Everyday Sex - Ours (and Your) Sex Diary

[Wonderer67]

I wish society would allow people to be as free about erotica as other hobbies

Totally understand that.

I wish things could be more open. But we have amazing sex positive sites like this where we can be free and discuss pretty much anything.

 

[Dee_LiciousCD]

Long Live Lit!

 

[The_inspector_and_the_fish]

I would love to hear from other people about their every day sex lives.

Could be mundane, all the way to some of the crazy sexcapades we hear about all over this board!

I just have a thing for and about every day people. How they make love, their own sex drives, their sexual fantasies, and turn ons.

Alright I'll give it a go! My wife and I have been married nearly 15 years. We've had a big rough patch in our marriage but seem to be coming out the other side. We haven't had sex for ages, but we're trying to get back on the wagon

A couple of weeks ago we went out to see a band - another thing we haven't done for ages. We came home and got into bed. She started kissing me and I kissed back. We very quickly got into quite passionate kissing and my hands started roaming over her body, especially her arse and the inside of her thighs. She started gasping and moaning almost straight away.

She undressed and I started sucking on her titties, first one then the other, biting them gently and using lots of spit. More moaning from her - she loves having her tits sucked and I love sucking them!

Obviously I was hard by now, and my wife loves sticking cock so the next step was obvious. It was my turn to moan as she spat on my dick, sucked it and wanked it into her mouth.

We fucked missionary first, and it felt good sliding into her wet pussy. There was probably dirty talk - me calling her a slut, her telling me how much she loved my cock - but I can't remember exactly.

She usually cums when she's fucked from behind rubbing her clit so she knelt on the bed while I grabbed her arse and fucked her. It didn't take long for her to cum and I wasn't far behind, shooting a load into her pussy.

Once I'm back from this work trip I'm on there should be more sex for me to write about here

 

[Wonderer67]

Alright I'll give it a go! My wife and I have been married nearly 15 years. We've had a big rough patch in our marriage but seem to be coming out the other side. We haven't had sex for ages, but we're trying to get back on the wagon

A couple of weeks ago we went out to see a band - another thing we haven't done for ages. We came home and got into bed. She started kissing me and I kissed back. We very quickly got into quite passionate kissing and my hands started roaming over her body, especially her arse and the inside of her thighs. She started gasping and moaning almost straight away.

She undressed and I started sucking on her titties, first one then the other, biting them gently and using lots of spit. More moaning from her - she loves having her tits sucked and I love sucking them!

Obviously I was hard by now, and my wife loves sticking cock so the next step was obvious. It was my turn to moan as she spat on my dick, sucked it and wanked it into her mouth.

We fucked missionary first, and it felt good sliding into her wet pussy. There was probably dirty talk - me calling her a slut, her telling me how much she loved my cock - but I can't remember exactly.

She usually cums when she's fucked from behind rubbing her clit so she knelt on the bed while I grabbed her arse and fucked her. It didn't take long for her to cum and I wasn't far behind, shooting a load into her pussy.

Once I'm back from this work trip I'm on there should be more sex for me to write about here

Love that!

Rough patches happen but I’m glad you guys are keeping things fresh by going out, seeing bands, having a drink etc.

And then the fun!!

 

[The_inspector_and_the_fish]

Love that!

Rough patches happen but I’m glad you guys are keeping things fresh by going out, seeing bands, having a drink etc.

And then the fun!!

Thanks mate! Loving reading your sex diary and it's given me inspiration to get back into our sex life and then share it here - stay tuned for (hopefully) more exciting instalments!

 

[dkak001]

I would love to hear from other people about their every day sex lives. I just have a thing for and about every day people. How they make love, their own sex drives, their sexual fantasies, and turn ons.

I've had this up for a while now. Not sure why it's taking so long to respond to the comment.
You mentioned the literotica crew probably being more sex positive, and I'm sure that's true. It's why I'm here too, to learn about others and what they like.

We're probably quite a bit different than most couples, but I think there are a few who share similar stories. Anal, or more generally pegging drives our sex life. Her single most favorite go to is my ass. Anything sex related revolves around her putting something in my butt. Plugs, dildos, toys, or fingers, or fists, she gets off on penetrating me. She has a lot of trouble getting off if she hasn't put something in my ass. And on the rare occasion we didn't, she usually fantasizes out loud about me being penetrated by a toy, or cock, or multiple cocks.

To be honest, receiving anal is one of my huge turn ons. (It's not my only turn on, but it's a huge part of who I am sexually) I discovered this early on, and it was something that I was ashamed of for a long time. While it was something that drove my sexuality, it was something that I could never bring myself to share with anyone. I've come to learn how much it really is a part of who I am.

Naturally, you might wonder how we both came to find each other's secret? The short story is she just went for it. One day when we were first dating we were goofing around, and she was playing with my cock and just stuck a finger in my ass. We were both so turned on and surprised that session didn't last long. Afterwords, we discussed it. We have since come to the conclusion that if she hand't taken the chance I probably wouldn't have ever said anything. If I had rejected her for doing it, she probably would have never tried it again. Somehow we both found our perfect pervert with corresponding fetishes. It was meant to be!

As the decades have gone by, my sex drive has remained strong, while hers has diminished. Honestly, you might think that's been hard to navigate, but it really hasn't been. She's perfectly happy to fuck me with toys on days where she isn't particularly horny. On days that she is, we have a few "go to" things that we like. One of our favorites lately has been her on her back, with a vibrator between her legs and her strapon on. Then I ride her "cowgirl" style. She's discovered that after the first orgasm she can turn off the vibrator, and can continue to orgasm multiple times just from me grinding the strapon onto her pubic bone. I'm usually a bit slower than she is, so it takes me a bit of time to get there. Most of the time I can achieve a hands free orgasm and just spray onto her belly (It's an orgasm unlike any other!). When I'm riding her, I actually don't like her touching my cock. It's a distraction from the feeling of "her" inside me.

It just happens to be who we are. That's not to say we don't enjoy other things, but it's the primary activity. We've had a lot of amazing experience, and a lot of funny ones over the years that haven't involved my ass. She's very orgasmic, so multiples is the norm for her. But we don't have a lot of "normal" "vanilla" sex. Lately it's been maybe once every couple of months.

I don't think very many people in our "IRL" world would understand or even accept what we like. We fit each other very well and it works for us. I do wish she was into receiving oral more often, as that is another activity that I really like. We're discussing that, and a few other things that I wish were more common for us. We're working on it together. Probably the biggest challenge is when she has come a few times in a night she's just DONE for a week or week and a half. That's a concept that I just don't understand. Like wise, she really doesn't understand how I'm never really "done".

But like amateur porn, I’m always intrigued about what real people are doing and how they’re doing it…

Yeah, exactly. Connecting with real people over what drives them wild is what really makes this place great!

 

[Wonderer67]

I've had this up for a while now. Not sure why it's taking so long to respond to the comment.
You mentioned the literotica crew probably being more sex positive, and I'm sure that's true. It's why I'm here too, to learn about others and what they like.

We're probably quite a bit different than most couples, but I think there are a few who share similar stories. Anal, or more generally pegging drives our sex life. Her single most favorite go to is my ass. Anything sex related revolves around her putting something in my butt. Plugs, dildos, toys, or fingers, or fists, she gets off on penetrating me. She has a lot of trouble getting off if she hasn't put something in my ass. And on the rare occasion we didn't, she usually fantasizes out loud about me being penetrated by a toy, or cock, or multiple cocks.

To be honest, receiving anal is one of my huge turn ons. (It's not my only turn on, but it's a huge part of who I am sexually) I discovered this early on, and it was something that I was ashamed of for a long time. While it was something that drove my sexuality, it was something that I could never bring myself to share with anyone. I've come to learn how much it really is a part of who I am.

Naturally, you might wonder how we both came to find each other's secret? The short story is she just went for it. One day when we were first dating we were goofing around, and she was playing with my cock and just stuck a finger in my ass. We were both so turned on and surprised that session didn't last long. Afterwords, we discussed it. We have since come to the conclusion that if she hand't taken the chance I probably wouldn't have ever said anything. If I had rejected her for doing it, she probably would have never tried it again. Somehow we both found our perfect pervert with corresponding fetishes. It was meant to be!

As the decades have gone by, my sex drive has remained strong, while hers has diminished. Honestly, you might think that's been hard to navigate, but it really hasn't been. She's perfectly happy to fuck me with toys on days where she isn't particularly horny. On days that she is, we have a few "go to" things that we like. One of our favorites lately has been her on her back, with a vibrator between her legs and her strapon on. Then I ride her "cowgirl" style. She's discovered that after the first orgasm she can turn off the vibrator, and can continue to orgasm multiple times just from me grinding the strapon onto her pubic bone. I'm usually a bit slower than she is, so it takes me a bit of time to get there. Most of the time I can achieve a hands free orgasm and just spray onto her belly (It's an orgasm unlike any other!). When I'm riding her, I actually don't like her touching my cock. It's a distraction from the feeling of "her" inside me.

It just happens to be who we are. That's not to say we don't enjoy other things, but it's the primary activity. We've had a lot of amazing experience, and a lot of funny ones over the years that haven't involved my ass. She's very orgasmic, so multiples is the norm for her. But we don't have a lot of "normal" "vanilla" sex. Lately it's been maybe once every couple of months.

I don't think very many people in our "IRL" world would understand or even accept what we like. We fit each other very well and it works for us. I do wish she was into receiving oral more often, as that is another activity that I really like. We're discussing that, and a few other things that I wish were more common for us. We're working on it together. Probably the biggest challenge is when she has come a few times in a night she's just DONE for a week or week and a half. That's a concept that I just don't understand. Like wise, she really doesn't understand how I'm never really "done".



Yeah, exactly. Connecting with real people over what drives them wild is what really makes this place great!

Thank you for sharing.

Sounds like a great connection in many ways!

You have the trust and communication to be able to share your desires without shame or embarrassment.

(We have that too which is really key - it doesn’t mean she likes all of mg fantasies and turn ons…. Some she is ok with, others she puts up with (I know when she’s not really into it) And other times she will make a face… which I know is a no go for her.

I am glad you guys found your pleasure thru being pegged. My wife and I have done it a lot in the past but not any time recently.

I am sort of back in the mood for being pegged , so maybe sometime soon!