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Hester said:
question for the pervs.

more than a few men in my life (varying types of relationships) enjoy seeing me "in charge," bossy, and sometimes downright mean. these are often normal, vanilla peeps, but when i come around they use all sorts of bdsm terms (whip, beat, mistress) and thrust me into this role. women don't do this, just men, esp men in positions of authority.

as much of a bitch as i can be, i'm typically happiest and most effective taking a backseat role and getting things done subtly and quietly, not overtly and forcefully as they seem to want. it's downright weird. what's the deal with this?
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Life is too short for milktoasty men.

Make me some breakfast and come suck my cock.
 
Hamletmaschine said:
The idea does nothing for me, although it sounds like pretty standard D/s stuff to me. I have had a similar kind of thing with a couple of women in my life. Strong, intelligent, independent women in positions of authority who liked being used, humiliated, etc. in the sack. It doesn't surprise me that there are men who'd get off on that, too, even though I'm not one of them.

Or am I missing what you're asking here?
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not sexually, just in some situations.

i think pinklady has it right. but i also think they get off on it in some way. with some of them, i'm pretty sure.
 
SaintPeter said:
Life is too short for milktoasty men.

Make me some breakfast and come suck my cock.
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today *is* steak and BJ day at chez hester.
 
I find that I'm much happier when I'm sexually tense, as I am now. The frustration gives meaning and direction to life. Many years ago, I was a disciple of master mantak chia, but only now am I realizing the truth of his teachings. Really realizing them, down deep: in my balls. Miles Davis, Mohammed Ali and the ancient Taoist sages can't all be wrong.

The problem is will. That and balance. You have to kind of constantly monitor the water level, like an old-time steam engine driver, always walking the fine line between loss of pressure and deadly explosion.
 
Hester said:
not sexually, just in some situations.

i think pinklady has it right. but i also think they get off on it in some way. with some of them, i'm pretty sure.
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So they get off on your ordering lunch for them?
 
rosco rathbone said:
Easy there, peepers. Post some jacks before you start grilling the regulars.
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I didn't mean for her to divulge the location of her lover; I was just trying to clear up, referring to Lit as a place.
 
tortoise said:
Abstaining from masturbation is hazardous to your health.

Ask anyone.
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Hey, I survived the night

almost reached the joy joy moment then

was interrupted

I feel fucking great

I did buy new batteries today
 
MechaBlade said:
It's true. I'm a doctor*.




*doctorate in general studies received from unaccredited online university
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*eyes you with suspicion and serious doubt*
 
tortoise said:
Incontrovertible medical evidence!

Abstain at your own risk.

Rub. Rub like the wind.
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*hearty chuckles*

i rubbed and rubbed
all slick and juicy did I
become
reading ...

that which arouses me

*wink*
 
Hester said:
question for the pervs.

more than a few men in my life (varying types of relationships) enjoy seeing me "in charge," bossy, and sometimes downright mean. these are often normal, vanilla peeps, but when i come around they use all sorts of bdsm terms (whip, beat, mistress) and thrust me into this role. women don't do this, just men, esp men in positions of authority.

as much of a bitch as i can be, i'm typically happiest and most effective taking a backseat role and getting things done subtly and quietly, not overtly and forcefully as they seem to want. it's downright weird. what's the deal with this?
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I get that a lot, too. I identify as a sexual bottom --- not a submissive, I'd be a lousy sub ---- but because I'm a strong personality and good at being in charge of things I apparently present to others as a Top. I'm far more comfortable working in a collaborative work environment, but I have a feeling that's not my true nature, it's just what's left of a strong urge to control tempered by shame over being thought bossy or bitchy or arrogant or whatever laundry list of shitty judgemental words abound for people -- esp. women -- who ought to be more humble and just shut the fuck up.

Consequently I often get approached even in non-sexual situations by men who want to playfully fawn or cower or whatever and then later resent me for what they've made themselves feel. It's sort of a topping from the bottom kind of thing. They want me to be what they want and when I don't deliver, they get pissy. They don't really want to submit to a woman, they want a woman to push their fantasy-submission buttons in the way they want them pushed (whether that's sexually or non-sexually).

I have a very low tolerance for whiners and the passive aggressive, but I'm starting to think maybe it's MY problem since I attract so very many of them.
 
bridgeburner said:
I get that a lot, too. I identify as a sexual bottom --- not a submissive, I'd be a lousy sub ---- but because I'm a strong personality and good at being in charge of things I apparently present to others as a Top. I'm far more comfortable working in a collaborative work environment, but I have a feeling that's not my true nature, it's just what's left of a strong urge to control tempered by shame over being thought bossy or bitchy or arrogant or whatever laundry list of shitty judgemental words abound for people -- esp. women -- who ought to be more humble and just shut the fuck up.

Consequently I often get approached even in non-sexual situations by men who want to playfully fawn or cower or whatever and then later resent me for what they've made themselves feel. It's sort of a topping from the bottom kind of thing. They want me to be what they want and when I don't deliver, they get pissy. They don't really want to submit to a woman, they want a woman to push their fantasy-submission buttons in the way they want them pushed (whether that's sexually or non-sexually).

I have a very low tolerance for whiners and the passive aggressive, but I'm starting to think maybe it's MY problem since I attract so very many of them.
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Stop reading my mind...

you have articulated something that has been slowly forming in my mind lately. :rose:
 
I masturbated this morning. I woke up horny and just layed in bed and fingered myself. I came twice. the fantasy wasn't much of one. just getting licked
 
Batchoohus said:
Stop reading my mind...

you have articulated something that has been slowly forming in my mind lately. :rose:
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But I like reading your mind, there are so very many salacious tidbits!!
 
bridgeburner said:
But I like reading your mind, there are so very many salacious tidbits!!
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what you wrote, I think on this a great deal.

*kisses you*
 
Batchoohus said:
what you wrote, I think on this a great deal.

*kisses you*
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Yeah, it's one of the central questions in my life over the course of the years. I didn't really figure out what it was or couldn't articulate it until about.....hell, how long have I been chatting with the big-brain pervs on Lit? Five years? So, yeah, it started to gel about five years ago. Prior to that it wasn't so much that I didn't have the language or some idea of the concepts it's that I didn't have anyone else around who understood and was interested in those things to bounce the ideas off of.

Literotica: what a wonderful world.




Do I get tongue?
 
bridgeburner said:
Yeah, it's one of the central questions in my life over the course of the years. I didn't really figure out what it was or couldn't articulate it until about.....hell, how long have I been chatting with the big-brain pervs on Lit? Five years? So, yeah, it started to gel about five years ago. Prior to that it wasn't so much that I didn't have the language or some idea of the concepts it's that I didn't have anyone else around who understood and was interested in those things to bounce the ideas off of.

Literotica: what a wonderful world.




Do I get tongue?
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Oh yes, darling, and suckings, such soft suckings, to tease you.


I agree I had no language or forum to explore these thoughts, till I found this place.
 
Batchoohus said:
Oh yes, darling, and suckings, such soft suckings, to tease you.


I agree I had no language or forum to explore these thoughts, till I found this place.
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wheee!
 
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