I've lost my way with the men.

[Ms_Lilith]

I just can't seem to get the male attention anymore. Why is that?
I mean.. normally, I can smile across a room, and I'll have someone asking for my phone number, or I'll look at someone a certain way, and he's buying me drinks... and now, nothing! I feel like Grace in that Will&Grace episode where she feels like she's lost her touch...

HELP!

 

[alexandraaah]

Grace is both neurotic and a fake character; what is it you're looking for in male attention?

 

[DriveSouth]

I just can't seem to get the male attention anymore. Why is that?
I mean.. normally, I can smile across a room, and I'll have someone asking for my phone number, or I'll look at someone a certain way, and he's buying me drinks... and now, nothing! I feel like Grace in that Will&Grace episode where she feels like she's lost her touch...

HELP!

hi there goodlooking

what's your number?


*wink*

 

[Ms_Lilith]

Grace is both neurotic and a fake character; what is it you're looking for in male attention?

simply the attention. Makes me feel good about myself. I'm living in a town where I have one close friend, and one other person who I talk to on the phone. I'm lonely. My man is 3 hours away. i want nothing sexual, but I like to flirt, and I like the attention.

 

[1hotjob]

Bartender,

Get the hottie at the end of the bar another round of what she's drinkin'!

 

[Mellon Collie]

Grace is both neurotic and a fake character; what is it you're looking for in male attention?

Heh.

That's all.

 

[Throbbin_Rod]

I just can't seem to get the male attention anymore. Why is that?
I mean.. normally, I can smile across a room, and I'll have someone asking for my phone number, or I'll look at someone a certain way, and he's buying me drinks... and now, nothing! I feel like Grace in that Will&Grace episode where she feels like she's lost her touch...

HELP!

Hey baby, you must be buried treasure cuz I'm diggin' your chest.

 

[CarolineOh]

simply the attention. Makes me feel good about myself. I'm living in a town where I have one close friend, and one other person who I talk to on the phone. I'm lonely. My man is 3 hours away. i want nothing sexual, but I like to flirt, and I like the attention.

Sounds to me like the problem is more one of your situation than of something that is wrong with you, although it troubles me a little bit to think that you feel you need male attention to feel good about yourself.

 

[Ms_Lilith]

I don't NEED male attention to feel good about myself. I just enjoy that kind of attention. It's fun. It makes me blush, it makes me hot. blah blah blah.

 

[CarolineOh]

I don't NEED male attention to feel good about myself. I just enjoy that kind of attention. It's fun. It makes me blush, it makes me hot. blah blah blah.

Honey, I'm sorry if I pissed you off, I didn't mean to. You know I think the world of you.

 

[LukkyKnight]

 

[Kitte]

I just can't seem to get the male attention anymore. Why is that?
I mean.. normally, I can smile across a room, and I'll have someone asking for my phone number, or I'll look at someone a certain way, and he's buying me drinks... and now, nothing! I feel like Grace in that Will&Grace episode where she feels like she's lost her touch...

HELP!

Ok, Im not male but, can I buy you a drink?

 

[Guest]

I just can't seem to get the male attention anymore. Why is that?
I mean.. normally, I can smile across a room, and I'll have someone asking for my phone number, or I'll look at someone a certain way, and he's buying me drinks... and now, nothing! I feel like Grace in that Will&Grace episode where she feels like she's lost her touch...

Isn't it simply a matter of confidence? Perople who carry themselves confidently(without being arrogant) seem to get more attention than those who doesn't.
I'm sure it's just a temporal abnormality for you.

 

[His_kitty]

Hey! You can't have the men all the time, gotta give the rest of us a chance!

We all go through lil flirt droughts ...... I'm sure you'll be back to your norm soon enough. (much to the chagrin of some )

 

[SkAoUt]

I just can't seem to get the male attention anymore. Why is that?
I mean.. normally, I can smile across a room, and I'll have someone asking for my phone number, or I'll look at someone a certain way, and he's buying me drinks... and now, nothing! I feel like Grace in that Will&Grace episode where she feels like she's lost her touch...

HELP!

It is rather odd that men aren't giving you attention especially it being Sping and all. Victoria is the essence of everything spring. The flowers, the trees in bloom, the gorgeous warm sunny weather we've been having lately. I was down town with my g/f yesterday and couldn't believe the women out and about. Where did they all come form? My point is that flirting and spring are like mother and child or ice cream and chocolate, they belong together. My advice is to take your one friend (drag her if you gotta) downtown to Govenment St. on a nice sunny day and grab a exotic coffee or tea or absinthe (or whatever) at the coffee place next to Eddie Bauer and check out the fellas going by. Oh, and show a little leg cos I know thats what I look at.

I doubt I have been much help because I can't tell you why guys aren't checkin' you out by those 5 lines you typed. I know that coffee shop patios are good places to meet fellas. The roof top patio of the Sticky Wicket it also a good place to flirt. Try anytime before or after the noon hour crowd. That way you can be sure the people around you are also there to be seen and flirted with (for the most part). Good luck vixenshe

 

[Jimi]

I don't NEED male attention to feel good about myself. I just enjoy that kind of attention. It's fun. It makes me blush, it makes me hot. blah blah blah.

But not from Geezers like me... Oh, Well.

Never mind... B.C. ain't the worst place in the world to be.

I miss your reg. posts - so here's a leer from a "Fogey"

 

[Ballboy]

I just can't seem to get the male attention anymore. Why is that?
I mean.. normally, I can smile across a room, and I'll have someone asking for my phone number, or I'll look at someone a certain way, and he's buying me drinks... and now, nothing! I feel like Grace in that Will&Grace episode where she feels like she's lost her touch...

HELP!

Sometimes the mojo just ain't there. I know the feeling. Sometimes it seems that I have the only penis in the city; sometimes I can't get arrested. Find the flow; it is generally a lull in self-confidence.

 

[Ms_Lilith]

Re: Re: I've lost my way with the men.

It is rather odd that men aren't giving you attention especially it being Sping and all. Victoria is the essence of everything spring. The flowers, the trees in bloom, the gorgeous warm sunny weather we've been having lately. I was down town with my g/f yesterday and couldn't believe the women out and about. Where did they all come form? My point is that flirting and spring are like mother and child or ice cream and chocolate, they belong together. My advice is to take your one friend (drag her if you gotta) downtown to Govenment St. on a nice sunny day and grab a exotic coffee or tea or absinthe (or whatever) at the coffee place next to Eddie Bauer and check out the fellas going by. Oh, and show a little leg cos I know thats what I look at.

I doubt I have been much help because I can't tell you why guys aren't checkin' you out by those 5 lines you typed. I know that coffee shop patios are good places to meet fellas. The roof top patio of the Sticky Wicket it also a good place to flirt. Try anytime before or after the noon hour crowd. That way you can be sure the people around you are also there to be seen and flirted with (for the most part). Good luck vixenshe

1) Main problem: I'm not in Victoria.. during the summer I live in small-town Langley on the mainland. Fuck I hate living here.

2) I dyed my hair red, and last time I did it, I got the attention.. now, for some reason (despite losing weight, a nice tan starting, and the red hair), it's just not workin.

3) the whole point of this bitch session is that I'm lonely. My man is still in Victoria, the men who wanted me once no longer do (one of them just got engaged), and my best friend looks like Audrey Hepburn, so that's no help. She attracts the men, I keep them. BAH. I want to attract them! I have no need of keeping them! I have one!

 

[CarolineOh]

Vixie, I'm sorry you feel so lonely

 

[Synnerman]

There must be a large number of brain dead men in Langley is all I can say.
In Southern California we grow some of the best looking women in the world and here you would attract attention.
Have you made plans for dinner tonight and breakfast in the morning? I am free for both.

 

[Ms_Lilith]

There must be a large number of brain dead men in Langley is all I can say.
In Southern California we grow some of the best looking women in the world and here you would attract attention.
Have you made plans for dinner tonight and breakfast in the morning? I am free for both.

lol... thanks.. that put a smile on my face this morning.. You're giving me enough energy to follow through with that promise to myself to go do aerobics..

 

[Throbbin_Rod]

lol... thanks.. that put a smile on my face this morning.. You're giving me enough energy to follow through with that promise to myself to go do aerobics..

Can I watch?

 

[Ms_Lilith]

Rod, youre one of my favourite Litizens.. of COURSE you can watch..

 

[Throbbin_Rod]

Rod, youre one of my favourite Litizens.. of COURSE you can watch..

Will you do it nekkid?

 

[Ms_Lilith]

Will you do it nekkid?

I doubt the rest of the patrons at the gym will appreciate that.. lol