Intelligence?

lady*laura

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There are a lot of people on the boards who enjoy erotica AND intelligent conversation. So what do you say?
 
lady*laura said:
There are a lot of people on the boards who enjoy erotica AND intelligent conversation. So what do you say?
I say both are fine...BUT the only peeve I have are when threads get taken over by 'lovey dovey' stuff....granted that's cute and and all, but sometimes it goes too far.....ok hate me if you will, but I think some of it is too much...
 
lady*laura said:
Lovey dovey stuff? :confused:

meaning when they are always telling each other how special they are or how much they love them - that's not to say that its not ok, but too much of it is where I get peeved
 
On topic, I prefer an intelligent conversation any day lol But that works for me because I find brains a turn on :rolleyes:

And looking at these last posts I think there should be a thread devoted to non-lovey dovey people lol (Even though I am guilty of lovey doveyness :eek: ) I do believe there's such a thing as too much lol
 
purrbaby said:
On topic, I prefer an intelligent conversation any day lol But that works for me because I find brains a turn on :rolleyes:

And looking at these last posts I think there should be a thread devoted to non-lovey dovey people lol (Even though I am guilty of lovey doveyness :eek: ) I do believe there's such a thing as too much lol

it happens and I've prolly been guilty of it in the past, I just think it should be stopped at a point and taken to PM/IM...I mean why thrust that towards people that are otherwise single or even depressed over losing someone that they care about ya know....but then again it's no different than people in person at a store or restaurant that dot he same sorta thing
 
keiffers said:
it happens and I've prolly been guilty of it in the past, I just think it should be stopped at a point and taken to PM/IM...I mean why thrust that towards people that are otherwise single or even depressed over losing someone that they care about ya know....but then again it's no different than people in person at a store or restaurant that dot he same sorta thing
True. I mean I don't mind being downright perverted with my fiance but all the real lovey dovey romantic stuff is done via IM lol
 
purrbaby said:
True. I mean I don't mind being downright perverted with my fiance but all the real lovey dovey romantic stuff is done via IM lol

LOL good hehe
 
lady*laura said:
Ok then- I declare this a lovey dovey free zone!
and for that, you're very special and I love you for it. ;)

it's kind of funny that I was just having a similar conversation about lit with someone the other day. I won't name the particular thread we were talking about.... it's a secret. :rolleyes:
 
mrtnmoon said:
and for that, you're very special and I love you for it. ;)

it's kind of funny that I was just having a similar conversation about lit with someone the other day. I won't name the particular thread we were talking about.... it's a secret. :rolleyes:


If you don't like particular threads moon... stay out of them. Pretty simple, eh? :mad:

I love intelligent conversation too... and while I'm probably more guilty than most of the lovey-dovey stuff, I can understand it to a point. So hopefully I can come in here sand not be 'l-d' and can put my intelligent head on.

What I do not understand is why some people enter threads that they obviously hate and then whinge and whine about them. It confuses me. It's almost like these people LOVE being unhappy. They LOVE to whine. They LOVE picking little holes in stuff and then acting the hurt one when someone reacts. I don't go in threads that I don't like or don't interest me.

Just my 'intelligent' observation on stuff lately. Some may disagree about the 'intelligent' part obviously....
 
DirtyBear said:
If you don't like particular threads moon... stay out of them. Pretty simple, eh? :mad:
did I mention you by name? no.... so why single me out? I read the DLS thread because for the most part I find it interesting. do I go in there and whine and whine about all the lovey dovey stuff? no... I haven't said a word about it there. I made one little allusion to it in another thread.

oh, wait, I forgot...

I did make a comment awhile back, but I was stating a DLS. I don't think 2 posts constitutes whining and whining, but.... maybe it does in the uk, I dunno. whatever. fuck you. maybe I hit too close to home, eh?

sorry, laura and keiffers..... not very intelligent, but hey... at least it wasn't lovey dovey. ;)
 
mrtnmoon said:
did I mention you by name? no.... so why single me out? I read the DLS thread because for the most part I find it interesting. do I go in there and whine and whine about all the lovey dovey stuff? no... I haven't said a word about it there. I made one little allusion to it in another thread.

oh, wait, I forgot...

I did make a comment awhile back, but I was stating a DLS. I don't think 2 posts constitutes whining and whining, but.... maybe it does in the uk, I dunno. whatever. fuck you. maybe I hit too close to home, eh?

sorry, laura and keiffers..... not very intelligent, but hey... at least it wasn't lovey dovey. ;)


and so it goes.... :rolleyes:

2 posts? You're having a laugh right? Have you read your posts?

Nitpicking rules, decisions, bemoaning everything all the time? Criticising anything in an abrasive manner and then getting all upset ("I guess I'll learn to keep my mouth shut in future"-type comments).... yeah.. that DOES constitute whining in the UK. Correct.
 
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DirtyBear said:
and so it goes.... :rolleyes:
you can attack me but I'm not supposed to respond, is that how it works? wanker. oh, don't bother responding, unless it's in PM, because I'm done. this stuff can be as annoying as the lovey dovey bullshit.
 
mrtnmoon said:
you can attack me but I'm not supposed to respond, is that how it works? wanker. oh, don't bother responding, unless it's in PM, because I'm done. this stuff can be as annoying as the lovey dovey bullshit.

Are you for REAL!?

It's precisely THAT point I'm trying to make to you. You come on and make these smartass comments and then get outraged, or are surprised if people respond in kind. Perhaps it's time you realised it's NOT everyone else....

And I expect you to respond. Just as I expect another snide comment or criticism in another thread to someone else as despite your remarks that "next time you'll keep your mouth shut".. you obviously can't. Now I am all for you making these remarks and observations if you want. They are your opinion and that's fair enough. Just be prepared for a comeback if you do though, rather than acting like a spoilt little child.

And you're right... it is annoying... as is the constant, unrelenting self-pity. So I will stop now.

I will now 'fuck myself' as I am a 'wanker', as the arbiter of all that is good and right on the forums has spoken.


I apologise profusely to lady*laura for this.... and hope the thread goes well. :eek:
 
Just wanted to say that I'm totally guilty of the lovey-dovey stuff and won't apologise for it. I'm happy...that's not a crime or something I should have to hide. I see the point of onlookers who get a little tired of it and all I can say to them is this:

I hope that you have that kind of love and happiness in your life and if not, I pray you will find it. :rose:

Now, on to the intelligence part. I'm all for intelligent conversation. I'm home with kids all day and would welcome a good workout for my brain. :D

:kiss: and :rose: for all...
 
keiffers said:
I say both are fine...BUT the only peeve I have are when threads get taken over by 'lovey dovey' stuff....granted that's cute and and all, but sometimes it goes too far.....ok hate me if you will, but I think some of it is too much...


I agree 100%!
 
CEASE AND DESIST! please

charmed1 said:
Just wanted to say that I'm totally guilty of the lovey-dovey stuff and won't apologise for it. I'm happy...that's not a crime or something I should have to hide. I see the point of onlookers who get a little tired of it and all I can say to them is this:

I hope that you have that kind of love and happiness in your life and if not, I pray you will find it. :rose:

Now, on to the intelligence part. I'm all for intelligent conversation. I'm home with kids all day and would welcome a good workout for my brain. :D

:kiss: and :rose: for all...

Now that I got that off my chest please let us get back to intelligent conversation. I'm not home with kids all day any more but I do work with kids and the public. Sometimes the kids are more intelligent than the public are....so, everyone quit whinning and let's get to intelligence.

Please.
 
lady*laura said:
Now that I got that off my chest please let us get back to intelligent conversation. I'm not home with kids all day any more but I do work with kids and the public. Sometimes the kids are more intelligent than the public are....so, everyone quit whinning and let's get to intelligence.

Please.

I agree...
 
Dhalgren150 said:
really and who says that?

I like to be enlightened.


*Grins* Now Dhalgren...... you know that naming things gives them power
 
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