Intense question for dominant women....(is this going too far?)

[ChemistryNine]

This is specifically a quetion for dominant women who truely enjoy humiliation. Would it turn you on to watch your submissive very heterosexual man have sex with another gay man right in front of you just to humilate him ? My gf has mentioned that she would love to watch me with another man. I am not totally into this plan but I will do anything for her. She tells me she loves of the idea of seeing me do something so obedient despite not liking it that she would love to see me do it. She also really likes watching Bi-porn and likes two men on eachother. What do you think ? Should I try it ? Would it turn you on ?

 

[Rrrosyn]

I'd have mixed feelings. I have fantasies about j with another man. But I don't think I really want to share. I'm selfish that way. Now j is bi, so it wouldn't be the same situation!

I am against anything truly forced. But if you're considering something you'd dislike for her... that isn't exactly force.

So as a turn on.... yes.
As an option... no.

For my life, my relationship and my tastes that's the only answer I could give you.

 

[catalina_francisco]

I don't see it as a problem, unless it is going to raise huge psychological issues for you. It can be a matter of it being a turn on, or as you say, can be used as a humiliating or degrading factor in the right scene. It is one of those areas though that has to be handled responsibly, with lots of knowledge of what the possible outcomes could be, and commitment to dealing with all possible outcomes, negative or positive. Have fun.

Catalina

 

[Ma Petite]

For me it would depend on my mood. Sometimes, yes, it would be a huge fucking turn on and then (speaking in terms of you being mine) we would probably cuddle for a bit before if not jump right into you pleasing me and me rewarding you for behaving so well. As it is apparent that you really dont care to do it, but do so anyways, you would be rewarded very hansomly, most likely till you and i passed out and then once you awoke in the morning.

 

[LadyAria]

The gay sex would not turn me on, but the fact I had that much power over my sub would. If it doesn't go against your nature, try it.

 

[Etoile]

Hi ChemistryNine - I've noticed you bringing up a lot of questions along these same lines: "here is my fantasy, what do you think of it?" I am thinking that these are things you want to ask your girlfriend for. In the case of this one, you already know she wants to do it! But we mere Lit folks aren't the ones who can tell you if your fantasy is valid or not. We can tell you it's not uncommon but we can't tell you how your girlfriend will respond to it. I'm not saying you shouldn't ask these questions here, they are good starts to fun threads! But bring these things up with your girlfriend, too - she is the one who can make them come true for you.