Is Cyber or phone sex "REAL" sex?

[Guest]

 

[bknight2602]

Yes I think it is kind of a mastubatory tool.

 

[Expertise]

If not real it sure can get emotional

 

[Guest]

It can be real in your mind if you want it to be. But in all reality it is more of a masturbation tool to enhance that pleasure. There is no substitue for real sex....

 

[Xander]

Jacking off material sure...But as far as actual sex......uhm No, cant say I think it is.

Fun though.

 

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[SlowHand89]

I don't see how you can say it's sex. I can understand how a partner would get jealous over it because you are fantasizing about someone else but it's not really sex.

 

[sigh]

I have been debating this in a certain thread.

Several people say YES, cyber and phone is true, real sex.


I soooo fucking disagree. I feel it is a fantasy and a masturbation tool, but they feel strong in this...

So I wonder how many feel cyber and phone sex is "REAL" sex?

Yeah, it is, but I think masturbation is real sex too, so take it with a grain of salt if you wish.





Actually, I agree with you EE. Real sex involves real flesh, and more than just your own.

 

[april-wine]

Depends what goes along with cyber or phone sex....If it's just a means to get off, then it's fantasy....But if it is a means to intimacy with someone, it can be and is very real....Much more than an orgasm is shared....

 

[sigh]

Depends what goes along with cyber or phone sex....If it's just a means to get off, then it's fantasy....But if it is a means to intimacy with someone, it can be and is very real....Much more than an orgasm is shared....

Can I change my vote now?

 

[sexy-girl]

i dont think its just a tool for masturbating ... i see it as mutual masturbating

which is very personnel and mentally you could argue it's on a similar level too sex


but i agree i'd never class it as sex

 

[april-wine]

Re: Re: Is Cyber or phone sex "REAL" sex?

Yeah, it is, but I think masturbation is real sex too, so take it with a grain of salt if you wish.

Actually, I agree with you EE. Real sex involves real flesh, and more than just your own.

Hmmmmmmm

 

[sigh]

Re: Re: Re: Is Cyber or phone sex "REAL" sex?

Hmmmmmmm

Are you giving me a hummer?

OH MY GOD!!! I'M CUMMMMMMMMMMMMING

(does anyone have a cigarette?)

 

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[april-wine]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Is Cyber or phone sex "REAL" sex?

Are you giving me a hummer?

OH MY GOD!!! I'M CUMMMMMMMMMMMMING

(does anyone have a cigarette?)

I'll give you anything you want darlin........

 

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[Expertise]

Its not giving head.... but it is giving mind.

 

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[sexy-girl]

just to put a little spin on this thread (if thats ok )


what is it when you are in the same bed with your lover looking into each others eyes and masturbating for each other ... but not touching each other

 

[*Eve*]

I think it's not real sex unless one of your sexual orifices (mouth included) is penetrated by another person.

 

[Lancecastor]

So I wonder how many feel cyber and phone sex is "REAL" sex?

Be a darling and pass the virtual Kleenex....

 

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[SweetLuvin]

I have been debating this in a certain thread.

Several people say YES, cyber and phone is true, real sex.


I soooo fucking disagree. I feel it is a fantasy and a masturbation tool, but they feel strong in this...

So I wonder how many feel cyber and phone sex is "REAL" sex?

In my opinion its not real sex, lol if that were true then I get fucked about 30 times a night by 30 diffrent men!!!

Some of the men make it real though, they fall in love with you. I had to cut a guy off and never talk ot him again because he was becoming obsessed. I think itsa great thing to use to spice things up a bit, but not when it goes that far.

 

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[april-wine]

No it's not the insert here type sex, or lick or suck type sex either....But it can be very intense and yes emotional....If you are talking logistics, it's not sex....If you are talking intimacy and sharing, which is also an important part of any sexual relationship, then in my humble opinion it is....Hey and any orgasm is a good thing....