Is There A Name For It?

[theravenfox]

You made me laugh!

I would call it torture. And, if I'm not mistaken, there are serious discussions taking place on a national and global level on the subject.

Sweet, sweet torture.

And I would never deny him for too long! He just has to earn it. Like I said...he LOVED it

 

[satindesire]

Lack of orgasms make me bitchy too.

However, now that I'm in my last trimester my libido has suddenly shifted and I am no longer in the mood for sex.

I do it anyway, for Mister, because that's my job and honor as his wife to take care of his sexual needs, but I have absolutely zero interest in having an orgasm anymore.

With as hypersexed as I used to be, it's a strange feeling...almost like someone's switched off a part of me.

 

[graceanne]

Lack of orgasms make me bitchy too.

However, now that I'm in my last trimester my libido has suddenly shifted and I am no longer in the mood for sex.

I do it anyway, for Mister, because that's my job and honor as his wife to take care of his sexual needs, but I have absolutely zero interest in having an orgasm anymore.

With as hypersexed as I used to be, it's a strange feeling...almost like someone's switched off a part of me.

I was like that with my oldest. For me it was party cause I was starting to feel claustrophobic cause I couldn't get away from A.

And then I got myself all freaked out, worried that I wouldn't return to normal.

The good news is I did.

 

[satindesire]

I was like that with my oldest. For me it was party cause I was starting to feel claustrophobic cause I couldn't get away from A.

And then I got myself all freaked out, worried that I wouldn't return to normal.

The good news is I did.

I think that maybe mine might be just hormonal, mostly. Lots of women experience libido changes during pregnancy, my doc said, and I didn't until very recently...like, within the last couple weeks. I didn't think I would because I went so long without noticing any difference.

Although I was diagnosed with SPD, so I'm an unhappy and very heavily medicated camper right now, and painkillers make me unable to orgasm anyway.

SPD sucks balls, btw. I might have to have a Cesarean! Ugh.

You felt claustrophobic? Were you on bedrest?

 

[graceanne]

I think that maybe mine might be just hormonal, mostly. Lots of women experience libido changes during pregnancy, my doc said, and I didn't until very recently...like, within the last couple weeks. I didn't think I would because I went so long without noticing any difference.

Although I was diagnosed with SPD, so I'm an unhappy and very heavily medicated camper right now, and painkillers make me unable to orgasm anyway.

SPD sucks balls, btw. I might have to have a Cesarean! Ugh.

You felt claustrophobic? Were you on bedrest?

What's SPD?

And yes, I was. I had toxemia (also known as pre-eclempsia). But I, also, have a very large personal bubble, and I always get claustrophobic at the ends of my pregnancies.

 

[satindesire]

What's SPD?

And yes, I was. I had toxemia (also known as pre-eclempsia). But I, also, have a very large personal bubble, and I always get claustrophobic at the ends of my pregnancies.

http://www.birthsource.com/scripts/article.asp?articleid=189

Ahhh, I see. I'm attatched at the hip to Mister. The kind of 24-7 spending time togetherness that usually only happens in the beginning of a relationship.

I needed LOTS of personal time and space with every other relationship, but for some reason, I'm really chill with Mister and we get along so well I never feel crowded.

ETA: It's really strange, actually, I'm such a loner that even with my closest and best loved family members I still need lots of space. I have no idea what makes HIM so different.

 

[graceanne]

http://www.birthsource.com/scripts/article.asp?articleid=189

Ahhh, I see. I'm attatched at the hip to Mister. The kind of 24-7 spending time togetherness that usually only happens in the beginning of a relationship.

I needed LOTS of personal time and space with every other relationship, but for some reason, I'm really chill with Mister and we get along so well I never feel crowded.

ETA: It's really strange, actually, I'm such a loner that even with my closest and best loved family members I still need lots of space. I have no idea what makes HIM so different.

Ouch. A lady at our church had that, but I didn't know what it's called. *hugs*

I do ok with touching and cuddling with K and the kids, but I have to have some not touching/cuddling time. Especially when I'm not feeling well and/or in pain, and I was very sick for all my pregnancies.

 

[OzoneRed]

Tantalism?

http://tantalism.org/