Is Anyone Serious In Here?

[browns2005]

Hello Ladies This Is A Site With Erotic People Yet I Haven't Seen Nor Heard About Any Females Looking For Fun I Mean What They Hell Kinda Site Is It Then? Someone Care To Explain It I Mean Any Real Woman Here Wanting To Get Pleasured Or Is It Like Yahoo Has Become Nothing But A Bunch Of Fakes?

 

[pleaz_me]

Hello Ladies This Is A Site With Erotic People Yet I Haven't Seen Nor Heard About Any Females Looking For Fun I Mean What They Hell Kinda Site Is It Then? Someone Care To Explain It I Mean Any Real Woman Here Wanting To Get Pleasured Or Is It Like Yahoo Has Become Nothing But A Bunch Of Fakes?

Definitely not all fake here.....sometimes it just takes time. Get to know people first before assuming that someone will invite you to jump in the sack.

 

[SexyCleric]

I Mean What They Hell Kinda Site Is It Then? Someone Care To Explain It

I'll explain it.
Not many women are looking to have "fun" with random people on the internet.
I can't say I blame them either. Not only could they end up with someone with dubious hygiene, veneral diseases, or any other number of undesirable traits, for all they know; you could be a serial killer.

Not that I think you're any of those things, mind you, I'm just saying you're going about this the wrong way.
You wouldn't just wander into a bar and yell "Who here wants to fuck me?", now would you?

Talk to a few, have conversations, and if she seems interested, then maybe you proposition them.

Not to mention that this is a site populated by readers and authors of written erotica, so typing up posts using no grammar and all caps isn't helping your chances.

 

[Guttergoddess]

My thoughts exactly....

I for one am real....but I have specific requirements of what I am looking for. And the ability to communicate well is the first thing I look for in a potential meeting.

 

[fannie20]

I'll explain it.
Not many women are looking to have "fun" with random people on the internet.
I can't say I blame them either. Not only could they end up with someone with dubious hygiene, veneral diseases, or any other number of undesirable traits, for all they know; you could be a serial killer.

Not that I think you're any of those things, mind you, I'm just saying you're going about this the wrong way.
You wouldn't just wander into a bar and yell "Who here wants to fuck me?", now would you?

Talk to a few, have conversations, and if she seems interested, then maybe you proposition them.

Not to mention that this is a site populated by readers and authors of written erotica, so typing up posts using no grammar and all caps isn't helping your chances.

Amen to that! If a man can't type intelligently, that leads me to believe that if I actually met him, the conversation would be about the same. Think a little before you type, it will help.

 

[SexyCleric]

Amen to that! If a man can't type intelligently, that leads me to believe that if I actually met him, the conversation would be about the same. Think a little before you type, it will help.

Ha! My theory has been proven.
I, being a lowly male, had honestly only been guessing.
Turns out I'm not totally insane.

 

[browns2005]

Ok Thanks

Now I Get It All The Females In Here Are Fantasies Not Real They Like What They Read But Aren't Do-er's. I Mean Let Me Ask This Then What The Hell Do U Read The Stories For I Mean Most Of Them Are Real What Do U Daydream About That Being U When U Could Do The Real Thing Sounds Like A No Brainer But I Guess I Am One Of The Few Who Am A Serious Person Not A Tease Or Just A Ho-hum Type Who Wants To Read It And Wish It Was Me And Then When The Chance Presents Itself Make Up A Lame Excuse But Thanks To All Who Replied I Finally Get It Their Is Allot Of Talkers On Here And No Do-ers

 

[JokerWild]

Eer hear of a 'period' lol. Anyway just take your time playa, you'll find it.

 

[majrkincade]

Pretenders

My wife and I have been trying to find an additional man or men for her fantasy of multiple partners while I watch. We have several posts on multiple sites and seem to run into nothing but pretenders! Guys say that they are interested, we have several conversations, and agree to meet. The vast majority have not shown up. I attribute some of this trepidation to the fact the guys are not comfortable in a MMF type setting even if they say that they are. I also attribute some of this behavior to the fact that alot of men are homophobic and are afraid to admit it. I have said before and say it again, ther are men who truly enjoy watching their partner perform sexually with another guy and then want to join in! No contact with the guy just truly want to watch the wife with another guy. I am one of those guys. I don't know why but, I am glad that my wife has embraced my sexual desires and enjoys doing it also. My final thought is this, regardless of how many conversations we may have, there are just alot of people that get off on playing online , anonymously, with no actual intent!

 

[DrStein]

Now I Get It All The Females In Here Are Fantasies Not Real They Like What They Read But Aren't Do-er's. I Mean Let Me Ask This Then What The Hell Do U Read The Stories For I Mean Most Of Them Are Real What Do U Daydream About That Being U When U Could Do The Real Thing Sounds Like A No Brainer But I Guess I Am One Of The Few Who Am A Serious Person Not A Tease Or Just A Ho-hum Type Who Wants To Read It And Wish It Was Me And Then When The Chance Presents Itself Make Up A Lame Excuse But Thanks To All Who Replied I Finally Get It Their Is Allot Of Talkers On Here And No Do-ers

I hate to be the one to tell you this, dude... But if this is your attitude and your idea of communication, then my dogs get more action than you and they're fixed.

For some reason, you're operating under the delusion that the people on these forums are all whores. You're gonna have to lose that attitude if you ever want women or even men to give you the time of day.

 

[BlackWolf65]

Now I Get It All The Females In Here Are Fantasies Not Real They Like What They Read But Aren't Do-er's. I Mean Let Me Ask This Then What The Hell Do U Read The Stories For I Mean Most Of Them Are Real What Do U Daydream About That Being U When U Could Do The Real Thing Sounds Like A No Brainer But I Guess I Am One Of The Few Who Am A Serious Person Not A Tease Or Just A Ho-hum Type Who Wants To Read It And Wish It Was Me And Then When The Chance Presents Itself Make Up A Lame Excuse But Thanks To All Who Replied I Finally Get It Their Is Allot Of Talkers On Here And No Do-ers

Okay, in a way, I hope he's gone and never sees this. On the other hand, I hope he does...

Now I Get It All The Females In Here Are Fantasies Not Real They Like What They Read But Aren't Do-er's.

Well, Bubba, let me ask you a question: Are you here looking for a date? Because if you are, you should know that this isn't really a "hook-up" site, unless you want to hook up for some really ass-kickin' cyber.

I Mean Let Me Ask This Then What The Hell Do U Read The Stories For

Well, is it really any of your business "why" someone reads these stories? It's a fantasy world, Bubba, get over it. And I would ask you this: Why do *YOU* read these stories??? If it's to get a hard-on and feel good, then the same can be said about the ladies - leaving the hard-on out of the equation, of course....

I Mean Most Of Them Are Real

Really now... Do you mean that most of the stories are real? If by that you mean that all of those stories actually happened, then you are one self-delusional son-of-a-bitch, Bubba. If you mean that all of the women are real, well yeah, they are. They have lives, they have something to do outside of Lit, and quite frankly, they probably don't give a rat's ass about you or your opinion of them.

What Do U Daydream About That Being U When U Could Do The Real Thing

And if you're a walking advertisement for the men that they're going to meet here, then you have single-handedly destroyed any chance for any male here to actually meet a woman from Lit. Way to go, Bubba!!!

Sounds Like A No Brainer But I Guess I Am One Of The Few Who Am A Serious Person Not A Tease Or Just A Ho-hum Type Who Wants To Read It And Wish It Was Me And Then When The Chance Presents Itself Make Up A Lame Excuse

That's what fantasy is all about, dim-wit!! Fantasy!! What part of that fucking word do you not understand???

~~Shakes his head, growls low in his throat, and forces the wolf back down...~~ *Not now, Wolfy, he's not worth the effort...*

But Thanks To All Who Replied I Finally Get It Their Is Allot Of Talkers On Here And No Do-ers

Look, if you're trying so desperately to hook up, then visit a fucking on-line dating service, will ya? This place is about fun and serious discussion.

Get a frigging life, for fuck's sake...

 

[jennyleigh]

I have seen most of your posts, as you post them- but you have given me no reason to be interested. There are so many fun, intelligent, sexy people on here- you have to be a bit more specific and do something to catch the eye of the type of girl you are interested. I really like the bar comment... you don't just go in and ask EVERYONE to fuck you- you have to pick your type and go over and talk to her. I really think that if, given time, you had been nice and gotten to know people, you would have been able to meet someone. After this post, damn- I do hope you strike out!

 

[BlackWolf65]

I have seen most of your posts, as you post them- but you have given me no reason to be interested. There are so many fun, intelligent, sexy people on here- you have to be a bit more specific and do something to catch the eye of the type of girl you are interested. I really like the bar comment... you don't just go in and ask EVERYONE to fuck you- you have to pick your type and go over and talk to her. I really think that if, given time, you had been nice and gotten to know people, you would have been able to meet someone. After this post, damn- I do hope you strike out!

~~Chuckles at jenny's comment...~~

Jenny, how mean! Hoping someone strikes out...

psssssttttt - I think he already did...

 

[DrStein]

At this point, this goes beyond striking out. He may as well just walk into a tattoo parlor and ask the guy behind the counter to tattoo the word "DIPSHIT" to his forehead.

 

[BlackWolf65]

At this point, this goes beyond striking out. He may as well just walk into a tattoo parlor and ask the guy behind the counter to tattoo the word "DIPSHIT" to his forehead.

ROFLMFAO!!!

Nice!!!

 

[aka Lusty]

My wife and I have been trying to find an additional man or men for her fantasy of multiple partners while I watch. We have several posts on multiple sites and seem to run into nothing but pretenders! Guys say that they are interested, we have several conversations, and agree to meet. The vast majority have not shown up. I attribute some of this trepidation to the fact the guys are not comfortable in a MMF type setting even if they say that they are. I also attribute some of this behavior to the fact that alot of men are homophobic and are afraid to admit it. I have said before and say it again, ther are men who truly enjoy watching their partner perform sexually with another guy and then want to join in! No contact with the guy just truly want to watch the wife with another guy. I am one of those guys. I don't know why but, I am glad that my wife has embraced my sexual desires and enjoys doing it also. My final thought is this, regardless of how many conversations we may have, there are just alot of people that get off on playing online , anonymously, with no actual intent!

While those statements are true in some cases, not everyone online is a fraud. I guess the ones who are ruin it for everyone else. This topic has been beaten to death in many forums, and I'm amused by the fact that the people who piss and moan the loudest and longest about the pitfalls of online dating are back posting and responding the very next day. Give me a break.

 

[Spins]

While those statements are true in some cases, not everyone online is a fraud. I guess the ones who are ruin it for everyone else. This topic has been beaten to death in many forums, and I'm amused by the fact that the people who piss and moan the loudest and longest about the pitfalls of online dating are back posting and responding the very next day. Give me a break.

One has to be careful reguardless. Seriously when you meet somone new at work or at school how much do you really know?

It's just the world we live in. You just have to be observant and willing to take action to protect yourself.

As far as the original poster.

Hang in there. Where do you expect to find any ladies who just automatically want to fuck without any kind of "buttering" up period. Those women are few and far between (and usually not worth it).

Just post in a few threads. Send out a few polite PMs saying you enjoy an AV pic or a posting style and in no time you will have several friends who are more than willing to play

 

[aka Lusty]

One has to be careful reguardless. Seriously when you meet somone new at work or at school how much do you really know?

It's just the world we live in. You just have to be observant and willing to take action to protect yourself.

As far as the original poster.

Hang in there. Where do you expect to find any ladies who just automatically want to fuck without any kind of "buttering" up period. Those women are few and far between (and usually not worth it).

Just post in a few threads. Send out a few polite PMs saying you enjoy an AV pic or a posting style and in no time you will have several friends who are more than willing to play

I never said you don't have to be careful. I was alluding to how some people are so disillusioned with online dating yet they keep coming back for more. Posting inflammatory comments that blame others for his own perilous social endeavors is not going to increase the odds of him meeting someone. As said before, perhaps if he got to know some of the ladies here first maybe they would be more receptive to his advances.

 

[Macdaddy23]

Definitely not all fake here.....sometimes it just takes time. Get to know people first before assuming that someone will invite you to jump in the sack.

Hey pleaz_me, cute lips

 

[SexyCleric]

I have seen most of your posts, as you post them- but you have given me no reason to be interested. There are so many fun, intelligent, sexy people on here- you have to be a bit more specific and do something to catch the eye of the type of girl you are interested. I really like the bar comment... you don't just go in and ask EVERYONE to fuck you- you have to pick your type and go over and talk to her. I really think that if, given time, you had been nice and gotten to know people, you would have been able to meet someone. After this post, damn- I do hope you strike out!

Ha.
Hell, I think he struck out as soon as he started typing without periods.
Oddly enough, he still capitalized all the words...

 

[BlackWolf65]

Ha.
Hell, I think he struck out as soon as he started typing without periods.
Oddly enough, he still capitalized all the words...

Isn't that weird? How the hell does one do that comfortably?

 

[BlackWolf65]

<SIGH>

Well, here I go again, ignoring my own advice about not feeding Trolls. But I want to give everyone a heads up here. This guy is off his meds or something. A couple of Lit ladies mentioned to me today that they've been PM'd by this Troll, and that he will not back off when asked to do so politely. Since he was off line at the time, I sent him what I thought was a pretty civil PM, telling him that caution is advised, because there are mods here, and he could find himself being booted from the forum.

Surprise, surprise. I received a rather threatening PM back from him. Now, I am difficult to trace unless you really know what you're doing, so I'm not worried about his threat to come and find me. But, as I said, I think he's off his meds, and I've seen this type before in usenet. For the most part, they are impotent little bullies, but every once in a while, you come across one who has the potential to be dangerous, particularly to someone he thinks might be an easy mark, or vulnerable in some way.

He's being reported to the mods, but in the meantime, I advise caution to the ladies when dealing with him. The best advice is to ignore him if he PM's you - add him to your ignore list.

 

[DrStein]

Ah. I've seen those types before. I once had a troll e-stalking me for about a month before he was IP banned and never heard from again.

Well, I suspect we won't be seeing much of him anymore.

As a final parting shot, notice that he still has the default usertitle of "Virgin." I hope he's very comfortable with that word, because he's never going to shake it.

EDIT: Normally, I don't make jokes like that, because I think it's immatiure. But in his case, I decided to make an exception.

 

[BlackWolf65]

Ah. I've seen those types before. I once had a troll e-stalking me for about a month before he was IP banned and never heard from again.

Well, I suspect we won't be seeing much of him anymore.

As a final parting shot, notice that he still has the default usertitle of "Virgin." I hope he's very comfortable with that word, because he's never going to shake it.

ROFL! That was BEAUTIFUL!!!

 

[Eilan]

I love how everyone assumes that because Lit's an adult site, we're all here for the fuckfest and we should just drop our cyber panties for any leg-humper who shows interest.

It helps if people actually contribute to the boards (other than "I'm desperate and horny, please fuck me!") so that others get to know them. I've gotta imagine that on sites that have "adult" personals, the NSA sex is the exception rather than the rule, anyway. It was for me when I was looking for that kind of thing.

If you go into the online adult dating realm with high exceptations, you'll be disappointed. Horny men outnumber horny women. Therefore, the horny men have to make themselves stand out from the crowd if they want to have a chance with the ladies. Horny women can afford to be picky. That's the way it is.

Threads like this one make the rest of us Ohio folks look bad.