JOI & Masturbation Techniques - Your Favorites

[BiBunny]

So full disclosure: I'm a phone sex operator. That is one of my jobs.

Recently, I've been getting an influx of dudes wanting JOI. Now, I can deal with the ones that wanted to be edged or counted down or whatever. But when they want me to give them specific techniques or whatever, I'm lost.

I've tried Googling "male masturbation techniques," but most of what I get is either silly or too complicated to quickly explain over the phone.

So if you're a person with a penis who's into JOI or a person who likes giving guided masturbation instructions to people with penises, would you mind sharing some of your favorite techniques? I would love to hear them and incorporate them into my calls.

 

[Tallcajun]

When I’ve edged myself, here are a few techniques I used.

At the point that I lubed up, I’ll take my thumb and make circles over the head of my cock. Faster, slower and the make myself stop as I get close. I’m edging, remember. Do this several times. Intense.

Another is after jacking, but not cumming, I make an O with thumb and forefinger and bring it to just behind the ridge of the head. Then a gentle twist back and forth. I want to stroke but make myself do only this motion for a long period. Frustrating but a great build up.

Hope this helps.

 

[Britva415]

Tell them to let go the dick with their fist, and hold it between thumb and two fingers like a pencil.

Stroke just the head.

Move and stroke just the frenulum area.

Stroke just the root.

Hold their balls in their other hand.

Squeeze'em.

Let go and slap it.

Slap the balls too, why not.

Put the fist around it again and squeeze at the root.

Stay away from the head, stroking with the fist.

Stop jacking and use the other 5 fingertips over the head like a tent.

Jack it while swirling the other 5 fingertips around the head's ridge.

Watch a bunch of JOI vids.

Watch a bunch of JOI reaction vids.

Watch how the JOI reaction vid guys do it.

 

[Diosax]

I find men who are into JOI mostly so annoying and lazy lol

That being say if they're uncut maybe make them play with their foreskin too

 

[BiBunny]

I find men who are into JOI mostly so annoying and lazy lol

That being say if they're uncut maybe make them play with their foreskin too

I have noticed that some of them are that way, for sure. Thought it was just me, though!

Thanks, everyone, for your suggestions so far. They're going to be very helpful the next time I get one of these calls!

 

[default24]

I find men who are into JOI mostly so annoying and lazy lol

That being say if they're uncut maybe make them play with their foreskin too

I've liked 99% of what I see you post, but this... it needs tweaking
Lazy? Noooooooo
Maybe my guy just wants to give up control for a minute after being tasked with it for 10+ hours a day. Maybe that's the only way he can get off after the internet has jaded him for the last 20+ years. Maybe his day just sucked balls and he wants someone to say "rub that thumb underneath the head of your cock in 3/4 time until you're about to burst" because that would make him happy. He doesn't have to be lazy for that, right? It's all about perception

 

[Woolmohair]

Look up mind control techniques and use them, putting the subject into a sort of trance, a little emotional manipulation in that trance... crazy, just crazy. Hypnosis and JOI. Take it a step further to CEI. Yikes. Videos and audio of such sessions exist amidst the interweb. Google "Erotic Hypnosis," "JOI Hypnosis," and so forth, and see what exists because people like it.

 

[BiBunny]

There's a porn site, "x hamster," that has quite a few videos on JOI/CEI where the woman is just talking to the viewer. I suspect your callers probably watch vids like that and are looking for something similar from you.

Excellent, I'll check it out. Thank you!

 

[4yourpleasureiam]

So full disclosure: I'm a phone sex operator. That is one of my jobs.

Recently, I've been getting an influx of dudes wanting JOI. Now, I can deal with the ones that wanted to be edged or counted down or whatever. But when they want me to give them specific techniques or whatever, I'm lost.

I've tried Googling "male masturbation techniques," but most of what I get is either silly or too complicated to quickly explain over the phone.

So if you're a person with a penis who's into JOI or a person who likes giving guided masturbation instructions to people with penises, would you mind sharing some of your favorite techniques? I would love to hear them and incorporate them into my calls.

Tell them to use tooth paste with mint and a wet hand. No damage but it will give a burning sensation and last. We need pain

 

[eroticspank]

Give me a call and we will talk about it!! Sorry, I couldn't resist the joke.

I see a lot of good techniques here. Try this: Just the thumb and forefinger massage. Use the thumb on the top and the forefinger on the bottom along his sperm channel. Use a light stroke. Once he is very hard and getting close, tell him to stop and lightly massage his balls. Then repeat.
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[roadster_papi]

Rub the frenulum until you're about to cum and stop. Then use your precum as lube to start stroking again.

 

[sandybrooke]

I'm not sure how much instruction I need, I've been jerking off for MANY years and doing just fine.

 

[xdresssissytoes]

I came sooo many times following JOI from nude porn stars in sheer pantyhose...legs spread wide open so their pussy lips were splayed out against the juicy wet see-thru nylon. I'd be edging my cock through my own sheer black pantyhose and creaming through the crotch when allowed to cum by her instructions! Such a sweet tasting reward for my efforts afterward!

 

[Blartbill]

I want JOI because in my job, I am always in charge. I also like the idea that someone wants to see me and wants to watch me jack off. So I want someone to tell me what to do because they want to see me. It more of wanting them to tell me to rub it lightly or play with my balls or jerk it hard and cum. What it is doesn't matter as much as someone wanting to watch and enjoying seeing me.

 

[OnaTangent]

Never been given specific instructions but the idea is intriguing....

 

[johngriffiths]

Joi & masturbation control is amazing if done right.
I've edged about 50 times in 2 hours, now the final result is phenomenal, I mean, the best orgasm ever!

Perhaps it is selfish, but also addictive!

 

[NerdyBBW200]

When I give instructions I usually just give speeds and taunts to really work the penis-haver up. I use my most commanding voice and since I usually edge the people I play with having them rapidly change pace seems to do the job. All this takes away a lot of control which I think most people with penises who enjoy JOI want. You can also tell them how to stroke like: just the tip, or tip to base, or whatever. Hope this helps!

 

[Dearelliot]

A tens unit, with a Mistress controlling the level of intensity!

 

[CuriousTxGuy]

I've liked 99% of what I see you post, but this... it needs tweaking
Lazy? Noooooooo
Maybe my guy just wants to give up control for a minute after being tasked with it for 10+ hours a day. Maybe that's the only way he can get off after the internet has jaded him for the last 20+ years. Maybe his day just sucked balls and he wants someone to say "rub that thumb underneath the head of your cock in 3/4 time until you're about to burst" because that would make him happy. He doesn't have to be lazy for that, right? It's all about perception

If you pay for sex, the sex worker should do/say what you pay her to do or say, or refuse; in that case you get another. I might have an interest in the guy's opinion as to how skilled the sex worker was. Doubtful I'd care about the worker's criticisms of the guy, excepting if it was concerning requests or actions that were violent, dirty, or otherwise unacceptable.

 

[BlueEyes1969]

Rub the frenulum until you're about to cum and stop. Then use your precum as lube to start stroking again.

Great advice!

 

[Hardon4u21]

So full disclosure: I'm a phone sex operator. That is one of my jobs.

Recently, I've been getting an influx of dudes wanting JOI. Now, I can deal with the ones that wanted to be edged or counted down or whatever. But when they want me to give them specific techniques or whatever, I'm lost.

I've tried Googling "male masturbation techniques," but most of what I get is either silly or too complicated to quickly explain over the phone.

So if you're a person with a penis who's into JOI or a person who likes giving guided masturbation instructions to people with penises, would you mind sharing some of your favorite techniques? I would love to hear them and incorporate them into my calls.

I enjoy JOI. For me it is about the submission not the specific techniques. The more sultry and breathy the woman’s voice the better.

 

[artslut86]

I enjoy JOI. For me it is about the submission not the specific techniques. The more sultry and breathy the woman’s voice the better.

Good point. My domme dropped into sultry breathy 1st time the other day. Wow. But then it got comical. Fortunately I used that comedy to maintain my edge and avoid punishment!!

 

[Hardon4u21]

https://www.xnxx.com/video-xksp586/jenna_haze_sexy_panty_fishnets_nude_dildo_fucking_solo_joi

Jenna Haze is so sexy - I love her joi videos.

 

[artslut86]

Great baby voice...

 

[eroticspank]

So full disclosure: I'm a phone sex operator. That is one of my jobs.

Recently, I've been getting an influx of dudes wanting JOI. Now, I can deal with the ones that wanted to be edged or counted down or whatever. But when they want me to give them specific techniques or whatever, I'm lost.

I've tried Googling "male masturbation techniques," but most of what I get is either silly or too complicated to quickly explain over the phone.

So if you're a person with a penis who's into JOI or a person who likes giving guided masturbation instructions to people with penises, would you mind sharing some of your favorite techniques? I would love to hear them and incorporate them into my calls.

What can you tell us so far? Have you used any of the techniques so far? What has been the response from your customers? Very Happy? I am sure you have heard some amazing things on the phone.
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