Just a thought....

[bellinda69]

Long time lurker, first time poster...

I'm not just attracted to "bigger girls" I'm attracted to lots of different body types but for some reason I always find myself drawn to women with curves. I like softness and a firm body just doesn't feel as nice to me. I also like large breasts and skinny girls just don't have the types of breasts I like.

And that's just me...

Dropping in my two pennies....love big girls. Thank Heaven...

all i can say is thank god for men like you!!!!!

 

[quickshadow]

Well it's not all about bigger girls to me. But I like a woman who is sure of herself. Someone who doesn't dress up all the time with the "look at me" attitude. Any woman can have any guy like at her anytime of day. Simple. It just takes confidence and sureness.

I have a friend who is a bigger girl, and her self confidence sucks, even when I do things to make her feel better and more sure of herself. But it's not always about the looks that turns me on, if a girl is smart, has a great personality and is just comfortable with who she is, hell that's sexier than 100 supermodels.

I might get flamed for this by other guys, but I am a textbook nice guy, and an old fashioned romantic. But there's just something sexy about a girl who isn't a stick, and who takes care of herself without looking anorexic.

But yes, the bigger boobs helps also LOL... hey just cuz I'm a nice guy doesn't mean I'm not a 'guy' lol

 

[bellinda69]

Well it's not all about bigger girls to me. But I like a woman who is sure of herself. Someone who doesn't dress up all the time with the "look at me" attitude. Any woman can have any guy like at her anytime of day. Simple. It just takes confidence and sureness.

I have a friend who is a bigger girl, and her self confidence sucks, even when I do things to make her feel better and more sure of herself. But it's not always about the looks that turns me on, if a girl is smart, has a great personality and is just comfortable with who she is, hell that's sexier than 100 supermodels.

I might get flamed for this by other guys, but I am a textbook nice guy, and an old fashioned romantic. But there's just something sexy about a girl who isn't a stick, and who takes care of herself without looking anorexic.

But yes, the bigger boobs helps also LOL... hey just cuz I'm a nice guy doesn't mean I'm not a 'guy' lol

i think u have pretty healthy idea of what makes a woman sexy....

and there's nuthing wrong with being an old fashion romantic. romance needs a comeback, bad....

LOL.... bigger boobs r definitely a plus when ur a curvy0ish woman... i love mine.

 

[the_miss]

Thanks bellinda69 for posting this thread.
As a curvier girl, it's always nice to hear, and admittedly I've been a bit curious about the "why" as well.

Just wish I knew more guys like you all, lol.

 

[bellinda69]

Thanks bellinda69 for posting this thread.
As a curvier girl, it's always nice to hear, and admittedly I've been a bit curious about the "why" as well.

Just wish I knew more guys like you all, lol.

As i am too. Because i know im not every guy's 'cup of tea'..... i think you'll find many guys here like us curvier gurls...

 

[Lovespud]

Thanks bellinda69 for posting this thread.
As a curvier girl, it's always nice to hear, and admittedly I've been a bit curious about the "why" as well.

Just wish I knew more guys like you all, lol.

Hi.......... The_Miss

LOL, There you know one more guy who 's curvier woman.

Actually curvy women are very sexy. never wonder about the "Why" - Just let it happen.

 

[funluvinaj]

Thanks bellinda69 for posting this thread.
As a curvier girl, it's always nice to hear, and admittedly I've been a bit curious about the "why" as well.

Just wish I knew more guys like you all, lol.

i second that - i loved reading all the replies. I've been coming to terms the last few years and embracing myself. I have a husband (one of those skinny guys) who has made me feel like the sexiest woman in the world.
Posting on this thread has been amazing for my self esteem - i think i stand a little taller and push out the girls a little further these days!
Thank you so much for making this thread.
To all the women, whatever size... I personally believe it's about the sparkle in the eye - the sparkle just seems to be like fairy dust making everything beautiful. If you don't have the sparkle, well then, i feel sorry for you.

 

[bellinda69]

Hi.......... The_Miss

LOL, There you know one more guy who 's curvier woman.

Actually curvy women are very sexy. never wonder about the "Why" - Just let it happen.

hahahha...we're women, we think about everything...

i second that - i loved reading all the replies. I've been coming to terms the last few years and embracing myself. I have a husband (one of those skinny guys) who has made me feel like the sexiest woman in the world.
Posting on this thread has been amazing for my self esteem - i think i stand a little taller and push out the girls a little further these days!
Thank you so much for making this thread.
To all the women, whatever size... I personally believe it's about the sparkle in the eye - the sparkle just seems to be like fairy dust making everything beautiful. If you don't have the sparkle, well then, i feel sorry for you.

U know i feel the exact same way (well minus the adoring husband), but these days since i started my thread, im more confident about the way i look. And yes now i have the sparkle in my eye... LOL. Thanx for stopping by and giving ur opinion, always nice to hear from the ladies (not that im complaining bout the male attention...)

 

[Mac1965]

Curvy=HOT

What I love is the variation of the body of a full figured woman....thin is boring...no variation....I LOVE exploring a full figured woman.....every crevice, curve, rise and fall.....being able to hold onto a nice ass while pumping her pussy.....Whew...now I'm worked up...

 

[*Twisted*]

Scientifically it's all about hip to waist ratio. Women who are proportionate from the standpoint of hips to waist to shoulders are more attractive. Hey, just quoting the scientists here.. LOL

 

[helloladies44]

i think the sexiest women in the world are the ones that are right in the middle.
i do not find "bbw" women attractive typically.
its something about the excessive fat/skin rolls and the bumpy skin thats just.... eh, no thanks. i like large breasts, but not huge ones.
at the same time, i am not attracted to the girls who have nothing on their bones. if i can see her ribs, its a no go. i just cant find myself attracted to the ideal image of a woman created by the world today.

my ideal woman is tall, has brown hair, a cute face, somewhat large boobs, decent sized butt, long legs, and some meat.
picture the typical amazon woman from greek mythology (i think its greek, i could be wrong).

i think the term "curvy" is used too widely. i like to think of a curvy woman as having a natural emphasis on the chest and ass.


im sorry if my post offends anyone, i did my best to stay away from being offensive.

 

[BertieC]

You bigger ones are just extremely sensual, full of love, full of sex. Simply lovely!

 

[mrunlucky76]

It's probably been mentioned a few times already (I haven't gone through the whole thread yet), but, what attracts me to bigger girls is confidence. BBW's are extremely confident, but not to the point of arrogance. They know they look good, and it shows in their attitude. Believing in yourself is a big turn on. Everything that comes along with that is a bonus.

 

[bellinda69]

What I love is the variation of the body of a full figured woman....thin is boring...no variation....I LOVE exploring a full figured woman.....every crevice, curve, rise and fall.....being able to hold onto a nice ass while pumping her pussy.....Whew...now I'm worked up...

well, thats good to know!!!!as the saying goes: more cushin' for the pushin' huh?

Scientifically it's all about hip to waist ratio. Women who are proportionate from the standpoint of hips to waist to shoulders are more attractive. Hey, just quoting the scientists here.. LOL

U know it has been proven, scientifically that is.

i think the sexiest women in the world are the ones that are right in the middle.
i do not find "bbw" women attractive typically.
its something about the excessive fat/skin rolls and the bumpy skin thats just.... eh, no thanks. i like large breasts, but not huge ones.
at the same time, i am not attracted to the girls who have nothing on their bones. if i can see her ribs, its a no go. i just cant find myself attracted to the ideal image of a woman created by the world today.

my ideal woman is tall, has brown hair, a cute face, somewhat large boobs, decent sized butt, long legs, and some meat.
picture the typical amazon woman from greek mythology (i think its greek, i could be wrong).

i think the term "curvy" is used too widely. i like to think of a curvy woman as having a natural emphasis on the chest and ass.


im sorry if my post offends anyone, i did my best to stay away from being offensive.

Well it hasn't offended me, but you're right bout some ppl misusing the term curvy.
Bt then again, the world is filled with beautiful women of all shapes and sizes. And superficial beauty isnt the only beauty im talking bout here. Even as a woman myself, when i see women that are just too large (to a certain size that even the term bbw an't be used and the sheer size can affect they're health) i just wanna shake them and say "love yourself!. Take care of your body". I mean there's nothing wrong if you are natrally a bigger woman, u can still be very healthy.

Hold on, the typical amazon woman in greek myhtology? u do realize those are two distinct separate and individual cultures right? I mean i get what u mean. But its hard to find those va-va-voom women (i.e amazon like)

You bigger ones are just extremely sensual, full of love, full of sex. Simply lovely!

All of them? Can't all be nice...

It's probably been mentioned a few times already (I haven't gone through the whole thread yet), but, what attracts me to bigger girls is confidence. BBW's are extremely confident, but not to the point of arrogance. They know they look good, and it shows in their attitude. Believing in yourself is a big turn on. Everything that comes along with that is a bonus.

Well i think when ur not the typical size as portrayed in todays media and society, u have to be able to love yourself and have confidence that there are men out there that find u sexy. Not to say smaller women aren't confident. Usually they are. And smokei hot too... But i guess a confident bigger gurl is less of a norm in today's society.
I think it all boils down to you loving yourself and when other ppl see it, they will love yo too.



Again, thanx to everyone who's contributed...i thought this thread was dead. LOL

beLL~

 

[hardmale26]

Loving

your pics i would love to feel you on top of me

 

[bellinda69]

your pics i would love to feel you on top of me

mmmmmmm......well that makes two of us!

 

[hardmale26]

i want to feel that ass

 

[bellinda69]

i want to feel that ass

U talking bout my ass by any chance????

 

[SexyCleric]

This is just my opinion, but I'm not a fan of bigger girls.

I just like my women shorter and lighter than I am.
It's a... Control and power thing, I suppose.
Love a short light chick, if for no other reason than in case of arguments, I can lift her up, sling her over my shoulder and walk away.

Can't win an argument when you're over someone's shoulder, now can you?

That's not saying I can't see the beauty of a larger girl...
It's just not my cup of tea.

 

[FrenchMustard]

I have to say that I don't have a huge preference one way or another, at least as far as weight > X = good or bad. It has a whole lot more to do with the sensuality of the person--whether they know how to touch me, and whether or not they respond to my touch in the right way. Hell, even their smell. Since we are just talking about bodies, though, here are a few sexual reasons why both can just be marvelous

And there are fantastic things on both the thin and on the less thin ends. The former are very easy to wrap your arms around, and easy to lift up and switch positions. They can be (though are not always) more physical. Smaller breasts often (though once again, not always) mean more pert, sensitive nipples.

Larger women are easier to cuddle comfortably. They are warmer, and softer, and more fun to massage. Larger breasts are (obviously) a ton of fun. Curvier hips are just fantastic to grab onto during a lovely session. Larger women are often stronger, which can also be a lot of fun if you enjoy being held down a bit.

 

[bellinda69]

This is just my opinion, but I'm not a fan of bigger girls.

I just like my women shorter and lighter than I am.
It's a... Control and power thing, I suppose.
Love a short light chick, if for no other reason than in case of arguments, I can lift her up, sling her over my shoulder and walk away.

Can't win an argument when you're over someone's shoulder, now can you?

That's not saying I can't see the beauty of a larger girl...
It's just not my cup of tea.

I have to say that I don't have a huge preference one way or another, at least as far as weight > X = good or bad. It has a whole lot more to do with the sensuality of the person--whether they know how to touch me, and whether or not they respond to my touch in the right way. Hell, even their smell. Since we are just talking about bodies, though, here are a few sexual reasons why both can just be marvelous

And there are fantastic things on both the thin and on the less thin ends. The former are very easy to wrap your arms around, and easy to lift up and switch positions. They can be (though are not always) more physical. Smaller breasts often (though once again, not always) mean more pert, sensitive nipples.

Larger women are easier to cuddle comfortably. They are warmer, and softer, and more fun to massage. Larger breasts are (obviously) a ton of fun. Curvier hips are just fantastic to grab onto during a lovely session. Larger women are often stronger, which can also be a lot of fun if you enjoy being held down a bit.

wow, i thought this thread was dead... thanxx for contributing guys.
Sorri im not much in the chatter/ntelligent conversation.... but thanx again for the insight into the male mind.

 

[FrenchMustard]

wow, i thought this thread was dead... thanxx for contributing guys.
Sorri im not much in the chatter/ntelligent conversation.... but thanx again for the insight into the male mind.

No problem. Attraction is such a fun and wonderful thing to talk about.

 

[bellinda69]

No problem. Attraction is such a fun and wonderful thing to talk about.

very true.... i guess being on the 'bigger' side my whole life, i was curious.

 

[SexyCleric]

wow, i thought this thread was dead... thanxx for contributing guys.
Sorri im not much in the chatter/ntelligent conversation.... but thanx again for the insight into the male mind.

Eh, it's cool.
No reason you would be monitoring a thread after you thought it dead.

I dare say though, the male mind is not a complex thing.
We're all hard wired to find different aspects of the female (or sometimes the fellow male) form attractive. Helps make sure everyone gets the loving they need.

 

[jester_69]

I haven't posted here before ... but I will give my thoughts....
All women are attractive in some way, it's the way they're made...
they may have a beautiful smile, a pair of drop-dead gorgeous eyes,
the most beautiful breasts you've ever seen, a pair of sexy legs or even the
most inticing feet on the planet... their character, charisma, hair, the way
they carry themselves, their confidence.. I see beauty in all these things.
Attractiveness that I admire. Women come in different shapes and sizes,
that's what makes her, her.. I've had lovers of all kinds and as you lay
there in a woman's arms it's her curves, skin and body that you are holding
and it's a gift from everyone of them.

I have been turned off by women of every size too. If they are rude or don't carry
themselves well. If they show an utter lack of respect for themselves or
are just slobs....

The saying that beauty is only skin deep is wrong, beauty encompasses the whole person... and big and little woman can be the most beautiful creatures on earth....

Thanks for listening.. now you know the Jess approach to the subject..

Jess