FUCKING DICK SIZE

[MagicFlute]

This IS a site dedicated to erotic fantasy, so...not everything has to be "peer reviewed scholarly article" submission status.

And I say that as a literal practicing scientist. And if I keep practicing, someday? I'll science proper, a right proper Sir Galahad tying a coconut to a swallow science. After all, if the woman weighs the same as a duck, then....she is made of wood, therefore.....??? And this is where I always hit "the wall".

Hmmmm... you sound like a witch!

 

[jassybb]

Men are too obsessed or worried abut the size of penis. Its not as important to us women as you think lol

 

[FlirtyWordy]

That size chart is comically bogus and is often referenced by shady companies promoting some bullshit penile enlargement contraption or supplements. I mean, c'mon... 11" of length and 7.5" of girth is supposed to be "Enjoyable"? That's pretty close to being fisted. Seriously, that data is made up and is absolutely ridiculous. And just because it resembles a chart doesn't make it scientific.

The most credible studies on penis size preference show that women's preference is in line with average size (5.6", or whatever). Likewise, the most commonly purchased dildo size is "average." - at least when purchased by women. This does not mean women don't care about size, but it does suggest they prefer average to outliers.

As I've said countless times in countless threads.. I have a huge penis (length is 8 1/8"; girth is 6 1/4" the entire length) and it has NEVER BEEN ANY KIND OF AN ADVANTAGE when having sex. All forms of penetrative sex (oral, vaginal, anal) are rendered uncomforable by my girth, and even when PIV happens, it's far less fun for me and my partner because at least 2" - 3" of me is still outside of my partner when my head hits her cervix - which is unpleasant for both of us! I've even had single night hookups say, "Oh jeez, sorry but it's just a handjob for you - you're so big it's going to be uncomfortable for me." Yeah... not great.

It is interesting that so many men fantasize about having a dick that makes sex painful for women. Hmm... wonder why.

You're right; the chart is interesting, but not the right one for this discussion.

I tried to upload another chart but for some reason it kept disappearing.

This meta-analysis of research found that mean erect girth was 4.67 inches, and mean erect length was 5.44 inches, which seems in line with what I've seen in individual studies. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/40248849/

My penis is not as large as yours, but I too, have been with partners who said it's "too big." Not many, but some.

 

[drunkwombat]

It's not that hard

 

[whenagain]

Over seven inches can be incredibly uncomfortable and difficult. And, to be honest, a real myth that guys perpetuate through porn movie regurgitation. Four or five is verrrry sexy and six to seven is VERY big.

Ahem. .

*lowers sunglasses*

 

[LMWM321]

Good point. It would be interesting to see just how good we are at measuring by eye.

Not very well, and women overestimate its length as much as men. This was mentioned in a study somewhere... it may be worth googling if curious..

Edit:
It's not entirely surprising that it happens. ..Obviously, men want to think they're bigger than they are and some women want to equate their lovers big dick with their own attractiveness - ie., "I'm so attractive, I can land a guy with a huge dick!"

 

[LMWM321]

You're right; the chart is interesting, but not the right one for this discussion.

Sorry, but it's NOT an interesting chart if it's total BS. And if it's BS, how can it be right for ANY discussion about the truth of dick size?

For fuck sake people, don't many of you see a urologist once in a while - especially since most of you are men over 60? ..Well, ask him/ her what is the average size of an erect penis. They will tell you it's well under 6" of length and under 5" of girth. And while you're at it, ask what the average depth of a vagina is and you'll hear it's 3-5". And while it does increase during sexual arousal, even then, the VAST majority of women CANNOT accommodate the entire length of a 7" dick without her cervix being banged which most women (and men) consider uncomfortable.

I'd like to think there is some compelling set of actual, validated facts that can put men's idiotic preoccupation with their dick size to rest but, alas, I don't think there is. We can thank porn for that, I suppose.

 

[bobb64]

why do all the know it alls keep this bull shit thread going?

 

[BillyWalrus]

why do all the know it alls keep this bull shit thread going?

Because of all the ignorant idiots who believe the bullshit they made up.

 

[FlirtyWordy]

Sorry, but it's NOT an interesting chart if it's total BS. And if it's BS, how can it be right for ANY discussion about the truth of dick size?

For fuck sake people, don't many of you see a urologist once in a while - especially since most of you are men over 60? ..Well, ask him/ her what is the average size of an erect penis. They will tell you it's well under 6" of length and under 5" of girth. And while you're at it, ask what the average depth of a vagina is and you'll hear it's 3-5". And while it does increase during sexual arousal, even then, the VAST majority of women CANNOT accommodate the entire length of a 7" dick without her cervix being banged which most women (and men) consider uncomfortable.

I'd like to think there is some compelling set of actual, validated facts that can put men's idiotic preoccupation with their dick size to rest but, alas, I don't think there is. We can thank porn for that, I suppose.

It's interesting to me not for the alleged "sweet spots" (the colored squares) but the distribution.

I wish I could get the other chart to upload. It's a solid graph illustrating distribution without the additional stuff.

You and I actually seem to be in agreement here, as far as I can see. I'm arguing against the "size inflation" that happens on this site and everywhere on the internet, and the acceptance of the true distribution of size, and — most importantly — recognition that different partners want different kinds of dicks.

I also don't think it's fair to trash men for their "idiotic preoccupation with their dick size" until, to paraphrase, you've fucked a mile in a someone's penis. Contrary to common understanding, penis display and size obsession is rooted in biology and evolution more than culture (though culture obviously may amplify the phenomenon). Penis display in primates is an almost universal phenomenon in higher primates, which we human males are ... well, most anyway.

 

[Justhappytobealive]

I don’t know about the rest of the community but “Let’s Get To Seeing Those Averages”…..!