Is It Normal To Enjoy Playing With Step-Dad?

[redheadfantasy]

Years ago, when I was a teenager, my step-dad used to “have fun” with me. At first I was resistant, but eventually I started getting really wet and excited when he’d touch me. Is this normal? Should I feel bad about getting so hot when he’d use me?

 

[Nezhul]

You should feel bad about being put in a situation where you've dodged the bullet, basically.
So many such things end up with rape, tears and trauma.

You enjoyed it - don't feel bad about it.
Feel bad about the fact that you may not have enjoyed it at all, and that your stepdad is a person who did that without caring about possibly causing lifelong trauma to you.

There are girls who are afraid of men after things like that. There are also girls who have their families torn apart because one of their parents couldn't keep his hands away. For example by such play leading to divorce or even court. Or to orphanage, if the govs decide you are not safe at your home.

I will not be a hypocrite and say that such relationships can't go right. Can't lead to only positivity. I'm sure they can, as an exception from the rule.
Most of the time - you're lucky if they lead nowhere. And if you aren't lucky they lead to bad things. So many ways this can go bad, and so few where it can go good.

So yeah. Dodged the bullet.

 

[ChrissyCD64]

Years ago, when I was a teenager, my step-dad used to “have fun” with me. At first I was resistant, but eventually I started getting really wet and excited when he’d touch me. Is this normal? Should I feel bad about getting so hot when he’d use me?

Step-dad, real dad, step-mom, real mom, step-sibling, sibling, so what? If it feels good do it. We love sex with our adult children and their adult children.

 

[JackOffer]

Step-dad, real dad, step-mom, real mom, step-sibling, sibling, so what? If it feels good do it. We love sex with our adult children and their adult children.

I totally agree Chrissy. Incest is rampant in our family and I/we couldn't be happier!

 

[OldFred65]

Step-dad, real dad, step-mom, real mom, step-sibling, sibling, so what? If it feels good do it. We love sex with our adult children and their adult children.

I agree Chrissy! I/we only wish we had started with our kids sooner than we did!

 

[redheadfantasy]

Thanks

Hmm thank you for the follow up, all.

 

[phoenix58]

A thread with another perspective

Take a look at this thread, it is written from the perspective of a stepdad.
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1512966

"when I was a teenager" - IMHO, this is too soon.

Were you already sexually active, and this was a mutual interest? This might be interesting and OK.

Was stepdad taking advantage of your dependence on his income, housing, or other power he had over you? This is probably not OK.

Years ago, when I was a teenager, my step-dad used to “have fun” with me. At first I was resistant, but eventually I started getting really wet and excited when he’d touch me. Is this normal? Should I feel bad about getting so hot when he’d use me?

 

[HoldYouDown]

Who are we to tell you how you "should" feel?

What matters is how you feel.

 

[Hans101]

As has already been stated here, who are we to tell you how you "should" feel?

Sex is one of the most enjoyable and exciting things a person can do. Its only natural and normal that you would become excited.

 

[warriorprincess9]

Believe me you are not alone. Some dont like the truth but happens a lot...

 

[twister947]

The question was, "is it normal? ". My answer (opinion) is, "probably not."

 

[nfrrdscnnr1]

question

What you descrive is probably not normal behavior. Having said that, the most important question is, how are you doing with life and your relationships? Any problem behaviors? Do you feel shame at what happened? If so, how has that affected your outlook and life?
To me, there is nothing inherently "wrong" with your experience IF you have no problem behaviors that interfere with a productive happy life.

 

[screwher]

Years ago, when I was a teenager, my step-dad used to “have fun” with me. At first I was resistant, but eventually I started getting really wet and excited when he’d touch me. Is this normal? Should I feel bad about getting so hot when he’d use me?

I don't know if I'd use the word "normal". But it's understandable. At that age you're developing new feeling, hormones are kicking in, developing sexual curiousity. What's not acceptable was your step dads behaviour. As the adult he should know better all the way around.

 

[AsiaRoamer]

Edited

 

[twister947]

Just because you came to enjoy it doesn't change his guilt. Abusive, predatory, child molester...they all fit.

 

[Corbie]

Years ago, when I was a teenager, my step-dad used to “have fun” with me. At first I was resistant, but eventually I started getting really wet and excited when he’d touch me. Is this normal? Should I feel bad about getting so hot when he’d use me?

Your body was responding naturally to stimulation, and once those hormones get going, it's impossible to stop them.

However, what he was doing to you, without your consent was wrong.

 

[Muwarr90]

You shouldn't feel bad at all. You did nothing wrong.

Your step father should feel like the piece of shit he is for pressuring a reluctant step-daughter to engage in a sexual relationship.