Is size important to your self esteem??

[FlamingoBlue]

All this talk on the BB about "size" has caused me to question how important size is in infuencing self esteem. I have never measured the size of my dick. I have seen bigger and I have seen smaller. I never really thought much of it, as long as I could work with what I had.

Candidly, I read abut dicks that are 10-12 inches long and 3-6 inches around and I shudder at the cost of the trousers that the guy has to have custom made. (That is a whole other person). How do you care for an organ that size? Do you give your dick its own room if it's that large?

And large tits. I understand the attraction, but the burden must be difficult to bear. Can't imagine having to carry the extra weight or attention.

So, what is it like for you to have a large/ small dick or set of tits?? What's it really like??

blue

 

[Juliangel]

So, what is it like for you to have a large/ small dick or set of tits?? What's it really like??

blue as a 36B I have no idea how it feels but my sister is a 44HH and hates them. She gets back aches and wants reduction surgery. When she got pregnant she said they hurt so much and now that she has given birth and is breast feeding they hurt more.

 

[WriterDom]

Thickness is good, but length is overrated. The mind is the greatest erogenous zone. With it, you have everything. Without it, you have nothing.

 

[Earthmuffin]

My bust size has nothing to do with my self-esteem from my perspective. Society puts the stigma on those who have more and those who have less as somehow being more or less of a person. Horsehockey.

My momma taught me that any man who demands his partner be big busted and tight is a man with a big mouth and not much else (including imagination).

 

[SimplySouthern]

Until such time as I begin to receive complaints about my bust size...I'm OK with them.

Then...who knows what I will do. Probably refuse to let whatever stupid man says something negative about them to ever view them again.

 

[TonyG]

Sometimes I wish I were two inches taller.

 

[teresafannin]

tony, that is hysterical!!! I was thinking the same thing, at 5'2", everyone is taller than I am. I am a 36 B & learned a long time ago, that if all a man is interested in is my breasts, he is not worth my time. My sweetie is average, we have never measured it, but he is all I need or want. The thought of someone with a 10" dick getting near me is terrifying. I would run the other direction.

 

[Juliangel]

tony, that is hysterical!!! I was thinking the same thing, at 5'2", everyone is taller than I am.

I am only 5'1", not that there is much difference but your are taller that someone, me.

 

[Jake2001]

Big bits?

I agree with you Blue. Mine fits right into the top of the bell curve (pun, as always, is intended) and in just about every other curve it has been subjected to. I've never measured it but I'm satisfied with it.

Women, in general, seem to make a bigger deal out of both penis and breast size than men. My wife is a good example. She has gorgeous tits but complains they are too small. She has a beautiful figure but complains she's too fat (she's barely 100 pounds and stands 5' 4"). Go figure.

Personally, I like small breasts … umm, medium ones too … and ah, larger ones are nice. Okay, okay, I like women's breasts in all their shapes and sizes but perspective is what matters. Nothing turns me on more than a woman's pretty butt or pretty legs that go all the way down to the ground. Suffice to say that it is the whole package that counts not just the piece parts. Remember it was the Ford Edsil that was designed with all the most popular automotive parts and was a complete flop when it hit the market.

 

[CRaZy]

I couldn't agree more about larger tits. I am 38DD but only 5'4'. They are always in the way; it is HELL buying swimmers, it is HELL going swimming due to all the guys ogling ya chest and don't even MENTION jogging. The thing about Panadolboy is he loves just me. He doesn't notice if I gain/lose weight, change hair colour or paint my nails blue. I always complain about this but deep down I know that it's better than being loved for external attributes. His own er...attributes are perfectly acceptable by the way. Pity he gets so many headaches - LOL.

 

[scylis]

there's a saying which i believe applies to this very situation...

it goes something like this: "big donkeys, small donkeys, all fun to eat"

 

[Behr_Naked]

All right well I'm a DD and I haven't had back problems because of them so I don't know about that. As for the size of a guys dick, well I've had a couple guys that were in the very large category and a couple that wanted to do it doggy style well that hurt because they were to long and if they wanted to put it all the way in it just wasn't happening for me. And I've had guys that were thick and that was cool because you feel stretched. So I guess it's just a matter of how girls are built differently inside as well, I'm sure that a long one is very good to some women just like short is good to others.

To me as long as the guy knows what he's doing and how far or fast or slow or hard he should go then it's all good.

 

[christo]

How hangs the hammer?

As the owner of a average size dick (at least according to the Kinsey report and HUSTLER magazine), I've never had a woman say a bad word about my size. Not that they necessarily would, to my face. I think that if you're confident about yourself, don't act hangdog because you don't have a sledgehammer hanging between your legs, girls will like you fine.

I've found the best way to make up for a cock that can't double as a Louisville Slugger is to develop a real passion for eating pussy. I mean learn to do it well, and learn to love it.

I wish "Mr. Happy" was a little bigger. It would make certain complicated positions easier. But everyone would like to change something about themselves. Girls want bigger (or smaller) breasts. Another thing I've learned-- when you're about to have sex with a girl you like, and she's 5-2 and has brown hair, big breasts and wide hips, suddenly you find that you LOVE curvy brown haired girls. Even if your entire life you've fancied leggy blondes. If size matters, it's pretty far down the list.

 

[Closet Desire]

Interesting responses...

Well, as they hang I've seen larger and I've seen smaller or, in my case, I've seen mostly larger! Never been an issue...fortunately. Then again, CD-able is 5'2" and 48kg (very petite). Any position works...for both of us...and oral is heaven.

All I can think of to say to those fella's with ten inches swinging free is "you don't know what you're missing!"

 

[KillerMuffin]

5' 1/2" (the half is very important!) 38DD

They are convenient when trolling for guys because they tend to cut down on the competition. It's also kind, umm, endearing when the one or two males of the population who actually do this get a shot down my shirt and say something to embarrass the heck out of themselves and turn beet red and apologize. Mostly though, men talk to my chest. Of course they get a bit embarrassed when I pick them up and talk to him back with them. Or smack something over them and say yoohooo up hear babe. Or the StudMuffin does his little strangled roar and picks em up by the scruff of the neck. Now that isn't very amusing.

 

[Sammyjo]

The 38DD's I have are not important to my self-esteem. I don't really care. My self image is not based on outside appearance...granted, I've thought if I could only change this or that, things would be better...but I've been learning that self-confidence can go a long way in attracting others to you. And while there may be that instant gratification when a man (or woman) can't keep their eyes off your tits, it's much better to be admired for your intelligence, wit, personality, etc.

I think the best compliment I received was when the woman training me in said I was smart, a fast learner. She's one of my best friends at work.

The worst thing...the hot guy saw me checking him out! UGH!!! I was actually looking at his crotch...how embarrassing. However, I don't know if he knew the precise area I was looking at, since it was across the room...but I do know he saw me looking...

 

[Countess DeWinter]

Great comments, all. I've had rather large breasts for most of my life and have mixed opinions on them. First of all, I like the attention they bring. I love to wear V-necked sweaters and tops.
On the flip side, though, I don't like having to buy dresses a size larger than my bottom half requires. I don't like buying two-piece outfits because if one half fits, the other half doesn't (no, I don't mix 'em up...that's rather dishonest and not fair to the next person). I can't sleep on my stomach and gravity is my enemy. I can't shop at Victoria's Secret because the VC woman does not have tits this big. I'd love to wear those flimsy lacy or sheer bras that show lots of nipple, but I need more support than that.
But...I love the attention. I love getting groped. I love making a man's eyes bulge when I brush past him in a crowded bar.
I guess I'll just make the best of them. Fortunately they are not the basis of my self esteem.

 

[FlamingoBlue]

I was just thinking.....

Dangerous as that is. What if you were a she-male with large breasts and a big schwantz?? Would you have heavy duty self-esteem?

I must say, though, that your answers have been pretty interesting. Keep 'em coming.

blue

 

[Stormy]

damn, damn, damn!

Here I go telling shit that I'm gonna want to retract later. Deep breath here. Inhale, exhale.....ok, ok....I was once a 34B. Then I had kids and breast fed. Needless to say, my babies were baracudas and sucked the life out of me. After weening I shrunk to a 34A. I hated my appearance, fuck what my hub and other men thought, I hated them! Soooo...I saved up my money, (3500.00), and got implants. Went from a 34A to a 34D. Most painful thing I ever did! But, it was worth it. A friend told me last week that they were bought and paid for, like they aren't mine! My response: If you buy a shirt..., it's yours. So get over it!
OK, now, dick size.....my first hub was hung like a horse. I divorced him after only 3 mths. Need I say more??????

 

[SeXy ReDHeD]

As far as breast size goes, they don't really affect my self-esteem. I'm pretty short (5'1/2" like KM), so I can't really see myself with big boobs. As it is, I'm a 36B and pretty happy with them.

As far as body size goes, though, my self-esteem is majorly affected. At certain times of the month my body (specifically my tummy) is bigger than at other times, and my self-esteem just goes down the toilet. At those times I wear nothing but oversized shirts and baggy windpants, and try not to leave my house. Perhaps it's unhealthy, but it keeps me from letting myself get any bigger.

 

[Never]

I have to say that my self-esteem was effected in a positive manner once I heard that I was taller than most of the women in this thread.

As the shortest person in my family my height bothers me to no end and like tony would kill for just two more inches. I've never quite understood women complaining about men ogling their breasts as I've never been ogled - maybe that's just me though.

Unlike Crazy, I don't think that double Ds are bothersome at all. I have no problem swimming and if I want to do some serious running I just smack those puppies down by slipping on a sports bra. And heck, if you're one for wondering aimlessly into walls that extra padding does wonders.

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