and i felt a mild burning sensation which was good. Dunno if any one has tried it before, I have heard couple licking wine and stuff off the hood but pouring a large peg into her pussy was kinky, burning and increases friction. This was a month back and no infection so far.