Is this sick?

[Guest]

I'm 28 and I have incest fantsies, you know father/daughter stuff and one about my baby son, I breast feed and I always get turned on during it and end up fingering myself. i also think of my husband being with my 4 year old daughter and I get hot. Is this normal?

 

[Lasher]

"C'mon, Jeffro...Let's you and me go for a dip in the cement pond"

Depends on which part of West Virginia you live in.

 

[*Eve*]

i also think of my husband being with my 4 year old daughter and I get hot. Is this normal?

No that's not normal.

 

[Patryn]

I'm with Eve on this one. It is NOT normal. But, let me ask you this: is it something you would actually like to see? If the answer is absolutely not then, I would say that even though it's not normal, it is safe IF, and it's a big if, it stays as a fantasy.

As for getting turned on while breast feeding, I have heard of that happening before.

 

[Gingersnap]

You need to get a hobby lady that doesnt involve sex with children.

 

[Dreamer1]

I'm 28 and I have incest fantsies, you know father/daughter stuff and one about my baby son, I breast feed and I always get turned on during it and end up fingering myself. i also think of my husband being with my 4 year old daughter and I get hot. Is this normal?

NO!

 

[Xander]

NO!!! Not normal at all.

 

[Always]

that's about as normal as having an elephant for a best friend. NO!!

go read some book about the father raping the daugher. it should make you think a little bit differently...

i hope.

 

[Bushido71XS]

Yup, Sick, therapy might help. But I doubt it.

 

[Carl East]

NO, that is not normal.

Carl.

 

[Siren]

oh sure this is NORMAL, if you are a weirdo

 

[Patryn]

Oops! BIG mistake on my part. I didn't read that she was masturbating during the feeding of her child. Nope, that's just wrong. It's actually pretty common, though all women don't experience it, to become aroused during breast feeding, but to take care of it during...NO NO NO AND AGAIN NO!!!

 

[KillerMuffin]

Please, get some help

No, that is not normal. No matter what part of West Virginia you're from.

Get some therapy darlin, and get it quick. If the temptation to do something to your baby son is there, how long can you hold out against it? You are responsible for your children's health and well being. You've already taken the first little step towards helping yourself, you've acknowledged that this might be a problem.

There may be other unresolved issues in your life concerning incest that you may or may not remember. If so, these things need to be addressed as well. For your own sake, if not for the sake of your family, get help. If you can't afford the counselor, most areas have programs to help you. Just check with social services, you need'nt tell them your problem, just that you need the help.

Think hard about whether or not you might be a danger to your children. Touching them inapropriately or making suggestions about touching you or your husband inapropriately. If you are, you need to remove yourself from them immediately.

It appears to me that this is just in the fantasy stages, but it is progressing past simply thinking about it, if you are indeed masturbating during breastfeeding. If you are, buy a breast pump and use a bottle. Your children are not sexual objects and you know this as well as the rest of us. This isn't healthy behavior. You have to stop it before it progresses any farther. You can destroy your life, your husband's life, and devastate your children.

There is nothing worse than the destruction of the trust between a parent and child, when you can't trust your parents to take care of you, instead of hurting you.

 

[KillerMuffin]

Re: "C'mon, Jeffro...Let's you and me go for a dip in the cement pond"

Depends on which part of West Virginia you live in.

Uggghhh cmon lasher git it rite its JETHRO n dont tawk bout m fambly thatawae

 

[Bonnie Wee Lassie]

YES!!!!! This is the sickest thing I have ever heard. I actually puked when I read this. OMG it is an infant. I don't even want to say anymore I am so disgusted.

 

[Angelique]

Ok, WOW!!! I can't even BELIEVE this thread starter! Getting a bit turned on by breast-feeding isn't abnormal, although it's not something I ever experienced with either of my children. Other than that, the rest of your post makes me physically ill.

True story here folks...when my daughter was four, she was involved in oral sex with her step-brother. These events transpired at my ex-husbands home and while I did attempt to press charges, I was told in no uncertain terms that if I didn't allow my daughter to go back into his home, I would be thrown in jail for contempt. We were ordered to go for therapy and in the end, I was assured by the therapist that this would "never happen again."

Earlier this year, my daughter came to me again and told me of events where her half-brother (my ex-husbands son from his first marriage) had made advances towards her. She was 7, the boy was 15. At the same time, I became aware of the fact that this 15 y/o boy had been arrested on two counts of rape against 2 six y/o boys. So much for the therapist assuring me that it wouldn't happen again.

Long story short, the ex-husband was awarded supervised visitation back in June. To this very day, he has yet to schedule any of those visits. Yeah, the guy is a jerk, to say the least.

My point here is that children under no circumstances should be involved in sex...PERIOD! Even THINKING about sex with children is wrong, because eventually it may very well lead to acting upon those very thoughts.

Here's a question for you, Lady M...would you find it arousing if a neighbor was sexually involved with your 4 year old child? Would that be considered "normal" to you? Or suppose a friend of yours decided to allow your baby to suckle on her breast and became aroused and started masturbating? Would you find that to be normal, as well?

I can only hope that you never act on any fantasies that you may have involving your children...and if you do, I certainly hope that the authorities come down on you so quick that it makes your head spin.

I could write a book on my thoughts regarding this particular subject, but I feel I've written enough to get my point across, so I'll leave it at that.

 

[Naked Hunny]

ok not to make me sound bad but...

when i was breastfeeding my daughter i also became semi aroused. Now where she draws the line is masturbating along with it. Whats with that?? It is very common to become aroused during breastfeeding but it isnt common to take yourself into an orgasm thats just well fucked up. And you having fantasies about your husband having sex with your 4 yr old uhh no offense sweetie but ick thats just wrong and that is something you need to seek some help on..

 

[Bonnie Wee Lassie]

Naked hunny it is true a woman can get aroused from breastfeeding I read an article about it once. Now it never happened to me and I don't think that part is sick. It happened to a woman I know and it was very disturbing for her because she thought she was bad but the doctor told her that it happens quite often. What I do think is sick is that this woman is masturbating while feeding her son and about her son.

 

[Isabella Thorne]

Lady Modonna .. you can't be serious .. surely not .. how could you even equate sexual feelings with your innocent children who trust and love you and look to you for guidance ...

 

[Adoratrice]

I am so sick I can't even think straight....is it normal? How do you even get through the day with your level of ignorance? Jesus FUCKING christ....I won't even be able to sleep tonight thinking about your poor daughter.Is it normal?!!!? Does your husband know about this? are you opening the door for him to RAPE his little girl? Is it normal to have nightmares the rest of your life? Is it normal to cringe at the hands of a father who is supposed to protect you? Is it normal to be physically ill if you are awaken from a deep sleep by someones touch? Is it normal to hate yourself & think you must have done something horrible to deserve this? Is it normal to let men treat you like dirt for most of your life? Is it normal to scrub yourself til you bleed in the bath? Is it normal to need surgery to restore your insides?..........it is if you were raped by your father at age 4.

 

[Thumper]

Sick Sick Sick

Ohhh this is bad....very bad...

I hope to hell ya keep the little girl away from the Camaro...one of the cinderblocks could break and it could fall on her.

I can just picture it...a lovely mountainside in WV with a '68 doublewide sitting serenely if somewhat akilter upon it. Four mangy hound dogs resting on the porch next to the broken Norge....a beat up '73 Ford pickup in the driveway......and a brand new 20 grand Bass boat on a trailer beside it...

And this is Robin Leach bidding you grits wishes and Budweiser dreams ..from Lifestyles of the broke and ignorant.

 

[lilfrk]

What happened to you when you were 4 to make you think that sex between father and daughter or mother and son is a good idea?

This is such a sick thing I can't even believe that I am answering it.

You need to get professional help before you destroy your beautiful childrens lives.

 

[Cheyenne]

Okay everyone, I'm guessing she gets the point. It isn't normal, it is sick. Literally. At least she asked the question, which leads me to believe she already suspected her thoughts were far from normal. Now that we've told her she is sick and needs to seek help, hopefully she will. I'm afraid she won't want to tell anyone else based on the strong reaction she got on this board. But we aren't professional therapists (at least I'm not). She needs to know that she CAN go to a professional for help and she WON'T get the same reaction as she got from us on this board. They will listen, and they will help. They will not judge, because she is sick.

Please, for your children's sake as well as for your own, go. Seek help. Your instincts were correct, your thoughts aren't normal.

 

[Mensa]

Re: oh sure this is NORMAL, if you are a weirdo

IT is not normal, it is not even healthy. get some therapy and think other thoughts when these come into your head.

ANd for God's sake, stop fingering yourself when you breast feed your child....it is an act of nurishment and love not an act of sex....get a grip please.

SIREN
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~~~IT IS ONE THING TO READ OR THINK ABOUT INCEST...IT IS ANOTHER TO MASTURBATE WHILE FEEDING YOUR CHILD...GEEZE~~~

Get a grip?? Isn't that what caused the problem?

 

[Katerina Val-Kyrie]

Your thoughts are truly sick. Please get some help. Kat