Is it odd that a woman likes to read and gets off on man on man sex stories?

[donnabear21]

Is it odd that a woman likes to read and gets off on man on man sex stories? I love reading them on this site and others and my husband says its strange and it disturbs him. Im just wondering if im weird for liking them. Please let me know what you think. Any and all comments welcome!

 

[donnabear21]

Hmmm no replies yet kinda worries me. Maybe it is strange and no one has the heart to tell me. lol

 

[Wolf of Mibu 69]

It's no different than straight guys like me getting off to girl on girl stories and having women give us the evil eye when they find out.

 

[donnabear21]

lol thanks, that is a good point. I hadnt quite thought of it that way before. Makes me feel better anyway.

 

[alli_cat]

I don't know if it's odd, how does one define 'odd' anyway??

I do know though that I certainly enjoy reading them, looking at pics, and (absolute best of all!) watching my husband with another man... yummy

 

[geishaGirl]

I don't think it's "odd" at all..........depends on the way you view it I guess, which is the whole point.

I really enjoy stories with men in them......it turns me on. I especially liked hearing about my husband's experience of receiving anal sex with a man recently And Wolf of Mibu 69 had a good point there when he said it was no different than men getting off on stories with women being sexual together.....nothing wrong with it I say.

Maybe your husband feels a little insecure or is reading too much into it thinking that because you like the stories you expect him to be like the men in them??? Just a thought......

 

[anne27]

Is it odd that a woman likes to read and gets off on man on man sex stories? I love reading them on this site and others and my husband says its strange and it disturbs him. Im just wondering if im weird for liking them. Please let me know what you think. Any and all comments welcome!

I don't think anything is 'weird' if you like it and it hurts no one. I have always been turned on by male to male contact. Recently, for the very first time, I got to watch my SO with another man. It was one of the most erotic things I have ever witnessed.
Some of the pics are posted in the amateur forum .

 

[karuna]

Im just wondering if im weird for liking them.

Yes, you are weird for liking that! And weird is good!

In any case, you are far from being alone. I have an ex who liked watching gay male porn. We watched some straight porn together, but gay male was the only kind she watched alone, for herself.

And don't forget slash fiction: the subject matter is mostly gay male sex, and the writers and fans are mostly women.

And finally, many surveys reveal that the MMF threesome is the number 2 fantasy of hetero women (following cunnilingus).

-k

 

[alli_cat]

Just one more thought, don't know if you ever watched Queer as Folk, but something like 50% of the viewers were straight females - just wanting to perv!! There's a good article about it here: http://www.fabmagazine.com/features/womenwet/

 

[nipers]

Me to

I like to read storeys like that to.Sometimes male on male. sometimes girl on girl. Both get me hot.B.T.W. i am on L.I. to

 

[Pookie]

If it has good character development and an interesting plot, then I do like reading queer sex stories (specifically gay male, lesbian, & bisexual) as much as any other genre. But it also depends on the other "themes" (domination, humiliation, s/m, etc) that are included in the story.

And to specifically answer your question, no. I don't see it as strange at all. Each of us has our own preferences in the kind of erotica we enjoy. If it's not harming anyone, then it's all cool with me.

 

[donnabear21]

Thanks to everyone who has posted so far, I really appreciate it. I have already explained to my husband more than once that while its an awesome fantasy that he be with another guy, I know he is so homophobic that it would never happen and thats ok. As for watching Queer As Folk, I have watched it and loved the show. Unfortunately my husband walked in on me watching it and told me I had a disgusting sex drive. So....needless to say i havent watched it after that. But, anyway, thanks for all the support, I dont feel weird anymore now that I know im not the only female who enjoys m/m sex stories.

DB21

 

[Queersetti]

Most of the signed feedback I have gotten for the stories I have posted on Lit has been from women, so I'd have to say that, while you may be weird, you are not alone.

 

[janisjoplin197888]

Is it odd that a woman likes to read and gets off on man on man sex stories? I love reading them on this site and others and my husband says its strange and it disturbs him. Im just wondering if im weird for liking them. Please let me know what you think. Any and all comments welcome!

Not at all, I am right there with you, I love reading m/m stories(oone day I'll be lucky enough to watch*grins*) It is absolutely NO different then men enjoying f/f porn, stories, ect. I have not met a man yet whose not interested in seeing 2 women together.

 

[carsonshepherd]

Most of the signed feedback I have gotten for the stories I have posted on Lit has been from women, so I'd have to say that, while you may be weird, you are not alone.

Ditto. And why be normal?

 

[alli_cat]

Thanks to everyone who has posted so far, I really appreciate it. I have already explained to my husband more than once that while its an awesome fantasy that he be with another guy, I know he is so homophobic that it would never happen and thats ok. As for watching Queer As Folk, I have watched it and loved the show. Unfortunately my husband walked in on me watching it and told me I had a disgusting sex drive. So....needless to say i havent watched it after that. But, anyway, thanks for all the support, I dont feel weird anymore now that I know im not the only female who enjoys m/m sex stories.

DB21

A similar thing happened with my best friend, her husband has told her she's not allowed to watch the dvds of the series on 'his' tv, as it will somehow sully it!! Ah well. If you lived anywhere near this side of the world, I'd invite you over for a movie night and we could salivate to our hearts' content

 

[fenderman68]

Thanks to everyone who has posted so far, I really appreciate it. I have already explained to my husband more than once that while its an awesome fantasy that he be with another guy, I know he is so homophobic that it would never happen and thats ok. As for watching Queer As Folk, I have watched it and loved the show. Unfortunately my husband walked in on me watching it and told me I had a disgusting sex drive. So....needless to say i havent watched it after that. But, anyway, thanks for all the support, I dont feel weird anymore now that I know im not the only female who enjoys m/m sex stories.

DB21

It's unfortunate that your husband is so dated in his sexual ideas. I know my wife loves the idea of seeing me with another guy......just as I would love to see her with another woman. Even if it was something that I heartedly objected to doing in real life, I would support her in any type of sexual fantasy she finds erotic. That's what keeps things exciting.

 

[Rhys]

I have a 3 to 1 ratio in feedback. Most of the feedback I get is from women.

I don't mind this at all.

 

[DimplesCharlie]

We both enjoy good stories. We enjoy good ff as well as mm and couples stories. Weird?? Don't think so, just normal as far as we are concerned.

DC

 

[ponyboy45]

Interesting. . .

I don't think that it is odd at all that a woman enjoys reading stories about man to man sex and gets off on them. I don't see any difference in that than guys who like looking at pictures or movies of 2 women having sex with one another. Being an exhibitionist, I think that it would be even more fun having a woman watching me and a buddy having sex. It would be even better if she were the camera person to film all the action. Odd? No way! I think that it's awesome that a woman enjoys reading about and watching man to man sex as much as guys like me enjoy having sex with another man.

 

[fallon2]

What is odd

anymore?
No, seriously, what is odd?
If you can be pleasured or pleasure why not?
The brain is truly the most erotic part of the body.
Hey, donna, if you become sexually excited from reading those stories and you are able to use that with hubby for better sex and orgasms then he should stop complaining.
He is very short sighted.
Read to your hearts content.

 

[flasun71]

As you can tell, you're definitely not alone in what you like to read. Each one of us has their own things that turn them on. Nothing wrong with that at all. Being bi-curious myself, I've read and few on here, and some can get you turned on. I say keep enjoying what you like!

 

[Trawna]

mmf

You're a lucky dude, Fenderman, to have a mate so happy to share those fantasies and other guys. I got 'em too .. but not having much luck here on the home front. Mind if I live vicariously through your adventures? Giddy-up.

 

[Bi_Bi_Birdee]

No. I'm into gay porn. Anything sexual turns me on!

 

[Bi_Bi_Birdee]

Thanks to everyone who has posted so far, I really appreciate it. I have already explained to my husband more than once that while its an awesome fantasy that he be with another guy, I know he is so homophobic that it would never happen and thats ok. As for watching Queer As Folk, I have watched it and loved the show. Unfortunately my husband walked in on me watching it and told me I had a disgusting sex drive. So....needless to say i havent watched it after that. But, anyway, thanks for all the support, I dont feel weird anymore now that I know im not the only female who enjoys m/m sex stories.

DB21

The next time your hubby says you have a disgusting sex drive, tie him up, get some whipped cream, strip him naked, and lick the cream off him while running a gay porno video.


I'll guarantee you he'll enjoy it, no matter what.


If he still says you have a disgusting sex drive, whip him.