Joining the AMclub

[mrppv]

That is what I felt like...if government guidelines didnt intervene I would have died at 15 in direct relation to what he did. I took took 2 overdoses..one day after the other. My lowest point I am pleased to say - in that i am loads better now

And im being morbid..snap out of it bethy As fun as an eye for an eye is..im not like him. So i might fantasise about it..sometimes..but i wouldn't. Plus I dont really want to go back to his home so I can do it. Maybe if he came here

Haha damn that sounded hot right there at the end.

 

[Beth87]

Haha damn that sounded hot right there at the end.

one track mind

You boys... :caning:

 

[mrppv]

one track mind

You boys... :caning:

Not one track about three.LOL

 

[Beth87]

Not one track about three.LOL

food, fuck, football (or insert sport of choice...i didn't want to ruin my alliteration )

 

[mrppv]

food, fuck, football (or insert sport of choice...i didn't want to ruin my alliteration )

What kind of football.......are we talking EPL or NFL I watch both.

 

[Beth87]

What kind of football.......are we talking EPL or NFL I watch both.

what is EPL and NFL? Then I can say

Maybe I should have said "soccer" stupid americanisms. It's football..foot on ball.

 

[mrppv]

what is EPL and NFL? Then I can say

Maybe I should have said "soccer" stupid americanisms. It's football..foot on ball.

English Premier League: Manchester United
National Football League: Oakland Raiders

You make me laugh

 

[Beth87]

English Premier League: Manchester United
National Football League: Oakland Raiders

You make me laugh

Well..i would hardly call man u "premier" league..stupid jumped up prima donnas...but yeah..I meant anything really

Thanks

 

[mrppv]

Well..i would hardly call man u "premier" league..stupid jumped up prima donnas...but yeah..I meant anything really

Thanks

I like West Ham too. I miss watching Christiano Ronaldo and his skills on the pitch.

 

[Beth87]

I like West Ham too. I miss watching Christiano Ronaldo and his skills on the pitch.

I like... Actually I like lower end of the spectrum; local teams. Less ego more focus on the game.

I was once invited out for "fun" by Nottingham Forest reserves team. I only slightly regret turning them down

 

[mrppv]

I like... Actually I like lower end of the spectrum; local teams. Less ego more focus on the game.

I was once invited out for "fun" by Nottingham Forest reserves team. I only slightly regret turning them down

Haha what a minx.

 

[seasider]

Okay..

WARNING SERIOUS POSTING

This is going to be a more serious posting so feel free to skim over if you're just in my thread for sexy fun. I won't be offended. I just need some advice and this is the quickest way to reach my friends

Oh Bethy*Hugs*

Only you can decide what the right thing to do is, but one thing stands out- Don't let him get back into your life in any way, even if it's only via Facebook. If you do decide to reply and tell him what you think of him, then if you can, block him immediately and take away his chance to reply- him contacting you surely is about trying to control you, just like trying to tell you what happened was your fault was. Don't give him the opportunity to do that any more- if needs be threaten to report him to the authorities- but don't give him any further opportunity to try and manipulate you

You take care hunni*Big hugs*

 

[Beth87]

Haha what a minx.

yep

Oh Bethy*Hugs*

Only you can decide what the right thing to do is, but one thing stands out- Don't let him get back into your life in any way, even if it's only via Facebook. If you do decide to reply and tell him what you think of him, then if you can, block him immediately and take away his chance to reply- him contacting you surely is about trying to control you, just like trying to tell you what happened was your fault was. Don't give him the opportunity to do that any more- if needs be threaten to report him to the authorities- but don't give him any further opportunity to try and manipulate you

You take care hunni*Big hugs*

Hey sweetie

You're right about that one thing. I'm certainly not strong enough to handle that!

Loving the big hugs

And thanks for doing a mini quote Didnt want to read that again

 

[seasider]

I like... Actually I like lower end of the spectrum; local teams. Less ego more focus on the game.

I was once invited out for "fun" by Nottingham Forest reserves team. I only slightly regret turning them down

Bethy, I'm shocked....


If you were going to take on a whole football team, at least pick a good one- Honestly, Forest reserves....? Eeew

 

[Beth87]

Bethy, I'm shocked....


If you were going to take on a whole football team, at least pick a good one- Honestly, Forest reserves....? Eeew

lol why do you think i turned them down..they werent even the proper players

 

[seasider]

lol why do you think i turned them down..they werent even the proper players

Didn't think Forest had any proper players.....

(Don't really follow football that much, but spent some time in Leicester when I was younger, so had a lot of Leicester City-supporting friends- they really didn't like Forest- or Derby- local-ish rivals and all that)

 

[pspman]

nice pics

 

[Beth87]

Didn't think Forest had any proper players.....

(Don't really follow football that much, but spent some time in Leicester when I was younger, so had a lot of Leicester City-supporting friends- they really didn't like Forest- or Derby- local-ish rivals and all that)

Well..yeah. Im a Norwich City girl at heart. My first ever football game at the stadium was Norwich and I used to live in Aylesham, Norfolk

Neither of them are particularly big. Boo derby..leicester arent so bad. I dont follow football really. I met the footballers in a new cocktail bar in Nottingham. My friend was working there and i was minding my own business at a table and they came and sat with me.

nice pics

Hi

Thanks sweetie Welcome to my thread

 

[seasider]

Well..yeah. Im a Norwich City girl at heart. My first ever football game at the stadium was Norwich and I used to live in Aylesham, Norfolk

Neither of them are particularly big. Boo derby..leicester arent so bad. I dont follow football really. I met the footballers in a new cocktail bar in Nottingham. My friend was working there and i was minding my own business at a table and they came and sat with me.

Yes, footballers do seem to have a reputation for naughtiness these days- though 'My wild night with Nottingham Forest Reserves' doesn't sound like the stuff tabloid headlines are made of- unless it's in the Nottingham local paper

 

[Beth87]

Yes, footballers do seem to have a reputation for naughtiness these days- though 'My wild night with Nottingham Forest Reserves' doesn't sound like the stuff tabloid headlines are made of- unless it's in the Nottingham local paper

well i dont kiss and tell so..none. But LOL

 

[seasider]

well i dont kiss and tell so..none. But LOL

Glad to hear it- be as naughty as you like, but kissing and telling is just tacky

 

[Beth87]

Glad to hear it- be as naughty as you like, but kissing and telling is just tacky

Verrry tacky. Now..sharing tidbits on here or similar is different. No names and if people are sensible usually some identifying details erased. Noone wants to worry about who will find out what happened every time they hook up.

 

[Beth87]

@ Seasider


Plus you got the headline all wrong

Roastin' for a postin'

Numerous members of the NF reserves team were caught tackle in the wrong goal this week when details of a team roasting were leaked to a small local paper. The girl who wishes to remain anonymous for her dignity (bit late for that) was taken to a hotel room and shown the full skills of all but one of the team.

Star player "what they have one?" is feeling particularly embarrassed about this as he was hoping to be signed onto the first team this season. Will the Manageer Mr. Clueless be able to overlook this wild night out and place him in a team that prides itself on being family friendly????

 

[Beth87]

Sorry I'm coming in late to the facebook discussion but I feel the need to contribute. I vote for option 3 only skip the feezing part. You need to be proactive in this. The other three options put him in control of you. You need to take charge of this situation. Utilizing option #2 write him a letter telling him how you feel, how he's hurt you and how you have no use for him. Wait a day or two, reread it and add in anything else that needs to be said. Then DELETE it. Then put him on ignore and refuse to communicate with hem or eve nacknowledge his existence ever again. He is looking for a reaction and if he doesn't get one he will go away. That's what you want, right? Furthermore you have taken control of the sitution and dealt with it on your own terms. Remember, you owe him nothing.

There is nothing to be gained from communicating with him and trying to put him in his place or get even. All you will accomplish is reopening old wounds, starting a war and probably getting hurt again. He is trying to manipulate you. Time to show him you're too strong for that.

I do hope this helps. I'm praying you will make the right decision. That may or may not mean doing what I've suggested.

Hi hun

I value all input into the discussion the more responses the better You're definitely right I owe him nothing so this confrontation decision is very much about me having my say for once (if i decide to do it)

He can think he's won or whatever i wouldnt care..because the idea of that response would be to get my voice back. So many times I have told him..no you didnt hurt me and soothed his self pity because he felt like a child molester (well...if the shoe fits). I was totally focussed on his needs.

But also I dont want to get caught up in the moment and regret sending something. I will think very hard about this. Probably not end up making any action for a few days. right now I want to rip his head off and shout at him all the reasons he is a jerk..but maybe when my anger is a little more civilised I may approach it differently. If i wrote a letter i wouldnt want to say too much about how it has affected me in case that made him happy or something

 

[Beth87]

You need to express all those feelings in a letter to him. The key is to DELETE the letter without ever sending it to him. I don't know if I made that point clear. You're right. Who cares what he thinks. Don't start a communication with him that is sure to backfire.

you made it clear Sorry..if i had expanded more..

As part of my therapy we often do "creative confrontation" which is a lot like your write and delete. So it could be roleplay or a letter. And it does help a lot.

I think its just because I have found myself in a position where I can speak to him and it's one of those things were although there are no right answers i cant help but wonder if I will regret not utilising the opportunity. I dont get to send a f- you message to any one else who has hurt me

I dont know..I dream about having a chance like this but it doesnt mean it is a good idea to do. Hence my wanting to discuss it over with you guys. And I am pleasantly surprised (no offence) that it wasnt all pitchforks at dawn.