Increase in Bi-Curious Women

[ManInIronMask]

Is it just me, or have other people also noticed a significant profusion of bi-curious women who've increasingly come out on lit?

True, I am not a prolific poster, and more of a reader (lurker has a somewhat pejorative sound to it), but most of the women whose profiles I check out, or the threads I read seem to indicate them having an ever-increasing propensity towards their own gender, leaving us already short-changed men in the lurch (not the Addams' family character, just in case you thought so).

It is an alarming trend, and though being crazy about women myself, I can totally understand why women would ALSO go for women, I'm just wondering if there's women out there who'd be willing to be interested in us relatively less interesting but equally needy men.

 

[avvikande]

I hadn't noticed the propensity of women searching out their own kind (I have some kind of flash movie going in my head of zombie like women, shuffling towards other women, topless of course, but admittedly, I am so far without caffeine this morning...).

Rest assured my wondrous horny man, as such is procreation, we still need your cocks to survive, even if we don't need them to get off. I will say this, after encountering as many exes as I have that believe oral pleasures are a one way street (my mouth on their cock fyi), I can understand why women might believe their own gender will provide some new amusement.

And when all is said and done, no matter how much we women may love a juicy pussy spread open on our mouths, at least some of us (namely me) have a desperate need to be filled with thick cock that no woman can fill.

 

[ManInIronMask]

@avvikande -

While I must feel bad about the fact that you haven't met men like me who ALSO consider oral pleasures to be a one way street (but love giving), I must also tell you that your not noticing how most women are getting strongly bi-curious is probably because you're not personally bothered too much by that demographic, as opposed to some other people (yours truly for instance).

However, what you said is somewhat reassuring, and hope that regardless of women out there who playing for both teams, they'd still like to give the other gender its due!

 

[Pandora73]

[snip]... at least some of us (namely me) have a desperate need to be filled with thick cock that no woman can fill.

As usual, avvikande says it so well! I couldn't have said it better.

I am very curious about being with a woman, and I hope that someday I get to have that experience (haven't yet), but I'm pretty hard-wired to love you men. If forced to make a choice, I'll take a man, hands down... every day of the week and twice on Sunday!

But to take a stab at why you may think you see more bi-curious women here, I think it's just the nature of this board. What I notice is that a great many people here (male and female) are married. People are looking for something outside of their marriage (or maybe even something to bring into it), something they don't currently have or that they want to experience, so perhaps the bigger fantasy for women is another woman? It's not that she's defecting to go to the other "team" and give up on men, she's just seeking to fulfill a fantasy. *shrug* Just a guess, though. I see quite a few women looking for another man, too (like a MFM kind of thing).

I think the odds are against men on this board, no matter the reason! There's just more of you than there are of us women. Seemingly, anyway.

 

[ManInIronMask]

There's just more of you than there are of us women. Seemingly, anyway.

Well, I'm guessing its not merely ostensible, but quite real too. However, I had read somewhere that more and more women are turning towards online gratification as a means of playing it safe.

I wonder where all of them are

 

[sassylilthang]

increase?

I do not think there has necessarily been an increase in bi women on lit. I think there are two things at work here. 1) Women are greatly outnumbered on this board by men......so any time a woman puts up a post she tends to get bombarded by male correnspondence. Many of the men on this board are wonderful, intelligent, respectful men. Some are not so nice. When you encounter alot of the 2nd variety......it can be a bit of a turn off. A woman who is naturally curious may seek out another woman to talk to, since us women tend to be a bit more subtle and sensual. It takes a bit of time for us to warm up, and we like to chat a bit before "jumping into" things. 2) I think that society as a whole has made it much more acceptable for women to express their bi feelings. So women posting and attempting to create a chance to explore these feelings is natural. Besides it is Lit.....what better place to do it?

 

[ManInIronMask]

so effectively, what you're saying is that an inefficient policy of filtration has led you and the others to engage in jumping the team divide ?

 

[lady_poisyn]

I do not think there has necessarily been an increase in bi women on lit. I think there are two things at work here. 1) Women are greatly outnumbered on this board by men......so any time a woman puts up a post she tends to get bombarded by male correnspondence. Many of the men on this board are wonderful, intelligent, respectful men. Some are not so nice. When you encounter alot of the 2nd variety......it can be a bit of a turn off. A woman who is naturally curious may seek out another woman to talk to, since us women tend to be a bit more subtle and sensual. It takes a bit of time for us to warm up, and we like to chat a bit before "jumping into" things. 2) I think that society as a whole has made it much more acceptable for women to express their bi feelings. So women posting and attempting to create a chance to explore these feelings is natural. Besides it is Lit.....what better place to do it?

very well said sassy and my other beautiful ladies ^_^ i have to agree with all of you, i'm personally not out and out looking for a woman but not turning it down either, been talking with guys mostly and enjoying it. but the issues are as stated, more guys then girls, guys who are married (not something i feel i could do) and yes quite a few of the "can i jump your bones even though we've only talked 5 min" types. BUT i've also found some very wonderful guys who i enjoy talking to, and flirting with s to all of my guys ^_~

 

[mark_j]

Well, I'm guessing its not merely ostensible, but quite real too. However, I had read somewhere that more and more women are turning towards online gratification as a means of playing it safe.

I wonder where all of them are

Well lets see

we outnumber women on a board almost 10 to 1

10% of the female population is at least bi-curious (and a board like this is a safe place to express that)

so you do the math...

We are doomed

 

[lady_poisyn]

Well lets see

we outnumber women on a board almost 10 to 1

10% of the female population is at least bi-curious (and a board like this is a safe place to express that)

so you do the math...

We are doomed

not doomed i've yet to meet a woman who doesn't have some love for ya'll besides some of us wouldn't have an issue letting ya'll watch....... or join in ^_~

 

[ManInIronMask]

we live on hope!
like we have a choice!

 

[mark_j]

not doomed i've yet to meet a woman who doesn't have some love for ya'll besides some of us wouldn't have an issue letting ya'll watch....... or join in ^_~

i know.. i been there and done that... terribly erotic... and totally unexpected..

 

[ManInIronMask]

If anyone can dig this Orwellian reference -

MF - good!
FMF - better!

 

[sassylilthang]

very well said sassy and my other beautiful ladies ^_^ i have to agree with all of you, i'm personally not out and out looking for a woman but not turning it down either, been talking with guys mostly and enjoying it. but the issues are as stated, more guys then girls, guys who are married (not something i feel i could do) and yes quite a few of the "can i jump your bones even though we've only talked 5 min" types. BUT i've also found some very wonderful guys who i enjoy talking to, and flirting with s to all of my guys ^_~

I agree with you wholeheartedly. I am in a relationship, so not looking for new conquests....male or female. Not objecting to being approached, but if the person understands my rules for what I will and won't do.....even better.

I have also met some wonderful men here. One of whom is my bf of 3 years.

 

[ManInIronMask]

Not objecting to being approached, but if the person understands my rules for what I will and won't do.....even better.

^^ Can I be curious enough to ask what rules those are?

 

[sassylilthang]

^^ Can I be curious enough to ask what rules those are?

Sure, you can be curious enough to ask. Does not mean I will share them.

 

[mark_j]

^^ Can I be curious enough to ask what rules those are?

Rule #1.. she makes all the rules
Rule #2.. rules are subject to change without notice
Rule #3.. Man can never know all the rules
Rule #4.. If man figures out the rules.. see rule #2

 

[VeronicaSexie]

Rule #1.. she makes all the rules
Rule #2.. rules are subject to change without notice
Rule #3.. Man can never know all the rules
Rule #4.. If man figures out the rules.. see rule #2

Hence, there above lies the problem. I completely disagree with mark j. I think it more applies to men. SOME of them are impossible to please and the rules change as above. Yes, I have run into more than my fair share of jerks I think. So I went to women, and they do not expect perfection and we know what we like sexually. Ideally I would like to be in a relationship with a male and a female. Equal partners, no jealousy. Yes, ideally. Anyone interested in such a relationship, please let me know. Also I think the author of the book about men and women penned it perfectly with Women are from Venus, Men are from Mars!!! I just say amen to that. We are on different planets as far as our mindsets go. The perfect pics you see of women in magazine are very much airbrushed and touched up. No real woman is perfect, nor is any man.


I love men, but nowadays I am leaning much stronger towards women. I was bisexual before I came on this board. I would love to meet a good and decent guy that would accept me for who and what I am, not expecting me to have the body of a goddess. Now I am in hot pursuit of a woman. I have been on dating sites to find a guy and just give up. Plus I live in a Southern town in the middle of the bible belt. Here we seem to have an abundance of women vs. men. I really thought that the numbers of men were dwindling. I know the number of truly eligible ones are!

If by some miracle, in my search for a woman I were to meet the right man, I would be happy. It would make life easier, considering where I live.

Btw, OP, I am single and near your age.

Just my humble opinion guys.

Veronica

 

[mark_j]

Hence, there above lies the problem. I completely disagree with mark j. I think it more applies to men. SOME of them are impossible to please and the rules change as above. Yes, I have run into more than my fair share of jerks I think. So I went to women, and they do not expect perfection and we know what we like sexually. Ideally I would like to be in a relationship with a male and a female. Equal partners, no jealousy. Yes, ideally. Anyone interested in such a relationship, please let me know. Also I think the author of the book about men and women penned it perfectly with Women are from Venus, Men are from Mars!!! I just say amen to that. We are on different planets as far as our mindsets go. The perfect pics you see of women in magazine are very much airbrushed and touched up. No real woman is perfect, nor is any man.

Most of us (not all or even a vast majority) know this.. I've look at playboy type mags since my dad used to get them 40 odd years ago and all I could think when I got old enough was "FAKE"

Equal partners in a three way relationship take a hell of a lot of communication and an open mindset that is very rare or so my experience has been..

I love men, but nowadays I am leaning much stronger towards women. I was bisexual before I came on this board. I would love to meet a good and decent guy that would accept me for who and what I am, not expecting me to have the body of a goddess. Now I am in hot pursuit of a woman. I have been on dating sites to find a guy and just give up. Plus I live in a Southern town in the middle of the bible belt. Here we seem to have an abundance of women vs. men. I really thought that the numbers of men were dwindling. I know the number of truly eligible ones are!

If by some miracle, in my search for a woman I were to meet the right man, I would be happy. It would make life easier, considering where I live.

Btw, OP, I am single and near your age.

Just my humble opinion guys.

Veronica

Part of your advantage is that you admit your bi-sexuality to begin with and any man worth his salt should know or understand that this is part of who you are from the start..

 

[ima6uldv8]

I've always been that way due to something that occured earlier in life. Too early to be discussed here. But, if I wasn't, I don't think that the many jerks I've had in my life would make me want to play on the same team. I think either you're wired that way or you had something happen to affect your developing.

 

[ManInIronMask]

Nevertheless, the main reason for my having this thread posted was to
a) wonder what can be done about it, so that we don't have too many defections from our team
b) find those that still like our team best

While that might definitely sound quite juvenile and sophomoric, I've realized that adding humour with a pinch of salt definitely helps one's cause. As does controlled self-deprication.

 

[Needfull Thing]

Hence, there above lies the problem. I completely disagree with mark j. I think it more applies to men. SOME of them are impossible to please and the rules change as above. Yes, I have run into more than my fair share of jerks I think. So I went to women, and they do not expect perfection and we know what we like sexually. Ideally I would like to be in a relationship with a male and a female. Equal partners, no jealousy. Yes, ideally. Anyone interested in such a relationship, please let me know. Also I think the author of the book about men and women penned it perfectly with Women are from Venus, Men are from Mars!!! I just say amen to that. We are on different planets as far as our mindsets go. The perfect pics you see of women in magazine are very much airbrushed and touched up. No real woman is perfect, nor is any man.


I love men, but nowadays I am leaning much stronger towards women. I was bisexual before I came on this board. I would love to meet a good and decent guy that would accept me for who and what I am, not expecting me to have the body of a goddess. Now I am in hot pursuit of a woman. I have been on dating sites to find a guy and just give up. Plus I live in a Southern town in the middle of the bible belt. Here we seem to have an abundance of women vs. men. I really thought that the numbers of men were dwindling. I know the number of truly eligible ones are!

If by some miracle, in my search for a woman I were to meet the right man, I would be happy. It would make life easier, considering where I live.

Btw, OP, I am single and near your age.

Just my humble opinion guys.

Veronica

Some of us men might surprise you. I for one am pretty much looking for exactly what you want Veronica. Unfortunately I am far away and very young (25). But I think a lot of the problem lay in the fact that both men and women only pay attention to the ones who stand out, so a lot of women are pressured to present themselves in a certain way and guys respond by trying to become what that type of woman likes. I.E. the aggressive Alpha male.

In my experience, the aggressive Alpha Males tend to be assholes.

 

[HowMayIPleaseU]

I think it very much depends on the individuals involved...

However, I am certainly firmly on the side of desiring men... I usually only do general chat with women and generally only pleasure women when requested to by men...

So there's no question that there ARE some of us left here... LOL ... but I do think the math is strongly against the men on this site... and yet, some men manage to surpass the math...

 

[ManInIronMask]

I think it very much depends on the individuals involved...

However, I am certainly firmly on the side of desiring men... I usually only do general chat with women and generally only pleasure women when requested to by men...

So there's no question that there ARE some of us left here... LOL ... but I do think the math is strongly against the men on this site... and yet, some men manage to surpass the math...

Thank God for women like you - And I've learnt that there is a significant difference between being good at math, and working towards the probabilistic nature of having fun on lit in one's favour.

 

[ManInIronMask]

On a totally tangential note, the fact that Butters (Leopold Stotch) in South Park referred to himself as bicurious in that South Park episode has been one of the funniest things I've seen in a long time!

Not sure how many have seen the episode to identify the reference. Thank God for us getting South Park here in Norway!