Just a Question I need honest answers to...

[PrettyDemoN]

Why do men like being sucked? Don't get me wrong, I love giving a bj, I just want to know why men love it so much? What goes through your mind when a girl is sucking you?

 

[JayinCA]

Because it feels really, really good. And there's a certain nasty thrill to having my cock in a woman's mouth. And it looks sexy as hell. And it feels really, really good.

As for what's going through my mind... if you're doing it right, pretty much nothing at all.

 

[Karamazov]

-The visual and physical stimulation is pretty much unmatched to vaginal sex, even for the most ardent Kegel practitioners

-The sight of my stiff cock entering a beautiful woman's mouth is one of the best images I can conjure

-The combinations and variations of lips, teeth, saliva, tongue and hands make for near infinite possibilities
and sensations

-The woman is actually in control, which is a turn on

-As a man, it is an act done to you rather than by you, also nice

There's so many more answers that you will receive, no doubt.

 

[PrettyDemoN]

-The visual and physical stimulation is pretty much unmatched to vaginal sex, even for the most ardent Kegel practitioners

-The sight of my stiff cock entering a beautiful woman's mouth is one of the best images I can conjure

-The combinations and variations of lips, teeth, saliva, tongue and hands make for near infinite possibilities
and sensations

-The woman is actually in control, which is a turn on

-As a man, it is an act done to you rather than by you, also nice

There's so many more answers that you will receive, no doubt.

That is a very enlightening answer, I never thought of it as the woman being in control but it does make sense.

 

[erikku31]

The idea that a girl is willing to do it. Especially someone you care about. Doubly so if she enjoys it.

 

[LindsayRae]

I'm sure the answer could be similar to why women enjoy being eaten out. (And, frankly, not everyone enjoys receiving. Which, to me, is odd.)

 

[Kurokami]

First and foremost, it feels good. I think that's pretty much the goal for any sexual activity, assuming breeding's off the table.

Second of all, the visual stimuli associated with it; a woman (or whoever, I'm just going by my current experiences) on her knees, lips wrapped around my dick... Damn.

Thirdly, there is a shitload of variation in that one act. Aside from the idea that a mouth is equipped with so many more interesting surfaces (lips, teeth, tongue, throat) the act itself can be either submissive or dominant, gentle or forceful, quiet or loud. And I guess you could say that about straight sex as well, but there is a distinct difference between a blowjob and a throatfuck. Varying the force of straight sex is really just a question of acceleration.

For number four, the sounds. Slurping, sucking, the little moans through a mouthful... Very hot.

And, personally, it's also a very intimate act. Granted, I'm married and as such when I get blown it's from a woman I love very much, but I'd like to think this is true most of the time: the penis is a very sensitive, vulnerable organ, and during oral sex you are placing it in a place with sharp edges that has as its primary function the destruction of the things put inside of it. That takes a lot of trust. On the flipside, your partner is taking your genitalia, which is, let's face it, used for some kind of gross stuff, into her mouth. Once again, trust. Maybe this connection isn't present for others, but it's certainly a part of the attraction for me.

 

[partsecond]

Why do men like being sucked? Don't get me wrong, I love giving a bj, I just want to know why men love it so much? What goes through your mind when a girl is sucking you?

Hey, great question.

I love being sucked. I like the intimacy of it. To me, kissing is the most intimate thing, and kissing and sucking a dick or pussy is the most intimate act.

When my wife sucks me, I don't think of anything but how much she must love me.

It feels really good, and, we dont' have to do so much work. Think about it. A blow job is all the woman's job. Can't beat that.

 

[PoisonedEve]

the penis is a very sensitive, vulnerable organ, and during oral sex you are placing it in a place with sharp edges that has as its primary function the destruction of the things put inside of it. That takes a lot of trust. On the flipside, your partner is taking your genitalia, which is, let's face it, used for some kind of gross stuff, into her mouth.

That was certainly a very new aspect to the whole thing! Never thought about it this way. Thanks!

 

[timetotry]

I personally am not a big fan of getting a blow job. I tolerate it because my wife loves doing it. ......and if you believe any of this please see me about a bridge I have for sale.

 

[cuck2011]

it really depends on how well the person is at giving a blow job. I've great ones and i{ve had awful ones. I guess the turn on though is jsut about seeing your cock penetrate something as sexy as a mouth, sort of base emotions you know?

 

[tocurpussy]

The feel of it Nothing like the feel of a tongue circling round it. Then the fact of the woman being in control and dictating how long you last.

 

[Swejster]

I think it's because sucking your cock shows undoubtedly that she's turned on and wants you.
Or maybe it's just because it feels ooooh so good.

 

[lonohst]

On top of the physical pleasure there's a feeling of being "serviced" so to speak, just lay back, relax and enjoy.

 

[backslash]

I'm pretty much on the same page as the rest of the guys - it's a completely enjoyable sensory experience - the feeling of her wonderfully soft tongue, the look in her eyes as she glances up at me, the slurping/sucking sounds, and the overall thought of what she's doing... all fantastic. I usually end up interrupting the girl for a short time for some wet and sloppy kisses which are equally enjoyable, before she goes back and finishes what she started...

It is, of course, far better when the girl enjoys doing it. I had a girlfriend who would do it but it seemed more like a job to her (though she was offering it still seemed like she didn't really want to), plus her reaction to cum was less than a turn-on. It usually took me a while to get off and sometimes I just couldn't. Having a partner who truly enjoys it makes that not a problem.

 

[JustaSCOUNDREL]

An Honest answer: There is a totally different feeling when I am in a woman's mouth, her vagina, or when I am taking her anally.

Add what a lot of the others have posted and you have a myriad of reasons why a man may prefer one over another.

As for me I love them all and if there is a difference in preference it is a matter of spiting hairs. In other words the difference is minimal but I would prefer to have them all in one smart, funny and caring woman.

Mike

 

[OpenMouth]

For me it's almost 100% visual, but still fantastic!

I love to see a woman with a cock in her mouth, especially in a submissive pose and with lipstick on. It doesn't have to be my cock; she looks even better with her 9" black dildo in her mouth.

In terms of actual stimulation I much prefer her hand on me, after she's sucked me, of course! I think it's much more intense having my shaft worked (she has beautifully skillfull hands) and of course we can kiss while she does it.

It's even more exciting if I can taste my cock on her.

 

[DarkrSide]

Let me turn the question on you. Do you like when a man goes down on you? Do you enjoy that? It's very similar feeling for why men like having their cock sucked. I enjoy the feeling of her tongue up and down my shaft or when she plays with my balls during it too. There are a lot of reasons why I like having my hard cock sucked.

 

[rosco rathbone]

Two main reasons:

1. It's not just extremely intimate, it's the best way for a woman to show that she can focus her entire being on pleasing me.

2. The swallow is very important. The thought that she is taking my nasty essence in, eating it, incorporating it into her body, is incredibly hot. It's an act of transformation. There's definitely something magical about it. "Drain me, take the scum of my swollen lustful balls, drink it down, and make it part of you".

 

[A_Kefka]

Its a very different wxpirience. When having intercourse I"m thinking about her reactions and making sure she likes it as much as I do. When recieving a blow job (or a hand job) its about just relaxing and letting her pleasure me, which is always nice. and of course when giving its the opposite, no worries about my own pleasure, just hers.

 

[StacyCD39]

2. The swallow is very important. The thought that she is taking my nasty essence in, eating it, incorporating it into her body, is incredibly hot. It's an act of transformation. There's definitely something magical about it. "Drain me, take the scum of my swollen lustful balls, drink it down, and make it part of you".

This is it. This is why I want to do this to the guy who sweeps me off my feet...