Just a thought....

[SexyCleric]

Wel, hopfully this one will stand the test of time.

*Nods* It will.

Though, I will again echo what many others have said; it may be the body that catches our attention first, but the real allure of a woman is her personality. I find there is nothing sexier than a woman who knows how to run just fast enough that I have to chase her. A quick flirty wit is ambrosia.

A body is just meat, albeit, very pleasant meat.
A mind is far more important.

 

[bellinda69]

*Nods* It will.

Though, I will again echo what many others have said; it may be the body that catches our attention first, but the real allure of a woman is her personality. I find there is nothing sexier than a woman who knows how to run just fast enough that I have to chase her. A quick flirty wit is ambrosia.

A body is just meat, albeit, very pleasant meat.
A mind is far more important.

but its usually the body and looks that catch ur attention in the first place isnt that so?

 

[SexyCleric]

but its usually the body and looks that catch ur attention in the first place isnt that so?

Yes, but not always, and sometimes, not even the whole package.

Sometimes it can be as simple as a barely perceptible smirk, a mischievious sparkle in the eye, a swish of the hair, crossing of the legs, a chuckle, a blush, a whiff of perfume, or a confident posture.

Anything can draw us in, and please note, none of the above hooks rely on a killer/modelesque body.

I've said it once, and I'll say it again; it's all about confidence in yourself and your mind. The rest will follow.

 

[bellinda69]

Yes, but not always, and sometimes, not even the whole package.

Sometimes it can be as simple as a barely perceptible smirk, a mischievious sparkle in the eye, a swish of the hair, crossing of the legs, a chuckle, a blush, a whiff of perfume, or a confident posture.

Anything can draw us in, and please note, none of the above hooks rely on a killer/modelesque body.

I've said it once, and I'll say it again; it's all about confidence in yourself and your mind. The rest will follow.

well....u might be one in a million, because most guys here where i live are all about looks: to them if u look different (like me, mixed parentage) ur not considered attractive.

 

[TallMan60]

well....u might be one in a million, because most guys here where i live are all about looks: to them if u look different (like me, mixed parentage) ur not considered attractive.

In this country we have a president now who has mixed parentage. And I think he's very attractive. And pretty smart too.

 

[firstdate]

I worry about how I look naked. Although I know I look pretty ok, I still fret about how my tits look or my tummy. My bloke is always telling me how sexy he finds me and I know he desires me, as I do him - so very much, I think I'm just not used to it because my ex would try to make me feel like shit to big himself up because he felt crap about himself. Sad, really.

 

[SexyCleric]

well....u might be one in a million, because most guys here where i live are all about looks: to them if u look different (like me, mixed parentage) ur not considered attractive.

Well, shucks, thanks.
I doubt I'm so unique though; maybe just a tad more perceptive.

Consider it this way; if you were attractive to every yahoo out there, would it not be more difficult to weed out the losers? Though, your bar tab would be lighter...

In my short life on this rock, I've found some of the sexiest people are of mixed lineage.

 

[SassySheDevil]

well....u might be one in a million, because most guys here where i live are all about looks: to them if u look different (like me, mixed parentage) ur not considered attractive.

I have to agree. I'm on another board. Totally not at all a erotic/sexual board and we have a thread where it's called a Truth or Picture Dare thread.. and it challenges the users to post funny pics in different shots.. Example was with bacon covering the goods... Um Weird poses on vehicles.. um.. tools hiding goods.. Etc.. Anyway..

I've posted pics in the past on it and almost always get very few replies vs when the little skinny girls post, they get the 40 thousand replies.

I think that's possibly part of why I migrate here. Cause there are many guys who do enjoy a person for more then what she looks like or if she's a little thin, tiny thing.

 

[marriedhorny100]

well....u might be one in a million, because most guys here where i live are all about looks: to them if u look different (like me, mixed parentage) ur not considered attractive.

I DONT GO FOR LOOKS ITS WHATS INSIDE THAT COUNTS

 

[phelon]

well....u might be one in a million, because most guys here where i live are all about looks: to them if u look different (like me, mixed parentage) ur not considered attractive.

Well, then they were raised stupid, and need to be upgraded.

Your vvverrrryyy attractive, and thats before we get to the mind, personality part that makes you even better.

 

[bellinda69]

In this country we have a president now who has mixed parentage. And I think he's very attractive. And pretty smart too.

Not exactly what i meant, was merely stating a fact that sometimes al guys see is the outside.

I worry about how I look naked. Although I know I look pretty ok, I still fret about how my tits look or my tummy. My bloke is always telling me how sexy he finds me and I know he desires me, as I do him - so very much, I think I'm just not used to it because my ex would try to make me feel like shit to big himself up because he felt crap about himself. Sad, really.

Everyone does, hun. Especially when like me ur not the typical size 2 depicted in fashion magazines. but thanxx to Lit i niow know that more than a few men like curvier gurls nd dunt want rail thin ones. not to insult thineer gurls out there.

Well, shucks, thanks.
I doubt I'm so unique though; maybe just a tad more perceptive.

Consider it this way; if you were attractive to every yahoo out there, would it not be more difficult to weed out the losers? Though, your bar tab would be lighter...

In my short life on this rock, I've found some of the sexiest people are of mixed lineage.

yups...ur more perceptive. good thing isnt it?

Doesnt that go the same for u guys too? not every gurl strikes ur fancy,right?

I have to agree. I'm on another board. Totally not at all a erotic/sexual board and we have a thread where it's called a Truth or Picture Dare thread.. and it challenges the users to post funny pics in different shots.. Example was with bacon covering the goods... Um Weird poses on vehicles.. um.. tools hiding goods.. Etc.. Anyway..

I've posted pics in the past on it and almost always get very few replies vs when the little skinny girls post, they get the 40 thousand replies.

I think that's possibly part of why I migrate here. Cause there are many guys who do enjoy a person for more then what she looks like or if she's a little thin, tiny thing.

in that case, welcum to the AMPic/DArkromlouge board. MEn here love curves...

I DONT GO FOR LOOKS ITS WHATS INSIDE THAT COUNTS

Kinda hard when ppl who are total bitches have men falling over them right left and center.

Well, then they were raised stupid, and need to be upgraded.

Your vvverrrryyy attractive, and thats before we get to the mind, personality part that makes you even better.

LOL.....stupid huh? maybe.

thanxx...i dunt think im that beautiful, but i am happy most of the time with what i see.

 

[DAA08]

I worry about how I look naked. Although I know I look pretty ok, I still fret about how my tits look or my tummy. My bloke is always telling me how sexy he finds me and I know he desires me, as I do him - so very much, I think I'm just not used to it because my ex would try to make me feel like shit to big himself up because he felt crap about himself. Sad, really.

Sad, but some guys degrade women because of their own shortcomings. It pains me to see any woman abused like that by a man. Men who use emational abuse are cowards. But women have got to be smart enough to get away from these guys. You were with the ex, now I just wish other women would to.

Maybe they could find lit and see the world is not all bad

 

[RunningJib]

I've always been attractive to taller women

I'm never care for tiny women or women that are cute and could get by on their looks. I've always was of the opinion that taller women were use to standing out and that they were use to being looked upon and unable to hide in the crowd so to speak.

Which is what brought me to my high school sweetheart. K was a taller, 'Soup-boned" (by her own father's omission), that was confident, independent and knew what she wanted. This confidence is really a turn-on.

On the physical side, I just loved her curvey waist and lovely white shoulders. And how I could get lost in the small of her back . . .

 

[SexyCleric]

yups...ur more perceptive. good thing isnt it?

Doesnt that go the same for u guys too? not every gurl strikes ur fancy,right?

Thanks.

Perception can be a curse too. Double edged sword, or some other trite little cliche.

Of course, you are right. I am not attracted to every woman to passes by.
Quite the opposite, I am so far past picky, it's unreal.

As a whole though, women tend to have more opportunities for suitors than men do.

 

[bellinda69]

Thanks.

Perception can be a curse too. Double edged sword, or some other trite little cliche.

Of course, you are right. I am not attracted to every woman to passes by.
Quite the opposite, I am so far past picky, it's unreal.

As a whole though, women tend to have more opportunities for suitors than men do.

You're right bout perception.

lol....im picky myself... guess we all want the best for ourselves, nuthing wrong with that. No one should settle.

So, you think we women have it easier huh? For me its always been hard to actually snag myself a guy in rl.

 

[SexyCleric]

You're right bout perception.

lol....im picky myself... guess we all want the best for ourselves, nuthing wrong with that. No one should settle.

So, you think we women have it easier huh? For me its always been hard to actually snag myself a guy in rl.

I did not say easier, I just implied you had more opportunity.
Could, and probably is, more crap or more of the same dude, but you have a higher probability of finding someone quality.

As for picky-ness, I've always said; if a person does not have all that you desire... Why desire them?

 

[bellinda69]

I did not say easier, I just implied you had more opportunity.
Could, and probably is, more crap or more of the same dude, but you have a higher probability of finding someone quality.

As for picky-ness, I've always said; if a person does not have all that you desire... Why desire them?

You might be right bout opurtunity, but for me that doesnt mean a thing. I can find many men attarctive, but nothing ever happens with any one of them...i usualy end up bein their best friend...

You know, i think that after going through my fair share of losers the possibility of fnding a good guy id hig..LOL

Your last comment is very accurate..its the singular reason i dunt date every guy who hits on me.

 

[SexyCleric]

You might be right bout opurtunity, but for me that doesnt mean a thing. I can find many men attarctive, but nothing ever happens with any one of them...i usualy end up bein their best friend...

You know, i think that after going through my fair share of losers the possibility of fnding a good guy id hig..LOL

Your last comment is very accurate..its the singular reason i dunt date every guy who hits on me.

He, or she, who dares; wins.

Can't find that special someone if you don't try.

What is the difference between a good friend and a romantic interest?

 

[bellinda69]

He, or she, who dares; wins.

Can't find that special someone if you don't try.

What is the difference between a good friend and a romantic interest?

difference= sex, lust, passion.

Well, from someone who's been looking....i wonder maybe i should call it quits

 

[SexyCleric]

difference= sex, lust, passion.

Well, from someone who's been looking....i wonder maybe i should call it quits

Never quit.

Take breaks, but never retreat, because once you lose faith in your self and your abilities, so too does everyone else.

Nothing sexy about a woman with no confidence.

Fake self esteem if you have; go with bravado.
It's almost as good as genuine self confidence, and if you use it long enough, you start to believe yourself.

 

[bellinda69]

Never quit.

Take breaks, but never retreat, because once you lose faith in your self and your abilities, so too does everyone else.

Nothing sexy about a woman with no confidence.

Fake self esteem if you have; go with bravado.
It's almost as good as genuine self confidence, and if you use it long enough, you start to believe yourself.

owww i have plenty of self confidence n esteem, i just am losing faith in the male species a bit....

never had a prob talking to guys, the prob is getting them to see me as sexy and more than a friend...

 

[DAA08]

owww i have plenty of self confidence n esteem, i just am losing faith in the male species a bit....

never had a prob talking to guys, the prob is getting them to see me as sexy and more than a friend...

Bellinda, far be it from one who dooes not know you to offer advice, but despite the problems of the male species, it is better to try a thousand times and succeed once, then to give up after a while.

I dated a lot of women before I found my current wife, any many of these women were great, I just did not give some of them enough of a chance. In hindsight I would say I probably missed out by being to eager to date the next one. It did leave me with a few regrets, perhaps you met the right person at the wrong time? All to easy to meet the wrong person.

Guys are like fish in the sea, catch and release, and catch another. Sooner or later you will find that one guy who desires you. My guess is maybe you did, and neither of you realized it at the time. Friends can sometimes be a good place to start, and some guys are scared, to them having a friend they can be friends with is better than being rejected.

Never give up, in the words of Patton's Own, " I will not falter, I will not fail"
D.

 

[SexyCleric]

owww i have plenty of self confidence n esteem, i just am losing faith in the male species a bit....

never had a prob talking to guys, the prob is getting them to see me as sexy and more than a friend...

Oh, well that's different then.

Be optimistic.

Daa is right, many fish, ocean, catch, release, and all that.
He's a hundred percent right.

 

[bellinda69]

Bellinda, far be it from one who dooes not know you to offer advice, but despite the problems of the male species, it is better to try a thousand times and succeed once, then to give up after a while.

I dated a lot of women before I found my current wife, any many of these women were great, I just did not give some of them enough of a chance. In hindsight I would say I probably missed out by being to eager to date the next one. It did leave me with a few regrets, perhaps you met the right person at the wrong time? All to easy to meet the wrong person.

Guys are like fish in the sea, catch and release, and catch another. Sooner or later you will find that one guy who desires you. My guess is maybe you did, and neither of you realized it at the time. Friends can sometimes be a good place to start, and some guys are scared, to them having a friend they can be friends with is better than being rejected.

Never give up, in the words of Patton's Own, " I will not falter, I will not fail"
D.

Oh, well that's different then.

Be optimistic.

Daa is right, many fish, ocean, catch, release, and all that.
He's a hundred percent right.

thanxx guys!!!!! I know he's out there...

 

[forbe44]

luv big girls (.)Y(.) ( )( ) boobs and butts

I just luv girls with shape, but I am not into obesity,
a pleasingly plump girls movements are sexually accentuated by a few extra pounds,the way they walk , their wiggle etc. I am attracted to shapely legs, I see a pair of lovely shapely legs in black stockings and heels , woops instant wood, what can I say!!! by the way do you have any pics or movies of you black stockings or nylons and heels (hint, hint )