Is cyber sex cheating?

[christcat69]

Do you literoticians out there think that cyberfucking is cheating?

 

[WaxNWane]

Si.

Never underestimate the power of denial.

 

[MechaBlade]

Cybering is only 1 step away from masturbating to porn. Which is also cheating to some people.

 

[Bluesboy2]

Do you literoticians out there think that cyberfucking is cheating?

If you are keeping it a secret from your SO then yes. If he/she is aware and is ok with it, no.

 

[estevie]

Its not cheating unless someone thinks it is.

Ask your SO...there is your answer.

 

[christcat69]

hmmm...

What if you'rre just masterbating to certain stories or pics on Lit?

 

[MechaBlade]

Re: hmmm...

What if you'rre just masterbating to certain stories or pics on Lit?

Well, according to some of these people, if your SO thinks its naughty, then it's cheating.

 

[riff]

I am with Bluesboy on this.

Of course, some people will ask, but what is cybersex? We don't really have cybersex, we just have a very close friendship that sometimes gets affectionate but it wasn't my fault it just happened...



Amazing, the power of denial and self-delusion, or outright lying-through your teeth... LOL.

but it's good for me, we communicate wonderfully.... you just don't understand... you are being to judgemental of me....

And suddenly, the glass ball starts spinning, the floor lights, and out prances John Travolta....

LOL

 

[Narcosis]

Its not cheating unless someone thinks it is.

Ask your SO...there is your answer.

exactly

 

[sunstruck]

Re: Re: Is cyber sex cheating?

If you are keeping it a secret from your SO then yes. If he/she is aware and is ok with it, no.

I think this has been the general concensus of the board everytime this comes up. And it does, over and over and it will again.

 

[estevie]

Re: hmmm...

What if you'rre just masterbating to certain stories or pics on Lit?

Thats not cybersex. Thats masturbating to pictures or a story.

Cybersex includes another human being. Masturbating does not.

For me anyway. I don't know about these other pervs.

 

[alexandraaah]

Si.

Never underestimate the power of denial.

Yes.

And clean out your pm box please.

 

[Quiet_Cool]

All cheating si dependant on the confines of your relationship with your SO...So if you really wnat to know, define these things, damnit!

 

[Mischka]

Cyberfucking is cheating. Cybercuddling, cybercaressing, cyberfingering, and cyberabovetheshirtaction is not.

 

[Saytur]

cheating is a violation of intimacy...however you go about it. a girl that works with me said she doesn't believe oral sex is cheating...I didn't press her to explain...I did ask her to lunch of course

 

[Sillyman]

Yes.

 

[christcat69]

hehe

Cyberfucking is cheating. Cybercuddling, cybercaressing, cyberfingering, and cyberabovetheshirtaction is not.

hahaha--- LMAO

 

[*bratcat*]

 

[*bratcat*]

 

[Saytur]

Re: Re: Is cyber sex cheating?

me? I prefer the phone. heh.

Do you stick the whole phone in there or just the receiver?

(smack)

 

[*bratcat*]

Re: Re: Re: Is cyber sex cheating?

 

[Saytur]

I was going to send you a PM but your box is full...again.

DAMNIT! Where is that damn requisition form...I need a bigger box

 

[QuickDuck]

Its not cheating unless someone thinks it is.

Ask your SO...there is your answer.

agreed.

it very much depends on the people involved.

talk to them... discuss it.

isn;t that what it is all about? Communication?

 

[Saytur]

okay Bratty...it's cleared out
Only had three messages...neither particularly long? WTF?

 

[christcat69]

hmmmm.....

ok guys we've gotten off subject. We've gone from cybersex to cramming things in bratcat's box. It's all good but my girl might get mad at just this post. LOL By the way Bratcat, what kind of phone are we talking about here. Is it a small cell or r u using the oldschool rotary phone again?