is there a sure fire way to squirt?

[Nmman69]

in my experience i've made girls squirt by telling them one thing. everytime you reach your orgasm just "push" like you're peeing and you will squirt and sure enough, it happened. the girl i'm with now does it but just can't squirt or even get remotely close to that wet, she just finishes i guess is the way to explain it. i know everyone is different but can everyone really squirt or am i missing out on a method?

 

[rbone04]

in my experience i've made girls squirt by telling them one thing. everytime you reach your orgasm just "push" like you're peeing and you will squirt and sure enough, it happened. the girl i'm with now does it but just can't squirt or even get remotely close to that wet, she just finishes i guess is the way to explain it. i know everyone is different but can everyone really squirt or am i missing out on a method?

Hell, I'm still looking for a sure fire way make a girl orgasm!... Sounds to me like you've either just gotten lucky or gotten pee'd on each time.

I've only been with one real squirter in my life, and I'm lucky at that. She did it by accident our first time and she told me that she would every time but usually tried to stop it from happening because she was embarrassed. Since she realized I was turned on by it, she never held back again and it was great.

Now, she had no idea how she DID make it happen because it was completely involuntary and she was more worried about how the hell to make it stop. Supposedly, every woman is capable but might not understand what they need to do. I've also heard that what women have to do when TRYING to make it happen (something similar to what you tell them to do) is kind of uncomfortable and unnatural during the throes of a solid orgasm.

Ummm... I think my response was just the long version of "I don't really know what to tell you" but hopefully there is a helpful thought buried in there. Good luck! Squirting is fun!

 

[Lord Pmann]

Hell, I'm still looking for a sure fire way make a girl orgasm!... Sounds to me like you've either just gotten lucky or gotten pee'd on each time.

I thought the pee thing.

 

[amofiga]

I tend to think that some women are squirters and some just aren't. I think it has somewhat to do with the level and duration of arousal and the intensity of the orgasm. The several women I've known who were regular squirters had truly intense orgasms. One I used to say had what we in college (back in the dark ages of the 60's) used to call "white eye rollbacks" where a girl would roll her eyes back like she was about to pass out before she came. Other women just orgasm with little moans, some with grunts, and some sort of silently with just a hard teeth-gritting grip. I'm not sure squirting can be "trained" but if a woman has a natural tendency toward it, encourage it so she'll be more relaxed in letting it happen. I think some women feel self conscious about it and try to hold back.

 

[Eilan]

Both of you should relax and let things happen. Even if she does end up being capable of squirting, she's less likely to be able to do it if she feels that you're pressuring her.

If it happens, fine. If not, that's fine, too. It's not like not squirting = inferior orgasms.

 

[longneckbottle3]

TRUST ME...ALL women CAN squirt...some more easier than others....has alot to do with relaxing, muscle contorol and the guy's ability to make her..... I've had some women say they COULDNT and I proved them wrong... They were very suprised and excited to be proven wrong... Get online and look at techniques and try them....like I said..all those factors come into play.

 

[delightdawn]

I don't know about sure fire way. But it is something I got better at as time went on. I think it has to do with relaxing and allowing things to happen. There isn't a definitive blueprint, rub here, touch this to make sure they squirt.

 

[pisces_girl]

The few times I've come close to squirting I was convinced I was about to pee and it freaked me out. All of the over thinking in the moment probably prevented it from happening...

 

[RedHotMamaTN]

in my experience i've made girls squirt by telling them one thing. everytime you reach your orgasm just "push" like you're peeing and you will squirt and sure enough, it happened. the girl i'm with now does it but just can't squirt or even get remotely close to that wet, she just finishes i guess is the way to explain it. i know everyone is different but can everyone really squirt or am i missing out on a method?

This is how I have been able to squirt. Otherwise I will just gush. Either way, its ALL good. But when pushing, you have to becareful pushing too hard or you may do something else... and that is not what you want to happen.

 

[RedHotMamaTN]

I should also say I have been able to squirt simply by having my kitty slapped.

 

[Lord Pmann]

Someone explain squirting to me. I don't get the obsession. Is it a better orgasm? I mean, I squirt when I orgasm. But that's a little different.

 

[Gillian_Erzebet]

Not every woman can squirt. Of those who can, some take a lot of work, some can do it very easily. My partner can squirt from only oral sex with no penetration. I have never ever and cannot squirt, and have tried every possible method. If the lady you're with doesn't squirt, then she doesn't squirt. Don't try to force it and don't think you're not giving her a good orgasm if she doesn't squirt. If you're looking for techniques to help, perhaps check out Tristan Taormino's guide to g-spot stimulation, or Courtney Trouble's recent work on squirting with Jiz Lee.

 

[analgirl69]

Every time I've gotten to that "pee" stage (once I heard to not get freaked out and push, lol.) I DO Push and nothing happens. I don't orgasm, don't squirt, it just ends up hurting. I honestly don't even like the feeling of supposedly being close. I feel dizzy, nauseous, and sore. Wonder why this is?

 

[Lord Pmann]

^^^

Careful or you'll cause vaginal gaping.

So really, does it feel better when you squirt? Or is this a visual thing?