just some thought...

[frostyghost09]

i have something on my mind... got a message from someone whom i assume had good intentions, yet something about it grated me the wrong way...
cutie? calling me that when i've never posted a face pic seems...well it seems off...
maybe i'm just outgrowing lit...

 

[xhxhxh]

i have something on my mind... got a message from someone whom i assume had good intentions, yet something about it grated me the wrong way...
cutie? calling me that when i've never posted a face pic seems...well it seems off...
maybe i'm just outgrowing lit...

hope not

but i can see the annoyance

 

[plesmoreagain]

Hey cutie, hun, beautiful, sexy, great boobs, great ass, etc.

There seem to be a lot of PMs starting like that way. However, you do look good

 

[13Fantasies]

i have something on my mind... got a message from someone whom i assume had good intentions, yet something about it grated me the wrong way...
cutie? calling me that when i've never posted a face pic seems...well it seems off...
maybe i'm just outgrowing lit...

My guess is that it was the member's way of saying s/he appreciates how you currently look from what has been seen to date. Probably a good bet that the rest of you is the same way.

Or, s/he is unoriginal.

 

[crashD]

Hey cutie, hun, beautiful, sexy, great boobs, great ass, etc.

There seem to be a lot of PMs starting like that way. However, you do look good

Hey. Nice ass. Want to chat cutie??

 

[zhutt]

i have something on my mind... got a message from someone whom i assume had good intentions, yet something about it grated me the wrong way...
cutie? calling me that when i've never posted a face pic seems...well it seems off...
maybe i'm just outgrowing lit...

It's a good thing to trust your senses about some of these things. Just keep in mind that Lit is full of people from different places and those who are many different ages. There are some people who use some nicknames as a casual greeting with no ulterior meanings, but don't know any better. One of the good things about this forum is that there are all kinds of people, but one of the not so good things is that are all kinds of people.

 

[plesmoreagain]

Hey. Nice ass. Want to chat cutie??

Of course, there is always an exception

 

[crashD]

Of course, there is always an exception

 

[frostyghost09]

It's a good thing to trust your senses about some of these things. Just keep in mind that Lit is full of people from different places and those who are many different ages. There are some people who use some nicknames as a casual greeting with no ulterior meanings, but don't know any better. One of the good things about this forum is that there are all kinds of people, but one of the not so good things is that are all kinds of people.

Yeah I get that...I guess I'm starting to almost feel...idk...objectified?

 

[zhutt]

Yeah I get that...I guess I'm starting to almost feel...idk...objectified?

Understandable, just try to remember that you are in control and anyone who objectifies you is probably not someone you want to chat or be friends with anyway. I hope you find a way to keep things fun, and that there are some good people here as well.

 

[frostyghost09]

I honestly think that a break is in order. Thanks for hearing my ranting out

 

[RawHumor]

I honestly think that a break is in order. Thanks for hearing my ranting out

Sometimes, a break is needed... if not a full break, then cutting way back.

The place can lose its appeal and addictive qualities if you take a few steps back.