Kinkier as we get older?

[AriesAngyl]

For me, I keep getting more and more comfortable with myself as I get older and more and more willing to try new things.

Dating again has helped, meeting some of the kinkier guys around has also broadened my horizons.

Bottom line is I like sex and I like having fun

 

[9to5]

being comfortable and relax to enjoy different things

 

[ICantLeafYou]

My sex drive shot right up at 34/35 years old, but that's just hormones as perimenopause kicks in.

My tastes haven't changed, though. For one thing, I've been into M/M incest from the start.

 

[HarleyQuim]

I was really lucky and met people who were kink + and into safe, sane, consensual fun early in life. Unfortunately, a lot of people needed time and experience to figure out it’s okay to be kinky. I help when I can

 

[BossingBoy88]

I was really lucky and met people who were kink + and into safe, sane, consensual fun early in life. Unfortunately, a lot of people needed time and experience to figure out it’s okay to be kinky. I help when I can

I think sometimes the hesitance comes from the idea of being vulnerable around a person they don't fully trust yet. That's why I always take my time to ease in my partners into a good enough to be able to express themselves

 

[HarleyQuim]

I ask them about their kinks while I’m going down on them. I get more honest answers that way.

 

[BossingBoy88]

I ask them about their kinks while I’m going down on them. I get more honest answers that way.

You must have that calmness and trustworthy demeanor that is able to ease people into it almost instantly, which is a beautiful quality to have

 

[9to5]

I ask them about their kinks while I’m going down on them. I get more honest answers that way.

well if you keep them on edge of orgasm I would tell you all you want

 

[joclfc]

I ask them about their kinks while I’m going down on them. I get more honest answers that way.

Is that a truth/ lie test? Can anyone try?

 

[cascadiabound]

How many of you have gotten kinkier and more libidinous as you got older? [ ] Now, I am kinkier than ever.

Yes.

 

[RjThoughts]

I've been chatting with some older women on here and elsewhere in the social mediaverse. They're all over 45 and have become kinkier, wanting to know if it was normal, and wanting to know if they could talk about it.

 

[Hypocrites]

For me, I was an out and out man whore 40+ years ago. Was pretty heavy into the BDSM scene in the days when you had to go to the library to read on the psychology and safety.

Got married and for 40 years, the kinkiest I got was tying my wife because she wouldn't let me go down on her. Then years ago she became incapable. I didn't mind.

Thanks to some family stuff, old kinks resurfaced and I actually made an account on Lit. Theeeeen, I reentered the real world and remembered how much I love it.

So no, then yes I guess.

 

[RozayTrell]

I’m 27 now and I’m super kinky and sex drive is always through the roof . I don’t know what to expect as I get older lol . I guess it’s a good thing I’m not always indulging too much because I would never get anything done

 

[Sgts19]

My bucket list is almost empty, and I want to knock off what's left in there while I can

 

[StirlingMorty13]

53 now and way kinkier through experiences and continued exploration

 

[StirlingMorty13]

My bucket list is almost empty, and I want to knock off what's left in there while I can

Whats remains on your bucket list fella?

 

[Stargatefan78]

I have gotten kinkier as I get older.

 

[Hypocrites]

My sex drive shot right up at 34/35 years old, but that's just hormones as perimenopause kicks in.

My tastes haven't changed, though. For one thing, I've been into M/M incest from the start.

I remember my days where your age group was my main target (I was young but aggressive). Good grief, as fit and virile as I was, you ladies wore me out.

 

[HarleyQuim]

Is that a truth/ lie test? Can anyone try?

“Any kinks, fetishes of proclivities I should be aware of” *attach mouth to genitals and listen for answers* “are you sure?”.. *back to work* “theres gotta be something you’d like to try”

 

[Samantha47]

How many of you have gotten kinkier and more libidinous as you got older? I grew up in strict religion and sex was limited to traditional and oral. Then bondage, spanking, anal. Then in my late 40's, I got into pegging, fisting, occasional crossdressing, etc. Now, at 60, I am kinkier than ever.

Sounds wonderful to me

 

[mortis]

We celebrated our anniversary over the weekend and as we got ready to make love my wife laughed that back then we just got into bed and sucked and fucked.
Now it’s get the toys out, put some porn on the tablet, plenty of lube and then the suck and fuck starts.
The most difficult part is finding the right porn, without pop up ads and mentions of horny girls 3 miles away.

 

[dct10538]

As I have gotten older, I feel more confident to act on my proclivities. They were always there, however.

 

[SCRob95060]

I am definitely kinkier now but I still feel nervous and uncomfortable when getting naked in front of peoples. Especially if they are dressed. That doesn’t stop me from taking my clothes off, when I start getting turned on I can push through my fear.

Getting naked and having sex in front of people is a huge turn on and something I didn’t do when I was younger.

 

[delphi604]

How many of you have gotten kinkier and more libidinous as you got older? I grew up in strict religion and sex was limited to traditional and oral. Then bondage, spanking, anal. Then in my late 40's, I got into pegging, fisting, occasional crossdressing, etc. Now, at 60, I am kinkier than ever.

For me, definitely.

 

[strawberryblondebeauty]

As a woman, I find my libido is higher and my kinks/fetish lists grow as well. It's exciting!