I am a 46yr female. Happily married for 25 yr. I enjoy being tied up and sometimes blindfolded, my body being ravished, and being penetrated with huge dildos or a fist. The wider the toy the better. Then while still bound having my husband fuck and use me how he wishes and for how long. He controls how and when I cum. But I don't like being humiliated, pain or spanking. In what catagory do I fall in under.