Is it okay to masturbate

[Beck31]

If you are married? I say yes it is. Feel free to agree/disagree

 

[RedHotMamaTN]

Hell yeah! I say this because maybe they aren't home, working, or sick, not in the mood. When the feeling hits I say batter up! lol

 

[Frodo55]

I do it all the time. But that's what happens when you get shut down

 

[Beck31]

Thanks for the responces.

 

[Youremine]

Absolutely!

 

[MatthewVett]

I think so.

 

[fma20fma]

hi

yes.it is ok.

 

[Beck31]

So far all positive responces so yay.

 

[amofiga]

If you are married? I say yes it is. Feel free to agree/disagree

Absolutely. You can't always be in the mood for your spouse nor them you. People have colds, get the flu, are worn out from work, worn out from taking care of the kids, out of town, whatever. Or, maybe you just feel like fantasizing about the woman or guy who lives down the street and would rather not discuss it with your spouse. A thousand reasons to just go for it.

 

[Beck31]

Yes. Those are some good reasons.

 

[HotHelen]

if it wasn't okay to masturbate I'd either be dead or out fucking around every nite!

 

[Beck31]

I don't know about that but I am glad to see the positive responces.

 

[StilettoSlut]

Absolutely! Why not? Even if you love having sex with the person you're married to or in a relationship with, you still want some alone time sometimes.


Hell... I can get free car washes from my dealership, but occasionally I like to wash my car myself. I get some satisfaction in it and sometimes do a better job.

 

[nastyman12a]

If it's not ok, then I'd spend more time drinking, and having cheap superficial one night stands.

Damn that kind of sounds good. maybe I should stop masturbating.

 

[StilettoSlut]

If it's not ok, then I'd spend more time drinking, and having cheap superficial one night stands.

Damn that kind of sounds good. maybe I should stop masturbating.

Masturbating is cheaper

 

[njlauren]

Unless your propensity is to accept what the old farts running the vatican says I say sure. It takes pressure off our spouses when they don't want to do it, and they also allow us to fantasize and dream without the pressure of performing sexually, helps keep the plumbing going, too.

I think the only place where masturbation is not okay is if it is intruding into the sex life of the people, if someone is spending all their sexual energy masturbating, doing virtual sex and masturbating, whatever, where instead of being a supplement to couple sex, it replaces it...

 

[nastyman12a]

Masturbating is cheaper

True, very true.

 

[SactoRN]

Of course it is

 

[RedHotMamaTN]

I think its a fun way to get the sex started. Let him watch and he will forget hes so tired at least for a little bit.

 

[nykrnchi]

I certainly is. Sometimes you just need to take matters into your own hands!

 

[nastyman12a]

I think its a fun way to get the sex started. Let him watch and he will forget hes so tired at least for a little bit.

If she masturbated, I'd gladly watch and then join in. But since she's lost interest. that's why I masturbate.

 

[StilettoSlut]

If she masturbated, I'd gladly watch and then join in. But since she's lost interest. that's why I masturbate.

Why do you think she's lost interest? This always makes me curious because I have been in multiple long relationships and have always had a higher sex drive than the guys I was with.

 

[nastyman12a]

Started with menopause, and then had another health issue. Nothing in her control at all. and it's something we do our best to work threw.

 

[StilettoSlut]

Started with menopause, and then had another health issue. Nothing in her control at all. and it's something we do our best to work threw.

Ahh... I'm sorry to hear that. That's probably difficult for the both of you.

 

[RedHotMamaTN]

Menapause isnt easy that is for sure but look at it this way, it doesnt last forever, just may seem like it.