It's a real shame...

[pwcov]

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[Shadowsdream]

That so many intrinsicly powerful Women have come to believe the anti-woman rhetoric over the years and choose to live without fulling exploring or flaunting thier Power and Beauty and Goddess Spirit... Would love to here from the intelligent, progressive women of Lit.... Do cuckold tendencies in otherwise strong, fit, intelligent, masculine men, turn you on... I mean if the oppourtunity where to present itself EARLY on in a relationship, would an arraingment where in you controlled COMPLETELY his sexual activity.. (to include masturbation) while you had explicit permission, in fact encouragement to take outside lovers as often as you desired excite or interest you... What about seeing your man there as your chosen Lover pleasures you... What about having him join in to the extent that your lover would feel comfortable...Just curious..hoping to start a conversation here

From My D/s perspective ...written in this context... I would feel that I was performing to fullfill his fantasy.

Perhaps the reason the scenerio holds no interest to Me is that submissives turn Me on. Not there sexual acceptances or fantasies.

Perhaps also because for Myself in My male/slave and submissives it is already understood I control all sexual activity and non activity and do as I please as they do as I say.

Just fact.

~~smile~~ good topic

 

[Netzach]

When I met M I already had a lover I had no intention of giving up, but someone who would never be more than a casual fuck and a serious friend.

His acceptance of that reality allowed the relationship to happen. And I know for a fact that the element of cuckoldry in the mix, as I got engaged to him and he moved in with me, was exciting to him.

But if he had fetishized the situation more than accepted it, I know that he'd be trying to control it in some way, I know that it would no longer be a fuck at my discretion, but to him a mandatory performance for his benefit. I'm not drawn strongly to people with strong cuckold fetishes, because, as SD just pointed out there's usually a subtext of control.