In regards to Self Esteem / Self Confidence

[Emerson40]

Look, another ineffectual drive-by in a thread, following ed.


http://24.media.tumblr.com/428cd9de4eef96ff12e1666b76b05c8a/tumblr_n0ao3nHm251r5gpr0o1_1280.jpg



Clearly, has a thing for silvery whisperings and sound logic.



Scoot on back to the trailer now, ol' fella. Your infatuation is showing.

Atta boy.

 

[silverwhisper]

i tell ya, that guy is just desperate to taste my cock. it would be cute if--



--what am i saying, it's just plain sad.

ed

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

i tell ya, that guy is just desperate to taste my cock. it would be cute if--



--what am i saying, it's just plain sad.

ed

Wishful thinking. FIREBREEZE has a bigger wang than you.

 

[silverwhisper]

you keep finding it necessary to try to get my attention, jimbo. the thought of it must keep you up at night...



...well, at least as up as you're able: if every post i've ever seen from you is anything to judge by, you're at least as limp & flaccid as they are.

ed

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

you keep finding it necessary to try to get my attention, jimbo. the thought of it must keep you up at night...



...well, at least as up as you're able: if every post i've ever seen from you is anything to judge by, you're at least as limp & flaccid as they are.

ed

You flatter yourself. 'Keep me up' and 'flaccid' are the right words but not in the egotistical sense of YOUR wishes. You got the cart before the horse, hoss.

 

[silverwhisper]

spare us, jimbo, your shameless attention whoring and insistence on demanding my attention are quite clear to everyone here but you, captain oblivious.

ed

 

[Cathleen]

Why do you respond ed? You've made posts to others not to take JBJ seriously or quote his posts, yet here you are continuing.

Also, your wording in the last post should probably start with "Spare me..." as it's your issue not the rest of "us", it would seem.

You're both in this together.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

spare us, jimbo, your shameless attention whoring and insistence on demanding my attention are quite clear to everyone here but you, captain oblivious.

ed

If yuh got it, flaunt it.

 

[robertreams]

I was exactly like you. Exercise. Stand before that mirror and tell yourself how wonderful you are, Keep saying it until you believe it. It worked for me.

 

[Sheana_V]

I thought of a bunch of stuff I could say, but in the end it's too complex to break down on this forum. I'd ignore most of the advice dispensed here; much of it is really people just dumping their own insecurities onto your problem.
My advice: read "The Ethical Slut". Not because I think you should be polyamorous (I don't), but because it's the best guide I've found about making your relationships intentional. The insecurity from the other person probably indicates insecurity with your partner, which indicates to me that theres a failure at some level to communicate expectations and boundaries. When that happens it's as though each of you are experiencing two different relationships.

-SV