Is this normal for one?

[alluringwhisper]

Hello A/all

I haven't posted here for a long time,used to be a member but stopped for numerous reasons but created a new name and I am back,but also with a question. Most of the time I feel submissive,but as my profile said I want to be the lover...and treasure of my Master,possibly be with him forever but I also want my pets and slaves at the same time. Does this make me a switch or a submissive? I get confused because most of the time I can only think of my submissive side but certain times I have these desires to be the one to control. Are there other submissives that have pets or dommes that like to submit once in awhile?

AlluringWhisper

 

[Xelebes]

You're a switch. Simply, you exhibit both preferences.

 

[Bandit58]

I'm still exploring, I'm submissive with men but being bi I have fantasies about being dominant with women...... Perhaps I have a bit of switchyness in me too

 

[kitty4ever]

<smiles> You're a switch, and there is nothing wrong in that.

 

[enigma nocturne]

Switches are lovely. Relax, learn and enjoy..

 

[FungiUg]

Remember, you aren't defined by the label. You are what you are, the label is simply a convenience for filling in other people on your tendencies.

So don't try to live up to a label. Also, don't be afraid to change your label at your own convenience to suit. So with some people you may be submissive, with others dominant. As long as it works with the people involved (including yourself), the labels don't matter.

If I had to pick your label (PYL), I'd put it down as "switch".

Also keep in mind: you can pick your friends, and you can pick your nose, but you can't pick your friend's nose.

 

[Phoenix Stone]

hijack

but you can't pick your friend's nose.

Oh yeah? Then why d'you keep doin' it?