Is it cheating?

[RodgerShagnastly]

If you feel like you are cheating, you are cheating.

That is true.

 

[Man4Strapon]

Unless your partner has legal ownership of your thoughts, no.

Exactly.

 

[snowhitez]

If your wife was doing it, would you consider it cheating?

Exactly

 

[SoulAssasin247]

Of course it is, but do what you wish

 

[givememoresir]

The way I see it, yes and no. Really only you and your wife can decide what cheating is. My husband doesn't know I'm on here for a similar reason to why you're on here. He would see it as cheating. However, if he were on here talking to other people, it would get me really hot. I don't know it's in the eye pf the beholder, I guess.

 

[Sweet_Cupcake]

Unless your partner has legal ownership of your thoughts, no.

I generally agree with this . . . however, people here do form real relationships and have emotional/sexual bonds. I think many partners would find the emotional/sexual bond discomfiting if it were secret from them.

But just hanging out here for fun and erotic amusement strikes me as harmless as surfing porn.

 

[oralaccents]

I generally agree with this . . . however, people here do form real relationships and have emotional/sexual bonds. I think many partners would find the emotional/sexual bond discomfiting if it were secret from them.

But just hanging out here for fun and erotic amusement strikes me as harmless as surfing porn.

There was a time when it was quicker/easier as a man to find an interesting woman online.

Today, a quiet bar or a grocery store are better than online. Online everyone is suspicious. Too bad.

 

[ToolbeltTom]

Your thoughts are your own. That’s not cheating.

 

[Traciesomeone]

my opinion if you have to ask it is.