Is he too good to be true?

[dragonhearted]

*cries tears of happiness for lilminx*

you deserve it honey...go for it and enjoy!

 

[sanantoniobored]

Oh man...

I'm going to get lynched when I say this......


Could be a good guy.. could also be doing what needs t be done to get you totally head over heels about him before he reverts back into standard 'guy' personallity.


All men are scum.. I know for a fact.. since I am one.

Some of us can hide i really well.. some of us don't.. but deep down we're just jerks who can't understand why women do freaky stuff like go to the bathroom together...






In all seriousness.. hope it works out for ya.

 

[islandman]

Re: Oh man...

All men are scum.. I know for a fact.. since I am one.

Some of us can hide i really well.. some of us don't.. but deep down we're just jerks who can't understand why women do freaky stuff like go to the bathroom together...

amen, brotha.

 

[lilminx]

Re: Oh man...

I'm going to get lynched when I say this......

Could be a good guy.. could also be doing what needs t be done to get you totally head over heels about him before he reverts back into standard 'guy' personallity.


All men are scum.. I know for a fact.. since I am one.

Some of us can hide i really well.. some of us don't.. but deep down we're just jerks who can't understand why women do freaky stuff like go to the bathroom together...


In all seriousness.. hope it works out for ya.

I don't see why anyone would lynch you. I thought the exact same thing that you posted, because I am a cynical bitch. The problem with that is that I constantly doubt the motives of others, and because I'm always questioning it, I don't realize that sometimes the motives are genuine. I am so wary of getting hurt that I put up a wall, not letting anyone in.
I realize after the relationship (or whatever you want to call it) that the guy really did like me, and that I need to be a little more trusting sometimes.

This time, I say fuck it. I'm going to throw out my cynicism and just go with what I feel.

 

[MorgaineLaFay]

From one cynical bitch to another, I hope you ride this one out. I’d like to read about someone getting a slice of happiness for a change.

 

[Aphrodisiac]

Re: Re: Re: Is he too good to be true?

Try living in NYC and then tell me this- LOL.

Yes, you do have a point there.....

 

[curvacious]

Enjoy things but always listen to your intuition---it picks up on things you may not see so readily. I really hope that he's the one for you though---sounds like a great guy. Wish you all the luck in the world.

 

[lilminx]

Thanks, Curvacious

From one cynical bitch to another, I hope you ride this one out. I’d like to read about someone getting a slice of happiness for a change.

Thanks Morgy, I hope I do too. I've been through many men this past year just playing around- I think it's time i got myself a boyfriend. Did I just type that? moi!? There must be something wrong with me!

 

[SexyAmber]

He sounds wonderful and I say go for it....but just like halloween candy make sure you take the time to open the wrapper and make sure their are no razor blades.

Don't hold him to being "too good to be true" because living up to that for him would be nearly impossible and the disappointment when he you find he isn't will hit harder

He's not perfect, but maybe he is perfect for you

Good luck and best wishes

Just my opinion but then again I am a jaded bitch

 

[Guest]

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[Pan718]

SMILE!

You go girlfriend!

Just remind yourself you deserve being loved and taken care of....

It may scare the hell out of you from time to time, but you'll survive.

And give him a chance to prove himself (as he's already working on doing). The problem for a man that can actually be nurturing and caring is that you get judged by the men who can't. Lots of women get scared when someone actually loves them.

If the trust thing starts to make you weird (through no fault of his) track down a good therapist and work it out there. Most of us try to work out what we did or didn't get from our parents with our mates... until we work through it.

-all smiley for you lover girl

Pan

 

[islandman]

From one cynical bitch to another, I hope you ride this one out. I’d like to read about someone getting a slice of happiness for a change.

One slice of happiness coming up! You're going to have to come to NYC to collect though.


Can you handle it?

 

[dragonhearted]

*giggles*

lol

 

[MorgaineLaFay]

Can you handle it?

As if you didn't already know.

 

[BigDawg69]

Enjoy the moment! Congratulations on your happiness!

 

[islandman]

As if you didn't already know.

i'm oblivious like that.

 

[Prince Romeo]

Sometimes it's hard to accept happiness even when it comes knocking right on your front door. It's probably because we have become so used to disappointment at so many levels in our life. Open up and let him in. Even if it only lasts for a while. Hopefully, it will last a lifetime.

"Loving, knowing that you are going to get hurt is like living knowing that you are going to die. But not loving so you don't get hurt is like killing yourself before you die."

 

[Mrs Christophe]

Very cool, minxie. That's exactly how you should be treated.

just take one day at a time and enjoy being treated like a queen, it's called new love and it is special while it lasts, wonderful feeling

 

[lilminx]

Prince Romeo, you have a good point. I'm so used to being disappointed when I'm with someone that I'm waiting for the other shoe to drop with this guy. I guess I should stop waiting, and just accept what's going to be.

Pan, you know how much your good wishes mean to me- thanks. I may be crying on your shoulder sooner or later though- lol.

Thanks again, everyone.

 

[Guest]

 

[dreamer]

I don't believe a woman should expect any less. EVER.

 

[Prince Romeo]

Don't listen to that cake head.

Its' true that sometimes the one thing you are looking for is the one thing you can't see. Sometimes what we're searching for is right there in front of us, but we're too afraid to move to grab for it. Like a kid trying to catch butterflies. Reach out and grab him and hold on to to him, but be gentle like with a butterfly, if you squeeze too hard, you'll break his wings.

 

[The Squid King]

From what i read...

..let's hope not.

 

[Guest]

Don't listen to that cake head.

Its' true that sometimes the one thing you are looking for is the one thing you can't see. Sometimes what we're searching for is right there in front of us, but we're too afraid to move to grab for it. Like a kid trying to catch butterflies. Reach out and grab him and hold on to to him, but be gentle like with a butterfly, if you squeeze too hard, you'll break his wings.

Firstly, you are the cake or whatever

Secondly, desi guys are the best in the world. If the secret ever got out - Our race would be in big trouble with all the hoards of women running after me and other desi boys.

People like CelestialBody opted for inferior goods gora, because she was impatient for sex, if only she managed to hold on for a few years she would have gotten the perfect desi guy. The guy of her dreams. She herself is inferior desi girl so she went and we let her go.

yayati : "CB's got bad luck"

 

[Chuckus]

The guy I'm currently dating is going to Jamaica tomorrow until Monday. He's going with his two brothers, one of which is going to a wedding.

He brought me over dinner once before- stuff he made at home.

Tonight, he brought stuff to make dinner- he cooked it and washed all the dishes afterwards. He then gave me a massage. He knows I'm, uh, out of comission right now (don't ask), yet he still wanted to come over to see me. He would have stayed over (no sex) if he could, but he has to be at the airport at 4 am.

He has a great job, respects women, is very sweet to me without being fake, loves to kiss, and is extremely sexual.

I'm thinking either that there is something seriously wrong with him, or that I'm an extremely lucky woman for finding him.

Good for you lilminx. Good for you.

There are a few of us left out there.........er well that type of guy left anyways.........(I'm happily attached )

Sounds like a keeper for sure. I found the same in my SO.