Kinks - how open are you about them?

[Foxed]

Do share details!!

I’d been popping in with ever lower tops on. But on Christmas morning I went for it with my wife’s agreement A Christmas surprise

 

[zach20092]

I’d been popping in with ever lower tops on. But on Christmas morning I went for it with my wife’s agreement A Christmas surprise

Still teasing!! You deserve to be spanked!

 

[Easypeter]

My next door neighbor is kinky as can be . The husband and I will be talking at the fence and she’ll come out and join in our talk. They are around 25 years old and I’m 70 . She’ll change her clothes before joining . She’ll put on hot pants that are wore out and I can see her labia on both sides of her shorts so tight that they have to be 3-4 sizes to small . She never wears panties . She’ll have a sheer top on with no bra . Half the buttons will not be used and I see her nipples . Her husband tells her she needs to wear more clothes that I can see everything . She tells him that I like seeing her dressed that way and she’ll point out that I’m hard and and one day she’s going to back up to the fence and let me fuck her . He gets mad . She is always telling him he loves that she’s his slut wife and one day he’ll be eating cum out of her pussy from me or another man’s cock . Needless to say , I jerk off to her a lot

 

[kinkyyjulia]

My next door neighbor is kinky as can be . The husband and I will be talking at the fence and she’ll come out and join in our talk. They are around 25 years old and I’m 70 . She’ll change her clothes before joining . She’ll put on hot pants that are wore out and I can see her labia on both sides of her shorts so tight that they have to be 3-4 sizes to small . She never wears panties . She’ll have a sheer top on with no bra . Half the buttons will not be used and I see her nipples . Her husband tells her she needs to wear more clothes that I can see everything . She tells him that I like seeing her dressed that way and she’ll point out that I’m hard and and one day she’s going to back up to the fence and let me fuck her . He gets mad . She is always telling him he loves that she’s his slut wife and one day he’ll be eating cum out of her pussy from me or another man’s cock . Needless to say , I jerk off to her a lot

That's a very hot and kinky neighbor!

 

[Foxed]

Still teasing!! You deserve to be spanked!

I’m not meaning to tease. Although I did him But he really is a sweety

 

[Mrlighthouse]

Am a kinky chap, 46. In my private life a few exes and some friends know how kinky I am. Family don't know. Lit - some know
Am a voyeur and love to admire women. I find appeal in many forms

Love making friends too.

 

[9to5]

Too iffy for me to admit

yes here or DM

 

[MightyMilly]

The thing about having a kinky side is, if you dont tell your lover about it, he, or she cant do it for you, can they. And yeah, I guess that includes husbands and wives, but to be honest, if I was a guy I would be very cautious about telling my wife some of the things men have mentioned here to me, lol. I mean, WOW doesnt even get close to covering some of the things!

 

[1darknightowl]

My kinks are probably mild by the Lit standard.

I keep then secret except from my wife who knows most. Friends and colleagues do not need to know, however as a female colleague found out, a direct question got an honest answer. She was not offended.

 

[9to5]

the first time I brought up kink to the wife she kind of shuttered.
I showed her a story of a girl who was tied down spread out and the boyfriend teased her with a popsicle. inside and out.

 

[dr2brd]

I think it depends mostly on the nature of your kinks. For example I'm a candaulist: I enjoy greatly other guys seeing my wife in the nude. And most of our friends and some of my family members are at least aware of my kink. Well, it's just difficult not no notice how happy I am when my wife does skinny dipping, topless or nude sunbathing or wears something really seethrough. On the other hand some other my kinks are for private use only and I wouldn't dare to share even here

 

[Dearelliot]

Any kink I have, and I have a few, all have to do with adult, mature, consenting ladies and their delectable bodies. I have of course, and who hasn't, eaten bananas out of their vagina, grapes etc, drank their pee, I do love that. Performed oral on them at all and at any time. I love to lick her sweaty, smelly underarms between her toes. Lick up her spit from a plate and push my tongue up her assshole...
My wife knows all of this or at least knew it from years ago when we did it, not that she probably didn't cringe a bit.

 

[9to5]

Any kink I have, and I have a few, all have to do with adult, mature, consenting ladies and their delectable bodies. I have of course, and who hasn't, eaten bananas out of their vagina, grapes etc, drank their pee, I do love that. Performed oral on them at all and at any time. I love to lick her sweaty, smelly underarms between her toes. Lick up her spit from a plate and push my tongue up her assshole...
My wife knows all of this or at least knew it from years ago when we did it, not that she probably didn't cringe a bit.

you do cover a lot of different kinks. and is there a favorite?

 

[Dearelliot]

you do cover a lot of different kinks. and is there a favorite?

I do love a woman's spit, but I want her pee too, so...and push my tongue up her ass, I do love to do that, but yes her spit is most important. I've paid nice ladies who would allow me to do this, or they would blow me, and I always choose to perform on the lady.

 

[xdresssissytoes]

I experienced kinky needs from an early age and gravitated toward those with like desires. So, I've always been able to share in the sexy toybox of a variety of kinks. I do not share these with those with "vanilla" tendencies who just don't get my need for the out of the ordinary. The strongest pull for me has been exhibitionism, submission, and need to let my sexy slutty inner gurl out to play. I like to exposing myself at the cruising beach areas to others looking to play.....strolling by me leering at my bulge while I stretch out in the sand....spreading my legs to give them a better view as they move closer. Pulling my thong aside as they stand above me.......sometimes drawing a small crowd of horny voyeurs.....some more bold than others.....kneeling around me........feeling their hands on me....groping and probing.....watching them reveal their hard cocks....stroking over me......my mouth and body receptacles for their cum.

 

[Lickr4u]

Couple kinks. We’ve been more open as we get older.

Masterbating in front of each other. Usually my wife is between my legs. I stroke it while she brings herself to orgasm. I either finish in her mouth or she climbs on. We love to watch each other.

Public orgasm, almost. She just recently picked up a panty vibrator. We “tried” at two concerts. First time was a fail, second time she had me stop before she orgasmed.
Couple times outside at the house I had my prostate vibrator inserted. It hasn’t made a public appearance yet.

Exhibition, still on the light side. The thrill of getting caught, but only been spotted from a distance. Blowjobs in the parking lot before a show. Just recently, beach vacation nude the entire time in the home’s backyard and at the pool. Sex under the stars was fantastic and a Tour boat went by, once when I was getting a blowjob on the raft in the pool and second when I was eating her out while she sat at the edge of the pool. We continued, not sure how much they seen.

Her panties. She must know I have a panty fetish. She’ll place her dirty panties on the floor after changing every morning for me to collect and place in the laundry room. Smelling her in the morning is a perfect way to start the day!

 

[Crownvic]

I love the groping and teasing and that hot look in her eyes...she has full control.

 

[Erosfan]

I share most of my kinks here on Lit. I don't share them with friends, family and coworkers. I have had the good fortune to experience some wonderful, kinky things with the women I have been with. I am now with a wonderful woman that I share all my kinks with and we are having a ball!

 

[Artfan2]

I’d been popping in with ever lower tops on. But on Christmas morning I went for it with my wife’s agreement A Christmas surprise

So, on Christmas did you wear a top that left absolutely nothing to the imagination?

 

[Grey Shadow]

I’m pretty open. My main deal is I’m an exhibitionist and a voyeur. I tell people I’m a nudist if it comes up which is also true. I think nudity is more of kink for me now because I just don’t get to indulge much lately.

 

[Foxed]

So, on Christmas did you wear a top that left absolutely nothing to the imagination?

Covered even less when pulled up

 

[devakama469]

So how open and uninhibited are you with your kinks.
Share your kinks and tell us who knows about them, your family, friends, coworkers or are you secretive about them and keep your kinks hidden in your closet.
Do yo actually indulge in your kinks and have you made any effort from your end to indulge in them. Or you just keep your kinks as a fantasy.
I have developed many kinks over the years and have been indulging in them. Exhibitionism and being naughty / risky in public is one of my kink which I have worked to to make it a part of my daily life. I don't hide it from friends and family any longer and the result has been that many of my friends and family have chosen to ignore me.
But do I care, I don't think so. Life is too short and time will go so fast that soon I will be regretting that I did not enjoy myself. So I have really stopped caring what people think or say and do things which give me sexual pleasures.
Please do share your thoughts on this subject.

For a few years already, my kinks and fantasies have mostly revolved around threesomes, swinging, couple swaps, public nudity (at appropriate places of course, e.g. nude beaches, nude spas, etc.), outdoor sex, seduction, dares, and related. Oh, and a massive kink for very explicit, intense sexting (even if that may sound somewhat childish to some).

I would most certainly say I am very uninhibited about them, actually loving to talk about them at any level of detail, whether about a still unfulfilled fantasy or an actual real-life experience, with anyone open-minded enough to want to have a real constructive conversation about them… but that doesn't necessarily mean I'm venting them out in the open to anyone and everywhere, because unfortunately more-often-than-not our societal interactions do not lend themselves to that type of discussion at all.

I would not picture myself, for example, talking about that type of thing within a family context, or even worse at work, or even unfortunately with most friends, because most people either get unnecessarily uncomfortable around those topics, or are unbearably prudish, or both, and I don't care one single bit for the frowning or the long faces, sexuality is a subject I love far too much to taint it negatively like that, and I do of course have a need of preserving sane family and work relations Now, would I appreciate being able to talk about sexuality more openly than I do, other than here on Lit? Absolutely! Any real friend of mine knows very well that I'm open for any discussion on that front at any time, without taboo nor restrictions!

As for indulging, I very fortunately have, mostly in the form of a few MFM threesomes, attending a few swinger clubs, doing a few dares (fucking where easily caught), and voyeurism (both watching others have sex and being watched). I just don't understand people who have these fancy and elaborate kinks, but very much prefer never ever bringing them out of fantasy land!

That having been said, the experiences I have had are unfortunately just a tiny portion of my very long bucket list, so I still consider myself very much a beginner on many fronts.

So, wrapping up, if anyone is interested in any of what I've said in this thread, or anywhere else on Lit since I landed on this wonderful site not too long ago, don't hesitate to hit me up!

 

[kinkyyjulia]

For a few years already, my kinks and fantasies have mostly revolved around threesomes, swinging, couple swaps, public nudity (at appropriate places of course, e.g. nude beaches, nude spas, etc.), outdoor sex, seduction, dares, and related. Oh, and a massive kink for very explicit, intense sexting (even if that may sound somewhat childish to some).

I would most certainly say I am very uninhibited about them, actually loving to talk about them at any level of detail, whether about a still unfulfilled fantasy or an actual real-life experience, with anyone open-minded enough to want to have a real constructive conversation about them… but that doesn't necessarily mean I'm venting them out in the open to anyone and everywhere, because unfortunately more-often-than-not our societal interactions do not lend themselves to that type of discussion at all.

I would not picture myself, for example, talking about that type of thing within a family context, or even worse at work, or even unfortunately with most friends, because most people either get unnecessarily uncomfortable around those topics, or are unbearably prudish, or both, and I don't care one single bit for the frowning or the long faces, sexuality is a subject I love far too much to taint it negatively like that, and I do of course have a need of preserving sane family and work relations Now, would I appreciate being able to talk about sexuality more openly than I do, other than here on Lit? Absolutely! Any real friend of mine knows very well that I'm open for any discussion on that front at any time, without taboo nor restrictions!

As for indulging, I very fortunately have, mostly in the form of a few MFM threesomes, attending a few swinger clubs, doing a few dares (fucking where easily caught), and voyeurism (both watching others have sex and being watched). I just don't understand people who have these fancy and elaborate kinks, but very much prefer never ever bringing them out of fantasy land!

That having been said, the experiences I have had are unfortunately just a tiny portion of my very long bucket list, so I still consider myself very much a beginner on many fronts.

So, wrapping up, if anyone is interested in any of what I've said in this thread, or anywhere else on Lit since I landed on this wonderful site not too long ago, don't hesitate to hit me up!

Very comprehensive response. Covers a lot of angles.

 

[Easypeter]

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That's a very hot and kinky neighbor!

love chatting with them . Always get a hard on if she comes out . She shaves that pussy smooth

 

[devakama469]

Very comprehensive response. Covers a lot of angles.

You seem to take a much bolder approach than me when it comes to expressing yourself sexually in your surroundings (family, friends, work, etc.), and that's something I can honestly say I envy you for