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Why is it that some men feel the need to tell their women what kind of underwear they *must* wear, and get irritated when we tell them we don't wear those particular styles because they're uncomfortable? Why do they say, "well you should try it again," when we say, "I tried that style once and it drove me nuts?" Why is that irritation worse when we tried that style for a bit because they suggested it then stopped because we simply couldn't get used to the way it felt enough to be comfortable? Why do they want us to put up with the discomfort of...whatever we think is uncomfortable...simply because *they* like it?
Dude, I don't know, but I've encountered this problem before as well. In this particular case, the guy kept insisting I try "butt floss thongs", but I am more of a vintage-look underwear sort of person. I solved it by agreeing to wear them if he would try something I chose for him. I went to Frederick's of Hollywood and bought him a couple of sleazy looking man-thongs to wear. After about one evening of sporting a leopard print thong, he dropped the subject. I dropped him too and changed my phone number. ;)
 
Back from Williamsport. Lots of driving today...


oh, and BTW....


WORLD FREAKIN' CHAMPIONS, BABY!!!!!!!

That's right, the little league I've coached at the last five years and where my son still plays...

World Champions!!!!!!!
 
Back from Williamsport. Lots of driving today...


oh, and BTW....


WORLD FREAKIN' CHAMPIONS, BABY!!!!!!!

That's right, the little league I've coached at the last five years and where my son still plays...

World Champions!!!!!!!

Congratulations, luv! :heart: :rose:


Blurt: I have four days in which to accomplish ... a miracle.
 
*non-Lit-people related*

Why is it that some men feel the need to tell their women what kind of underwear they *must* wear, and get irritated when we tell them we don't wear those particular styles because they're uncomfortable? Why do they say, "well you should try it again," when we say, "I tried that style once and it drove me nuts?" Why is that irritation worse when we tried that style for a bit because they suggested it then stopped because we simply couldn't get used to the way it felt enough to be comfortable? Why do they want us to put up with the discomfort of...whatever we think is uncomfortable...simply because *they* like it?

As one of Literotica's fetish experts, my opinion is that "some men" want to see the woman wearing the fetish object, or that they see that the woman wearing the particular underwear they request as a sign of ownership by the man. Some underwear, male and female, is impractical for continuous wear for a whole day and is designed for exhibition only.

In either case "some men" are probably looking at the woman as an object or a possession.

If, on the other hand, the request is to wear the particular item of underwear as part of foreplay then the woman might consider consenting for the few minutes necessary in exchange for something SHE wants as part of foreplay. That would be an exchange between equals.

Being comfortable is probably more likely to arouse than being continually conscious of discomfort.

Og

PS. Expressing a preference e.g. "I like it when you wear that" isn't in the same category as "You MUST wear that - for me".
 
I'd do a story about a mime but i can't figure out how to do the dialog. :cool:
 
My computer decided to fuck itself right up the arse this evening - just when I was looking forward to an evenign of trawling through garbage and the occaisonal porn site.

I had to reboot everything - reload my Internet Machine Thingie (I'm soooo not technical) and now am still reinstalling add ons and such - if it weren't for this site I'd probably go insane!
 
Editing by proxy

One of my daughters is attempting to edit the autobiography of a retired police officer.

She is unhappy with his court report style and asked my advice:

The police officer describes an exciting car chase of suspected violent burglars something like this:

My colleague and I were in our patrol car proceeding West along South Road when we became aware of a red Ford Escort registration number Tango Alpha Romeo Four Niner Three turning at speed out of a side road about one hundred metres ahead of us. We considered that the driving style was unusual so we proceeded to follow the vehicle at a safe distance. I remarked to my colleague that there appeared to be three IC1 males on board the suspect vehicle. He disagreed and suggested that there might be four on board the vehicle which turned into East Street in an exaggerated manner. We followed and recorded the speed of the suspect vehicle as fifty miles an hour in a thirty mile per hour restriction.

Short of rewriting it in total, what can she do?

Og
 
One of my daughters is attempting to edit the autobiography of a retired police officer.

She is unhappy with his court report style and asked my advice:

The police officer describes an exciting car chase of suspected violent burglars something like this:

My colleague and I were in our patrol car proceeding West along South Road when we became aware of a red Ford Escort registration number Tango Alpha Romeo Four Niner Three turning at speed out of a side road about one hundred metres ahead of us. We considered that the driving style was unusual so we proceeded to follow the vehicle at a safe distance. I remarked to my colleague that there appeared to be three IC1 males on board the suspect vehicle. He disagreed and suggested that there might be four on board the vehicle which turned into East Street in an exaggerated manner. We followed and recorded the speed of the suspect vehicle as fifty miles an hour in a thirty mile per hour restriction.

Short of rewriting it in total, what can she do?

Og

Uh, yeah. Edit for grammar and spelling and ship it back to him. If this is an example of the whole then nothing can be done. Not even a rewrite will help.
 
One of my daughters is attempting to edit the autobiography of a retired police officer.

She is unhappy with his court report style and asked my advice:

The police officer describes an exciting car chase of suspected violent burglars something like this:

My colleague and I were in our patrol car proceeding West along South Road when we became aware of a red Ford Escort registration number Tango Alpha Romeo Four Niner Three turning at speed out of a side road about one hundred metres ahead of us. We considered that the driving style was unusual so we proceeded to follow the vehicle at a safe distance. I remarked to my colleague that there appeared to be three IC1 males on board the suspect vehicle. He disagreed and suggested that there might be four on board the vehicle which turned into East Street in an exaggerated manner. We followed and recorded the speed of the suspect vehicle as fifty miles an hour in a thirty mile per hour restriction.

Short of rewriting it in total, what can she do?

Og

Move to South America, change her name and claim she doesn't speak English.
 
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Leave the bears alone, McK. :D

You need to get out of them there woods more often. ;)

But I like bears! Big, tall, hairy men... *drool* Oh wait, that's not the "bears" to which you were referring?! :eek: :D


And McKenna on a river raft? That is too good to be true.

You better believe it, sister! :D


Blurt: Here comes the pain I know and love. :rolleyes: At least my burn is healing nicely, even though it looks a bit gruesome. It's kinda cool in a macabre sort of way.
 
OK Cupid just made it official. I live in the wrong place.

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At least where I live isn't in the worst categories though :eek:
 
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