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shereads said:I hope so, and I hope she's Karl Rove.
I hear the lovely miss Rove makes a terrific dance partner.
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shereads said:I hope so, and I hope she's Karl Rove.
If I've been a dupe and a sucker, that would make me a bad person. But maybe that's just me.Roxanne Appleby said:I accept that I approached the line and will be more cautious.
But Stella, there is a difference between using impassioned polemical rhetoric and calling an individual a bad person. Rob Graham posted a piece of the former from a left-perspective a few posts back, and I actually responded by saying that it was a perfectly civil post. Such things add spice to debates and don't hurt any individual, even though they may lead to teeth-grinding from idological adversaries, as I described in my response to that RG post. Plus, we're all writers, and shouldn't have to feel overly constrained.
The line between personal attacks and polemical flights really is not a gray one, once you become aware of the distinction. Actually, that might be the problem - people are not aware of it. Maybe they can become aware, and spread the word. Maybe starting with you?
Not at all, I am positive of such. Power corrupts. And power makes stupid, although, unfortunately, stupidity doesn't equal loss of power....do you doubt that some of those extraordinarily cynical World Bank people think exactly this?
You're right, but most of us here are pretty sophisticated, and the differences are not subtle once they are pointed out to a person. So is it hoping to much to think that when they are pointed out enough people will "get it," and we can have lively but civil debates in which we don't have to pull our polemical punches? I mentioned RG's earlier polemic, and shereads often "gets rolling" too - I wouldn't want their lauching such rhetorical flights to be considered beyond the pale, and I don't want mine to be either, or anyone's. I only want to discourage the personal attacks to which there is no possible response other than flaming or (IRL) violence.Stella_Omega said:As I said, I think your very first post set the tone of the further discussion. If you engage in polemics on a public board, you can't really pick and choose who will respond and how well they might respond- nor can you make the assumption that everyone will be knowledgeble in the subtle differences between polemic language and insults, and, as you see, they might confuse the two![]()
In the interest of hastening the return of civility I will shave away all the excess verbiage and only "see" the quoted portion.Pure said:i did not label you a hypocrite.
There's no way for me to respond?Roxanne Appleby said:n contrast, if I say, "You are a dupe" or "You are a hypocrite," that is a personal attack, and there is no way for you to respond.
If it looks like a duck, walks like a duck, quacks like a duck, and claims that as the head of World Bank it will wage a war on ducks, it's a hypocrite.Roxanne Appleby said:The charge of hypocrisy in this context is almost always a form of intellectual laziness.
elsol said:(Dropping the rest of the post to hit this particular piece):
It is a CRIME to lie under oath.
It is your RIGHT to refuse to testify.
I'm perfectly happy to revoke the Fifth Amendmennt, since I do believe torture can get to the truth if you drop all controls.
But until we actually do that... this one isn't even close.
shereads said:There's no way for me to respond?
Are you sure?
Then what the hell am I supposed to do with six quarts of Elmer's Glue and two weasels?
Y'see, that's the mental laziness I was talking about: refusing to accept that not everyone sees the world through the same lens as oneself, and that therefore other people can have different ideas but just as much goodwill.Pure said:dear rox,
you haven't enlightened us on the WSJ's stand on Darfur or the starving in Africa generally.
all you have is the facile assurance that
There is no reason to doubt that the individuals in both institutions sincerely believe that the point of view and policies they promote are the ones most likely to generate better outcomes for all people.
the reason to so doubt them is that they have no concrete proposals for helping. i conclude indifference. i see NO reason to ASSUME that some wealthy guy in NYC [or mr bush, from texas] cares a fig for the poor of the Bronx, not to say Central Africa. [I'm not saying he actively wishes them evil, entertains evil thoughts, more like the absence of thoughts about such matters of little immediate concern.] i'm sure there are exceptions, i.e., genuine humanitarians; there have always been such among the wealthy and the middle class.
so i stick with my hypothesis that they're hypocrites: proof--they drag in harms to the starving or dying in Africa ONLY in the context of a justification for keeping their boy Wolfie.
i will agree that, when one sees certain lives, one has evidence of a broad concern for humanity, e.g. in the life of Jimmy Carter; even Bush Sr. and Clinton show some of such concerns. but my default assumption is that of indifference.
perhaps it's self gratifying to think of oneself as "actively promoting better outcomes" for poor folks in distant lands, and maybe the WSJ boys have vague, generalized "good feelings" in hoping people stop dying so piteously, so often. maybe that's you too. i distinguish this from what i call real and active concern.
having seen now about 7 years of Bush and his crowd, i think it's patently obvious that they lack such concern for the dying in Africa, since they've done so little (though they'll spend a billion a day in Iraq). as far as i know--lacking evidence to the contrary-- based on my brief Google search, the WSJ's official thoughts on Darfur or the dying in Africa reflect those of the Bushies.
Well look, I hereby retract my characterization of the policies favored under "your world view," and will let you describe those policies yourself. Because I know the ideological premises upon which they are based, it's virtually certain that I will find most of them wrongheaded and counterproductive. The point is, I will not take that as "evidence of no goodwill." It will be evidence of wrongheadedness to me, and I will continue trying to correct that, or at least persuade others that it is wrongheaded. But I will not consider its proponents to be lacking in goodwill - that is, full of badwill: evil. I will not presume that. Generally, I do not expect the same regard from those on the left, but it's not totally absent, especially here I think, because of the kind of community we've built.Pure said:what you describe as "my world view" and "my approach" has no basis in fact, and indeed you cite no evidence [quotes]. it's just boilerplate blathering about big spending liberals and socialist central planning.
you are not willing to expend the energy and the embrace the goodwill to do the same.[as you, RA]
i ascribe 'good will,' where there's evidence of it, i.e., occasionally. i assume efforts to tell the truth-as-perceived in my debate opponents, a totally different issue.
I just described a much less ambiguous form of wrongheaded on the Chavez thread. That should illustrate what I mean by the term. To avoid misunderstanding, I'm not saying that particular wrongheadedness is the same as what I've been talking about here - it's much more profound, but the premises are in the same direction.elsol said:Why it got to be wrongheaded?
Why can't it just be what I think of some of the stuff you and Amicus spout... against that which my life experience has taught me or even not thought through to the endpoint concequences.
It's like all these collegiate anarchists I find so cute... they spout their stuff and I pat them on their head... I don't do so because I think they're 'wrongheaded'... I do so because I know they don't understand that I would gut every single one of them given the opportunity and here they are hoping for just such an opportunity to arise.
They're so cute!
I could say the excat same thing, and in fact, I often have-- about the right.You divide the world up into the good - those who agree with you, and the evil - those who disagree with you.
That's an unhealthy thing because it weakens democratic "institutions" (broadly defined) and the basis of a civil, pluralistic society. When it becomes the norm and is taken to extremes it leads to violence. It's retrograde. Unfortunately it is not uncommon on the right either, but it seems to be endemic on the left. It's hardly a new thing, but I think it's growing. I’m sure the amount of it does not exceed that of previous eras, but I’m troubled by the prospect of it growing unchecked.
My view of the right may be skewed by the fact that I have less exposure to the religious wing and more to the libertarian/economic wings. Clearly if one focuses on the religious part then what you say is exactly correct - this harmful way of viewing the political landscape is endemic.Stella_Omega said:this may or may not be a side track, but it's interesting, and quite saddening to me;
I could say the excat same thing, and in fact, I often have-- about the right.
The rightwinger divides up the world into those who agree, and those who disagree and are evil lefties.
And just like you, I say;
Unfortunately it is not uncommon on the left either, but it seems to be endemic on the right. It's hardly a new thing, but I think it's growing. I’m sure the amount of it does not exceed that of previous eras, but I’m troubled by the prospect of it growing unchecked.
Why is it, Roxanne, that you so fervently believe that all lefties are dupes and have swallowed anti-conservative propaganda whole-- while I feel that the right has been simpletons and has swallowed anti-liberal propaganda whole?
How is it that we can each see so clearly the mote in the other's eye?
*A: GET some exposure to the religious wing. Find out, at first hand, what harm they've done to your ideology, and to our country. And then get busy with a mop. Clean your own house.Roxanne Appleby said:My view of the right may be skewed by the fact that I have less exposure to the religious wing (*A) and more to the libertarian/economic wings. Clearly if one focuses on the religious part then what you say is exactly correct - this harmful way of viewing the political landscape is endemic.
On the left, tell me why I'm incorrect that this way of looking at things is not endemic? I'm willing to be educated because I may be missing something. From what I can see it appears endemic. It's quite common here on AH, a far more enlightened place than most places where the left is predominant.(*b)
I try not to have a mote in my eye, Stella. Being a libertarian with a deep-seated humanist streak and some political science training I easily see the folly and dysfunctions that exist on the right as well as the left. The imortant thing as you note is not a quibble over which side is worse, but the underlying fact that something which is damaging for democracy is increasing.(*c)
One huge correction: I have never "spouted a party line" in my life. My dispositional inability to do such a thing should be obvious. (The fact that just in the past week you and I formed a "tag team" in an atheism thread is evidence of that.) That I use resources that you may associate with some particular "party line," including the WSJ, doesn't signify: We all rely on sources that reinforce our arguments, and in general the economic-orientation of that journal is similar to my own. That is not the same as a "party line."Stella_Omega said:*A: GET some exposure to the religious wing. Find out, at first hand, what harm they've done to your ideology, and to our country. And then get busy with a mop. Clean your own house.
*B: Perfect illustration of my point, once more. Oh, those stupid libs! If I need to spell it out for you, you have just said that liberals are unenlightened. AH is excepted, I assume, because many of us care enough about you as a person to continue talking with you even after you've spouted the party line for the umpteenth time.
*C: Yes indeed, it is very damaging, and you might try taking the marbles out of your mouth if you want to begin to change it. If you really do see the "Follies and dysfunctions of the right as well as the left," and if you want to persuade the left of your views, then you might think about acknowledging those follies &etc. whilst you you insult the intelligence of those lefties you are shaking your finger at. Otherwise, you're just another venom-spouting right-winger to me.
Speaking personally, if I only knew you in a political context, I wouldn't know much about you at all. And I have to say, I've put you on ignore once in a while-- in order to remain friends with you.