I feel like maybe I'm searching for something that only exists as an abstract aspiration.
It feels like there are a lot of folks who are looking for the quick thrill. They have a lot of pent up sexual energy and need a release. I don't begrudge them for it. Heck, I've been in those shoes more times than I would care to admit. They'll write you an amazing first message. It'll seem like there's great chemistry. That first conversation will feel electric and reignite a side of you that you had written off as being permanently retired...and then...meh. The spark is lost, the messages become fewer and further between, and that's if they come at all.
And then there are also those who just seem to want friendship and idle chit chat. Again, no judgment here. I fully support that, if thats what you need. Of course sometimes it makes you scratch your head and wonder "ok...then why are you on THIS kind of site, of all places?"
But what if you dare to want both? Is that simply too much to ask? What if you want to find a genuine friend, sincere companionship, the kind of person who can completely brighten an otherwise ho hum day by sending you a few messages throughout the afternoon? And at the same time, it's the kind of friendship where you know you can explore any kind of sexual rabbit hole, any long repressed curiosity, without fear of judgment or ridicule...just pure, unadulterated openness and support.
That's the dream. I like to think of it as "the kind of intimate friendship that will make your toes curl."
I've almost given up on the idea that this is out there. Almost, but not quite...hence the posting of this message.
So if you're an intelligent woman who is also looking for that elusive combination of true friendship mixed with deep intimate exploration, then send me a message, and who knows...perhaps our puzzle pieces will fit together.
It feels like there are a lot of folks who are looking for the quick thrill. They have a lot of pent up sexual energy and need a release. I don't begrudge them for it. Heck, I've been in those shoes more times than I would care to admit. They'll write you an amazing first message. It'll seem like there's great chemistry. That first conversation will feel electric and reignite a side of you that you had written off as being permanently retired...and then...meh. The spark is lost, the messages become fewer and further between, and that's if they come at all.
And then there are also those who just seem to want friendship and idle chit chat. Again, no judgment here. I fully support that, if thats what you need. Of course sometimes it makes you scratch your head and wonder "ok...then why are you on THIS kind of site, of all places?"
But what if you dare to want both? Is that simply too much to ask? What if you want to find a genuine friend, sincere companionship, the kind of person who can completely brighten an otherwise ho hum day by sending you a few messages throughout the afternoon? And at the same time, it's the kind of friendship where you know you can explore any kind of sexual rabbit hole, any long repressed curiosity, without fear of judgment or ridicule...just pure, unadulterated openness and support.
That's the dream. I like to think of it as "the kind of intimate friendship that will make your toes curl."
I've almost given up on the idea that this is out there. Almost, but not quite...hence the posting of this message.
So if you're an intelligent woman who is also looking for that elusive combination of true friendship mixed with deep intimate exploration, then send me a message, and who knows...perhaps our puzzle pieces will fit together.