Intelligence?

[freestone38]

Hostility

At what point did this become the hostility thread? Someone mentioned that this thread looked promising, and I agreed....... isn't there enough hate found in reality, without having to create it here? I'm just saying.....

 

[BlackWolf65]

At what point did this become the hostility thread? Someone mentioned that this thread looked promising, and I agreed....... isn't there enough hate found in reality, without having to create it here? I'm just saying.....

It bacame such when certain people decided that they wanted to bring it up a notch... I can debate with the best of them, but if someone wants to be hostile, I can be the same...

Especially when it's a whiney little pot of self-pity...

 

[WantonWitch]

All very eloquent, but hardly what the title of the thread is about... shame

 

[alisonwunderlnd]

what were we talking about again?

 

[freestone38]

All very eloquent, but hardly what the title of the thread is about... shame

Exactly..... part of the reason I choose this site over others that are more blunt, crass, and mundane is that one word......... intelligence. I thought, at least, that this site seemed to have more bright, articulate people than most.

Who are also freaky, horny, and a little twisted, of course.

 

[WantonWitch]

what were we talking about again?

I'm pretty sure it was intelligence and intelligent conversation.... however

 

[WantonWitch]

Exactly..... part of the reason I choose this site over others that are more blunt, crass, and mundane is that one word......... intelligence. I thought, at least, that this site seemed to have more bright, articulate people than most.

Who are also freaky, horny, and a little twisted, of course.

*Grins* Oh there are a lot of those on lit, sadly like elsewhere in the world there are some who are not so articulate, most of us get along peaceably.


Lol, there's any other way to be

 

[alisonwunderlnd]

I'm pretty sure it was intelligence and intelligent conversation.... however

ahh ok,,,I am sure then it will go that route.
Love talk is very sweet,,and heart warming yesss
But give me a man that can also get into my brain and I am "hooked".My ex called me a "brain groupie"..LOL

 

[Dhalgren150]

I think I am going to like this thread.

really.... and why ALi?

I was pondering Intelligence.

to many things come to me.

over load it causes.

I need to just seek what I know.

and let the brain powers speak intelligence.

 

[alisonwunderlnd]

really.... and why ALi?

I was pondering Intelligence.

to many things come to me.

over load it causes.

I need to just seek what I know.

and let the brain powers speak intelligence.

i am such a sucker for intelliegent conversation
good god its like Porn for me,,,LOL

 

[WantonWitch]

ahh ok,,,I am sure then it will go that route.
Love talk is very sweet,,and heart warming yesss
But give me a man that can also get into my brain and I am "hooked".My ex called me a "brain groupie"..LOL

I look at it this way, you can only spend so much time in bed/wherever ...at some point you are going to have to talk..... I want more than grunts and "where's the remote ? "

Hell might as well just stick with a vibe otherwise, it doesn't snore, is always ready to play, doesn't expect you to cook, clean or do laundry for it and never complains when you dare to touch the tv remote.

 

[freestone38]

*Grins* Oh there are a lot of those on lit, sadly like elsewhere in the world there are some who are not so articulate, most of us get along peaceably.


Lol, there's any other way to be

I suppose you're right...... why the grin, by the way? Are you intelligent, articulate, horny, freaky, or twisted? All of the above, I hope?

 

[freestone38]

I look at it this way, you can only spend so much time in bed/wherever ...at some point you are going to have to talk..... I want more than grunts and "where's the remote ? "

Hell might as well just stick with a vibe otherwise, it doesn't snore, is always ready to play, doesn't expect you to cook, clean or do laundry for it and never complains when you dare to touch the tv remote.

That's true..... without social graces, and sometimes income, it's tough to compete with the vibe.

 

[WantonWitch]

I suppose you're right...... why the grin, by the way? Are you intelligent, articulate, horny, freaky, or twisted? All of the above, I hope?

As to that, your opinion may well differ from mine, so altho' I could say ' yes I am all of the above' it is still only my opinion, no one elses and I could easily be wrong on any of the above

 

[alisonwunderlnd]

I look at it this way, you can only spend so much time in bed/wherever ...at some point you are going to have to talk..... I want more than grunts and "where's the remote ? "

Hell might as well just stick with a vibe otherwise, it doesn't snore, is always ready to play, doesn't expect you to cook, clean or do laundry for it and never complains when you dare to touch the tv remote.

I can spend A LOT of time in bed,,, however,,,he has simply got to have a brain to get me there to start out with
call me easy..call me freaky(many have),,But its way so much more of a turn on for me to have a stimulating conversation even over a cup of tea vs a stupid man taking me out on the tiles all night,,
mmm...ponders damn I am a freak,yeah?

 

[freestone38]

Good point.... although I was really referring to your self-perception..... in the end, does anything else matter much?

 

[WantonWitch]

That's true..... without social graces, and sometimes income, it's tough to compete with the vibe.

Pfffttt as long as there's a roof and food in the cupboard, who cares ? But conversational skills and the ability to carry a coherent argument..... nope... need those

 

[BlackWolf65]

Alright then... Let me bring it back down a notch, if I may.

The person I've had an exchange with here is a person who tends to haunt the threads of lit, wallowing in self-pity. No one likes him, women don't want him, etc. And yet... he feels free to complain about posts that have to do with love, and loving feelings, in another thread. When the originator of that thread has stated that she has no problem, and in fact encourages such posts. Then he attacks *my* thread, the Melty Heart thread, which was designed to be a place where people could bring their sentiments without posting them in other, perhaps less appropriate threads... So, what is his problem??

In my humble opinion, it is a complete lack of self-esteem. I have watched this person post over and over and over about how useless he is, how worthless he feels... He seems to harbor a grudge against those who have found that self-esteem, that love from another person.

I lost my temper, and for that I *will* apologize. For my honest feelings about this person, I will *not* apologize. He needs some serious therapy.

 

[WantonWitch]

I can spend A LOT of time in bed,,, however,,,he has simply got to have a brain to get me there to start out with
call me easy..call me freaky(many have),,But its way so much more of a turn on for me to have a stimulating conversation even over a cup of tea vs a stupid man taking me out on the tiles all night,,
mmm...ponders damn I am a freak,yeah?

Then Join the Freak club hon....... 'cos that makes 2 of us at least and I'm very sure there are many others both male and female

 

[alisonwunderlnd]

Then Join the Freak club hon....... 'cos that makes 2 of us at least and I'm very sure there are many others both male and female

weee
ok,,who wants to join the freakclub that is witchie and I?

 

[lik_m_ade]

i am such a sucker for intelliegent conversation
good god its like Porn for me,,,LOL

Plain as the nose on your face, lovely one.

The Latin sig is a dead giveaway to anyone interested enough to notice-as an intelligent person would.

 

[mrtnmoon]

It bacame such when certain people decided that they wanted to bring it up a notch... I can debate with the best of them, but if someone wants to be hostile, I can be the same...

Especially when it's a whiney little pot of self-pity...

if you'll look back over the thread, you'll see that it was your buddy that took it up a notch, for taking such great offense to such an innocuous comment. I never got hostile til there was hostility directed at me.

as for whining and self-pitying.... you've all done your share of it, too.... I guess that doesn't count, tho, because it's in the name of "love". at least what counts for love over the internet and the phone. no, wait.... I forgot... out of 100,000 posters on lit or however many it is, I'm the only one that ever expresses anything negative.

I'm not sure what your idea of being able to "debate with the best of them" is, but it seems to me that you mean calling me names. go on with your bad self. you rock, dude. you've really put me in my place. *yawn*

I'm done.... put me on ignore if my posts bother you. that's where you're going.

 

[freestone38]

Freak

All due respect, ladies....... I think the "freak" comment originated here...... shouldn't I have membership? lol

 

[WantonWitch]

Alright then... Let me bring it back down a notch, if I may.

The person I've had an exchange with here is a person who tends to haunt the threads of lit, wallowing in self-pity. No one likes him, women don't want him, etc. And yet... he feels free to complain about posts that have to do with love, and loving feelings, in another thread. When the originator of that thread has stated that she has no problem, and in fact encourages such posts. Then he attacks *my* thread, the Melty Heart thread, which was designed to be a place where people could bring their sentiments without posting them in other, perhaps less appropriate threads... So, what is his problem??

In my humble opinion, it is a complete lack of self-esteem. I have watched this person post over and over and over about how useless he is, how worthless he feels... He seems to harbor a grudge against those who have found that self-esteem, that love from another person.

I lost my temper, and for that I *will* apologize. For my honest feelings about this person, I will *not* apologize. He needs some serious therapy.

I can understand your point and see where you are coming from, however all I was really saying was this thread is no place for the conversation that ensued.
I for one am of the opinion that letting anothers point of view wind you up is a useless waste of your energy... so who really cares what they think ?
We are all entitled to voice our opinion, on any subject, hurray for free speech I hear you all cry... so, sometimes we don't like anothers speech, then just ignore it, in r/l it is nothing but air and on lit... mere pixels

So, back to intelligence

 

[lik_m_ade]

*Grins* Oh there are a lot of those on lit, sadly like elsewhere in the world there are some who are not so articulate, most of us get along peaceably.


Lol, there's any other way to be

Raises an interesting point...is articulate speech synonymous with intelligence?

Are we seduced by thoughts or the words that convey them?

Can a simple explanation of a profound thought arouse us more than an angelic representation of a dud?

Thoughts (or words) on this concept?