Kink kuming of age

Camille

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Alright folks, when was the first time that you strayed from the what you consider the "nilla sexual world." Age and act.

For me it was oral sex, my first boyfriend in college I was 18.

I made sure he washed it first!

Cam
 
Oral sex isn't vanilla sex?

I don't think I've ever been vanilla.

girl
 
well

Well if we consider missionary vaginal sex nilla which it was for me at that age. Today that term might include everything short of bringing in a pony.
 
Hmmm, I'm afraid bringing in a pony, would be the kink of all kinks.

Let's see, different than 'nilla sex huh? When a girlfriend introduced me to anal play, fingers, and such, many years ago.
 
Not exactly 'straying' if you made him wash it first, Camille...also if you are still referring to a man's cock as 'it', then you've got a bit of a road ahead of you before you go from vanilla to rum raisin, sweetie!

I rubbed pussies with one of my little girlfriends behind the school gym and then pissed a stream pressing our bodies together at age 7. I think my 'nilla status was over then.
 
Blushing Rose said:
Not exactly 'straying' if you made him wash it first, Camille...also if you are still referring to a man's cock as 'it', then you've got a bit of a road ahead of you before you go from vanilla to rum raisin, sweetie!

I rubbed pussies with one of my little girlfriends behind the school gym and then pissed a stream pressing our bodies together at age 7. I think my 'nilla status was over then.

BR, you never had a chance at being 'nilla, darling! :)
 
Camille

16......the wife of a friend....are the married woman next door type of thing......she taught me alot about sex......fingers, anal, oral, heavy in to the oral..........oh btw he like to watch.........

The Breast Man.....FKATTM
 
I've lost my train of thought....thinking about anal play, and looking at Lobito's ass.
I'll get back to you.:)
 
Well, if you count playing with my best friend at about 10...we did lots of girly touching and rubbing and wiggling. :)

Definitely not missionary.

:D
girl
 
Sorry, love

but I was acquainted with oral (both giving and receiving) long before I'd actually done the missionary route. So by your def, I started past vanilla, and worked back.
 
Re: well

Camille said:
Well if we consider missionary vaginal sex nilla which it was for me at that age. Today that term might include everything short of bringing in a pony.

Missionary????:confused: :confused: :confused:

What's that??
 
Points on a curve

I guess we all start at different points on the curve.

Blushing Rose was off the curve and down the road before I started up the hill.
 
I was always very curious, and as the years pass I find that my curiousity has not been sated. There are still things I haven't done that I want to try, and things I have done that I want to do again and again!
 
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I also had oral sex before ever having "regular" sex. I also did the showing of my "privates" to my friend when I was little. I think most of us have. It is a normal part of growing up and being curious.
 
oral being normal, what was the kink

Many cite oral as before vaginal penetration. So what was the first thing you did that you thought was kinky? Camille isn't setting the boundaries. Each person is responding based on their own definition of kinky and that's relative to what you had known.

I had oral at 14. Very kinky to me. My girlfriends and I had only giggled about it. Add to that I was with a 21 year-old- man in my aunt's house knocks up the kink factor in my book. I came so much I thought something was wrong, and I couldn't stand up.

After that, oral was a requirement. LOL Licking the kitty was far more satisfying than some boy frantically humping up and down.

Peace,

daughter
 
daughter said:
So what was the first thing you did that you thought was kinky?

Well, if you put it that way, I'd have to say that it was after I was married and started into BDSM. Guess I was never 'nilla either. Or else I'm just very *ahem* "broad minded"? :eek:
 
'Nilla? Oh god...

Well, I've been 'nilla of thought pretty much since I was a teenager. The non-nilla-ness of my actions took longer, mostly because I was a late sexual bloomer. I guess it hit that in full stride only a few years ago.

And nice to have you here Camille. :)
 
i've never been nilla.

The very first time i had actual-physical-penetration-involved-someplace-in-the-play sex type sex, the first time, he had my wrists tied above my head to the lacy iron headboard with a scarf - and one leg tied to the bottom corner with another scarf. I was 15 - and more than ready for it.

Everything before then had been shy gropings in dark corners with some boy or another, always with all our clothes on.

Everything after that, almost entirely, has been infused with the awareness of my sexual submissiveness. I've grown exceedingly "kinked" over the years but i'll never be jaded. I love and need the incomparable rush of heated and shared sexuality too much to fall into ennui about it.
 
Nilla...not me. Not since my very early 20's when I first realized I enjoyed anal sex, or being tied up.....and had my first threesome.
I seem to get more kinks with age.
 
Not Nilla

I first became aware of my interest in exploring sexual alternatives in my late 20s. It took a while before I actually acted on those desires, though. Oh well, better late, than never! :)
 
nilla wafer

On Camille's advice:

When I was about thirteen I began fooling around with another guy. This was long
before I had any experience with girls, and sex was plaguing my thoughts at all
times LOL. The two of us spent alot of time reading pornography -magazines, etc-
and eventually we began experimenting. Short of actual intercourse, we did
everything we could think of. Eventually I lost interest and moved on to girls, but it
predisposed me towards the "kink", so much so that "nilla" sex always seems somehow hollow or incomplete.

After that, it was around age 16 that I had a girlfriend who was into sex games
and experimentation. We had fun with another girl once (no sex, just some
clumsy fumbling), watched each other masturbate, had sex in public.
We experimented with bdsm, but not seriously and not enough to satisfy my curiosity. Since then I
have had a succession of girlfriends -some adventurous, and some very 'nilla'. I,
like many people, am always looking for someone who will draw these fantasies
and kink-leanings out of me, so that I will not be the one who is forcing the issue.
 
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