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bashfull said:
Ever feel like saying "Fuck it!!" and walking away? But does giving up make me weak? Or does staying make me weak?

It has been my experience that staying and trying to fix things made me strong in the way of learning how to deal with "SHIT"...walking away made me stronger in the way of making me a happier and more independant person...for the first time i am begining to "LOVE" who i am becoming :eek:
 
lil_elvis said:
If you don't ask for it you won't get it. We're all responsible for our own happiness...and I finally found mine. (so it took 50 years, who's counting)


I know you have...and that's is wonderful!!!!

{{hugs}} to you and the Mrs...
 
bashfull said:
I agree with Elvis. The weakness is in not confronting it. Not disclosing it. Then you are just hiding. Better to acknowledge it, and make decisions from there. "Come, my child! Confess your ways!". lol. No matter what the circumstances, darlin', you have friends here who are willing to listen. **offers Honey his shoulder**

:rose:


:)

Same here, Bash..

:heart: :kiss:
 
kiten69 said:
It has been my experience that staying and trying to fix things made me strong in the way of learning how to deal with "SHIT"...walking away made me stronger in the way of making me a happier and more independant person...for the first time i am begining to "LOVE" who i am becoming :eek:

Excellent observation, darlin'. Nice to meet ya', btw. I'm Bash...short for Bashfull.
 
bashfull said:
Excellent observation, darlin'. Nice to meet ya', btw. I'm Bash...short for Bashfull.

Nice to meet you too Bash...and i'm kiten...short for NOT BASHFUL :D
 
kiten69 said:
It has been my experience that staying and trying to fix things made me strong in the way of learning how to deal with "SHIT"...walking away made me stronger in the way of making me a happier and more independant person...for the first time i am begining to "LOVE" who i am becoming :eek:


Hey, Kit...don't think we've properly met...{{hugs}}

I've actually started to acquire some "balls"

Even my husband has noticed. I think my problem is holding on to certain emotional issues which I am starting to realize that I have become afraid to let go of. Why? I think that if I do let go, there will be nothing left and I will be were I was 3 years ago....Sad, lonely, depressed...I have remember that I've learned alot, I've grown and I do have people who care.

It's just taking that step. I'm not even talking about divorce or separation...it's more of a divorce of my emotional disability.....so to speak.

I'm happy for you...we should all love who we are.
 
Honey123 said:
Hey, Kit...don't think we've properly met...{{hugs}}

I've actually started to acquire some "balls"

Even my husband has noticed. I think my problem is holding on to certain emotional issues which I am starting to realize that I have become afraid to let go of. Why? I think that if I do let go, there will be nothing left and I will be were I was 3 years ago....Sad, lonely, depressed...I have remember that I've learned alot, I've grown and I do have people who care.

It's just taking that step. I'm not even talking about divorce or separation...it's more of a divorce of my emotional disability.....so to speak.

I'm happy for you...we should all love who we are.

I'm past acquiring "balls"...now i'm growing a terrific "backbone"... :D

It took me years to take the steps i've taken just in the past few weeks...i am in the process of legal seperation and filing divorce as soon as the papers from the lawyer comes in...i guess when you find what is right for you and it all "clicks" it just works out...or eventually will

caring people, friends, family...good support makes all the difference in the world...

*big hugs*...nice to meet ya :rose:
 
MaeveoSliabh said:
Dammit. Guess what i'm craving now.

Thanks 123 :kiss:

blurt: overreacting GBers are funny. :D


All GBers are funny...which is why I post there....and I do so under my name, no ALT!!!
 
Honey123 said:
All GBers are funny...which is why I post there....and I do so under my name, no ALT!!!


Hehe...and I'm posting under Honey! :nana: Couldn't resist the double entendre.
 
bashfull said:
Hehe...and I'm posting under Honey! :nana: Couldn't resist the double entendre.


Dear man...there are other things you could be doing under me...and one would not including "posting"
 
Honey123 said:
Dear man...there are other things you could be doing under me...and one would not including "posting"


**bowing** You've but to ask, darlin'.
 
lil_elvis said:
Gotta get back to work...it was wonderful while it lasted.


:kiss:

Good to you see again, Elvis!!!! {{Hugs}}

Edited to add: I've posted under Bash...hope you don't mind my fingers... ;)
 
Honey123 said:
:kiss:

Good to you see again, Elvis!!!! {{Hugs}}

Edited to add: I've posted under Bash...hope you don't mind my fingers... ;)


Higher...higher...Oops...now I'm blushing again! But don't stop!
 
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