Joining the AMclub

[Beth87]

I've been thinking a lot about my sexuality recently. What turns me on, what interests me.. Im not sure I fit into a box/label. I have classified myself as bi for a while now.

But I think it runs further than that..im not sure this is exactly the right place to go into the depths of my sexuality. I just wondered what the people here identified as?

 

[Deleted member 1177770]

Hello Beth! Whats up with you ?

Suddenly you changed topics!

 

[Beth87]

It does feel like that yeh, so I'm glad we got to chat for a little tonight. And turns out I'm not even tired =]

What do you mean, identified as?

Well..straight/bi/gay/curious..transgender etc.. etc.. Or one of the many other varieties available to describe an individuals sexuality

And welcome back

 

[Beth87]

Hello Beth! Whats up with you ?

Suddenly you changed topics!

Im good pro..just thought I'd ramble whilst i waited for company. Hows you?

 

[Deleted member 1177770]

Im good pro..just thought I'd ramble whilst i waited for company. Hows you?

I'm straight too

I'm fascinated at how much you think Beth! Sometimes i think you should put your mind to some rest

 

[Beth87]

I'm a straight man, as straight as could be in a modern western society. Around here I like to be a little more flexible than I would normally, for that is the culture around here. And I don't mind it =]
And thanks haha.

It's a good place to test out how you feel. Plus fantasy and reality can be very different. You might imagine liking a man being excited over you within the safety of Lit, but in reality you only want a woman

 

[Beth87]

I'm straight too

I'm fascinated at how much you think Beth! Sometimes i think you should put your mind to some rest

Lol I do not think enough my dear Pro. I dont mean think as in analyse. Just exploring my sexuality through writing and reading etc.

 

[Beth87]

I'm discovering how much I like playing with women too. That I have a dominant side to me..

I think I can like a woman just as much as a man..it really depends on the person. Its not gender that im attracted to..more the person

 

[Deleted member 1177770]

Lol I do not think enough my dear Pro. I dont mean think as in analyse. Just exploring my sexuality through writing and reading etc.

What is it that you like to draw more, a man or a woman's body ?

 

[Beth87]

What is it that you like to draw more, a man or a woman's body ?

Well a woman's is easier for me because I have seen a woman more often. But once I got over my shyness at looking at a naked man..i enjoy drawing them both the same.

 

[Beth87]

Well a woman's is easier for me because I have seen a woman more often. But once I got over my shyness at looking at a naked man..i enjoy drawing them both the same.

These have the same amount of detail and time spent on them:

 

[Beth87]

Lol apologies for throwing a random penis pic to those offended by them

 

[Deleted member 1177770]

Well a woman's is easier for me because I have seen a woman more often. But once I got over my shyness at looking at a naked man..i enjoy drawing them both the same.

So have you been in relationships with both men and women ? And from what i gather from your last post, you don't mind the gender if the person has good character ?

 

[Deleted member 1177770]

Lol apologies for throwing a random penis pic to those offended by them

I don't think any of us will be offended by seeing a picture of our anatomy

 

[Beth87]

I think men and women can be bi-sexual. I think its a biological thing really. You're born gay/straight/bi etc. I dont think it's easier on any sex really..guys sometimes like to think all women are secretly feeling each other up at sleep overs

And its certainly not up to me to crush that dream

 

[Beth87]

So have you been in relationships with both men and women ? And from what i gather from your last post, you don't mind the gender if the person has good character ?

Not a relationship with a woman just yet. At least not in real world. My first kiss, proper kiss, was with a girl. And I usually end up kissing at least one woman on a night out But ive not been brave enough to take that step just yet

 

[uptoplay2]

so... why limit yourself??

I'm discovering how much I like playing with women too. That I have a dominant side to me..

I think I can like a woman just as much as a man..it really depends on the person. Its not gender that im attracted to..more the person

Granted... you have to find the right person either way...

but... if you are drawn to both...... great..... if you feel like domming ... do... but for some you may want to be the sub..... that's great too!

It's wonderful that you are open to everything right now.

Trying not to imagine you... open and waiting...... or open and attacking.. but it's hard.

Me? I'm sticking with one team, but what the woman does is completely open. Not that I'd turn away from a situation with another guy to please a woman. That is... for her pleasure...... ummmmm... doing things to her that is. You'd have to be a really good domme to get more than that.

 

[Beth87]

Granted... you have to find the right person either way...

but... if you are drawn to both...... great..... if you feel like domming ... do... but for some you may want to be the sub..... that's great too!

It's wonderful that you are open to everything right now.

Trying not to imagine you... open and waiting...... or open and attacking.. but it's hard.

Me? I'm sticking with one team, but what the woman does is completely open. Not that I'd turn away from a situation with another guy to please a woman. That is... for her pleasure...... ummmmm... doing things to her that is. You'd have to be a really good domme to get more than that.

Yeah dont think id get more than that unless i went with a bi guy

I had a foursome once..all guys and it was all about servicing me rather than each other. Thats a sexy situation..not sure about guys point of view of course..but for me it was great

 

[Beth87]

Haha, yeh. I certainly agree it's something inherintly born with, sexual preference.
Haha -holds onto that dream- hehe =]

Promises Denny that we do have pillow fights in our sexiest undies. And kiss each other goodnight with tongues

 

[uptoplay2]

3 guys and you??

Yeah dont think id get more than that unless i went with a bi guy

I had a foursome once..all guys and it was all about servicing me rather than each other. Thats a sexy situation..not sure about guys point of view of course..but for me it was great

Sounds like... fun that could last a long time. It could get messy though.

 

[Deleted member 1177770]

Not a relationship with a woman just yet. At least not in real world. My first kiss, proper kiss, was with a girl. And I usually end up kissing at least one woman on a night out But ive not been brave enough to take that step just yet

Keep exploring your opportunities and maybe someday you will be able to decide what is best for you

 

[Beth87]

Are you sure it wasn't: All men are wankers..im becoming a lesbian!

I think women can appreciate another woman more readily than a guy might appreciate a man. But when it comes down to the actual swinging (as such lol) i think the genders are equal. Plus a lot of woman grow up in this culture where kissing a girl is about grabbing a man's attention..maybe a little playful grope between friends. It doesnt necessarily mean they are secretly lusting after each other..we just like to make guys think that

 

[theweescotsman]

what a facinating conversation, gotta admit I had a brief curious period in my teens, never acted upon and maybe I should have......but I decided I really am straight, the female curves are just too perfect

 

[Beth87]

Sounds like... fun that could last a long time. It could get messy though.

It did last a rather long time and was very messy. I did learn to perfect the dual wanking technique that night tho

And yes, lol, 3 guys and me

 

[Beth87]

Keep exploring your opportunities and maybe someday you will be able to decide what is best for you

its all best for me lol i have decided both are best. Its taken me a long time to admit being bi