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SEVERUSMAX said:
Hugs. I guess that didn't help as much I'd hoped. But I understand the feeling about being overweight. I'm not exactly Mr. Slim myself. :rose:


Don't get me wrong. I appreciate the sentiment. I really do. Hearing men who say they think I'm attractive or have a nice body or whatever the comment is... it's nice, and it does make me feel good. The problem is, I've been overweight my entire life. I've never known what it feels like to turn heads when I walk by. I've never known the joy of fitting into a slinky black dress. I've got a bad knee, hip, and pelvis from a car wreck and carrying this much weight around on them is just asking for trouble down the road.
 
CrimsonMaiden said:
Don't get me wrong. I appreciate the sentiment. I really do. Hearing men who say they think I'm attractive or have a nice body or whatever the comment is... it's nice, and it does make me feel good. The problem is, I've been overweight my entire life. I've never known what it feels like to turn heads when I walk by. I've never known the joy of fitting into a slinky black dress. I've got a bad knee, hip, and pelvis from a car wreck and carrying this much weight around on them is just asking for trouble down the road.

Hugs. I honestly don't know what to say. I am aware that many women go through this, but that doesn't help either. All I know is that I know the feeling now of not being all that handsome, at least in my own mind. My gf says otherwise, but I have my doubts. I am about 60 or 70 pounds overweight, though I know that society doesn't treat overweight men the same way as women. :kiss: :rose: Just know that we care about you and will always think of you as lovely no matter what.
 
SEVERUSMAX said:
Hugs. I honestly don't know what to say. I am aware that many women go through this, but that doesn't help either. All I know is that I know the feeling now of not being all that handsome, at least in my own mind. My gf says otherwise, but I have my doubts. I am about 60 or 70 pounds overweight, though I know that society doesn't treat overweight men the same way as women. :kiss: :rose: Just know that we care about you and will always think of you as lovely no matter what.


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Well, after that conversation, it's certainly no surprise the way the scene developed. :catroar:

"Work" is done for today. :) Time to play ...
 
One more day and I'll have a break... it's exhausting and I was in tears today.

I hate change.
 
Crim -I feel the way you do sometimes too. God alone knows how overweight I am -though the stupid chart the doctors go off should be burned - but I know I'm eating a bit more of late and I can see i've put a bit of weight on.

Every time I notice it I make myself shrug it off. It's Christmas, it'll all drop away once I get back to my regular eating pattern. I'm going to enjoy Christmas and its rich food without the guilt trip -I've been on it too many times before. I'm going to completely enjoy my indulgences then ise the excercise bike and stepper, and try and balance it out somewhat.

I'm fat, have been fat all my life and I'll always be fat. I've resigned myself to that but I will be healthy, so I'll keep up the excercise and the fruit and veg consumption and I'll try not to get het up about what society expects me to look like.

Oooh, I went on there a bit more than I meant to *blushes* I just meant tosay I can sympathise, love but a little over eating isn't te end of the world :rose:
 
English Lady said:
Crim -I feel the way you do sometimes too. God alone knows how overweight I am -though the stupid chart the doctors go off should be burned - but I know I'm eating a bit more of late and I can see i've put a bit of weight on.

Every time I notice it I make myself shrug it off. It's Christmas, it'll all drop away once I get back to my regular eating pattern. I'm going to enjoy Christmas and its rich food without the guilt trip -I've been on it too many times before. I'm going to completely enjoy my indulgences then ise the excercise bike and stepper, and try and balance it out somewhat.

I'm fat, have been fat all my life and I'll always be fat. I've resigned myself to that but I will be healthy, so I'll keep up the excercise and the fruit and veg consumption and I'll try not to get het up about what society expects me to look like.

Oooh, I went on there a bit more than I meant to *blushes* I just meant tosay I can sympathise, love but a little over eating isn't te end of the world :rose:

Well stated. :rose:
 
UGH. the glands in my throat are swelling up and are sore. i am working today, tomorrow and the day after. I have a house full of guests tonight, going to my uncle's to see my cuz 2mo and then my great uncles for dinner. on sunday i am going to my other aunt's to see my other new born cuz and all my other little angels and i cannot WAIT. i love my babies so much. however. if i am ill and forbidden from handling babies i am going to CRY.

here's to xmas day laid up in bed :) good thng i dont need my voice online :D (yes, i'll be here xmas day, and the only thing that will stop me is if Lit is down...hehehehehehehe *evil laugh* )
 
rgraham666 said:


I think we're kindred spirits, Rob. ;)

Red, I'll have whatever you're going to have for breakfast. I mean, why should two of us cook when one will do? *innocent look*
 
McKenna said:
I think we're kindred spirits, Rob. ;)

Red, I'll have whatever you're going to have for breakfast. I mean, why should two of us cook when one will do? *innocent look*


*chuckles* This is true, why should you. ;) My breakfast though is left over taco salad unless we can talk Rob into cooking for us. :D
 
RedHairedandFriendly said:
*chuckles* This is true, why should you. ;) My breakfast though is left over taco salad unless we can talk Rob into cooking for us. :D


Oh yum. I like leftover taco salad, I'm not picky. Then again, I bet Rob could whip us up something with maple-y goodness. :D
 
McKenna said:
Oh yum. I like leftover taco salad, I'm not picky. Then again, I bet Rob could whip us up something with maple-y goodness. :D

Certainment. (Gets started on waffles)

With walnuts? Raisins?

Just don't expect me to make a habit of it.

For free, anyway. ;)
 
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