Kink : Piercing and tatts

[Guest]

Please Help!!

I am married and interested in trying one or two different things. i would like to get my wife int piercing ( whichever parts!) and /or tattoos. Nothing out of the ordinary, just something different! SHE IS NOT OVERLY WILLING!
How would you ladies like your partners to approach the subject re getting you to do something like this and what would the males do or have done to encourage their partners into doing this?

please help!!!

 

[Dakota]

Well, i recomend that if you get her to do anything to not get a tatoo. You can always take the peircing out. The tatoo is there forever. I know I have one and I love it but.... If she is not wiling to do it then don't persuade her to get something that she can never get rid of.

Try pointing out medical testing that has shown greater pleasure has been had when a piercing is envolved.

Dakota

 

[*Eve*]

Well guran, you can't make her get piercings or tatoos just because you want something new especially if she is adverse to the idea. Why don't you get pierced if you want it so badly? I'm not coming down on you because I'm pierced and tatooed myself (one tattoo, and two body piercings) but piercings and tattoos are not for everyone, tatooes are forever, and some people may not want to endure the pain of a piercing.

 

[Circe]

I agree with the admonition of not forcing or coercing your partner into something with which she is not comfortable.

Tattoos and body piercings are not a subject to be taken lightly. I know that there are thousands of stories of people getting drunk and "getting ink". Those are the people who end up with an eight ball, "Born to Lose" or something equally silly permenently showcased on their bodies. (No offense to anyone with those, o'course)

Although the image and acceptance of tattoos has radically changed in the nineties, there are still some people in which I can spot a negative tattoo-to-tooth-ratio.

My advice? To each his own. Don't dun her about this. Some people just do not want to deal with the the care and medical risks of body piercings and tattoos. If she is willing, don't rush her into it.

[This message has been edited by Circe (edited 12-28-1999).]

 

[BIGPOPPAPUMP]

are you willing to be pierced and/or tattooed for her?

 

[Crystal]

I think tats are great (I love mine to bits) but surely you wouldn't want to manipulate your wife into having one if she really doesn't want it.
The easiest option, it seems to me, is to ask her if she would be willing to try a henna tattoo (which only lasts three weeks) or a temporary tattoo (which lasts about five years as the ink is only placed under the first layer of skin) These two options are by no means permanent and therefore are a lot easier to deal with.
As for piercings, it is true that they are not permanent. I've had one in each nostril (not at the same time I hasten to add!) and now there is no trace of either of them. As far as the nopse and the ears are concerned you can buy clip-ons and/or magnets. Not to sure if they would work in the nether regions though - could be a bit dicey if they fell out!Oops!

Mmm. anyway, whatever.