In a way, some of the posts here remind me of classic cases of denial

Freya2 said:

Funny for all that you and your buddies attack her, you're just exactly the same. Someone needs to stick a pin in your overinflated ego and pop it down to normal size once again - if it was ever normal size.

So much for the I like you lav, bullshit. Glad you stopped lying to me and the board.

Now why don't you add this onto Lance's two faces of the BB thread.
 
lavender said:
Actually, if you'll look beyond the fact that you think I'm trying to be extraordinarily bitchy, you'll understand the point I'm trying to make.

The point is actual a neutral one for both sides. It's admitting a realization I have made and I think everyone else should.

Playing the "sides" war will never solve anything. Each group can say the same thing about the other side.

It's just perspectives due to our placement in this "sides war."

Seriously. Think about it.

Ok. This post was an extremely honest interpretation of the behaviour done in a forthright manner. It would have created a lot less innuendo and resentment if this had been the first post in the thread....yet, not as much drama. :)
 
shut up, all of you.

You're all fucking bitches, and so am I.

Live with it.

Now let's move on to something else.
 
lavender said:
Actually, if you'll look beyond the fact that you think I'm trying to be extraordinarily bitchy, you'll understand the point I'm trying to make.

The point is actual a neutral one for both sides. It's admitting a realization I have made and I think everyone else should.

Playing the "sides" war will never solve anything. Each group can say the same thing about the other side.

It's just perspectives due to our placement in this "sides war."

Seriously. Think about it.

Spelling Buddy says actually. :D
 
Mia62 said:
Ok. This post was an extremely honest interpretation of the behaviour done in a forthright manner. It would have created a lot less innuendo and resentment if this had been the first post in the thread....yet, not as much drama. :)

That was my point. If I had just said it, it would have been overlooked. The fact that you make a statement and a demonstration makes it stick with people more. Thus, the reasoning for my post. Thanks Mia, for acknowledging it.

Unfortunately, in the midst of me trying to show this, I found out Freya's true opinion of me.

I guess when I use her own words to demonstrate hypocrisy - even when I'm addressing my own - that stings a bit too much.

But, maybe that's just my overly inflated ego talking.
 
I never was good at team spirit. If someone had a good play, I was happy for them no matter what team they were on. I never have understood contact sports. Just what is the point? Getting entertained while people beat each other up?

I find most of this is pin pricking. Who can inflict the most wounds and then pour alcohol on them first, wins. I know that is a BDSM kind of thing, just not something for which I am personally attracted.
 
perky_baby said:

Now let's move on to something else.

Excellent!

Breasts off the port bow!

Nipples ho!!

C'mon grrls, stop fighting and start posting nudies again.

I'll bet the boys will even relent on the No Cock Zone...at least for the holidaze.

Lance
 
I find it amusing, highly amusing, that the minute someone makes a point that counteracts Lance that it's time for boobies and fun fluffy sex.

LOL

Transparent.
 
Hugs Perky.....

OK I am going to look for a fluffy thread. Lavender not worth the time in the whole realm of things. The Holidays are soon here. Yeah!!!!!


Peace,
Tulip
 
Re: I agree with you Lavender on

tulip2lipservice said:
this. I am sure by the time I post this several people would have responded.

I take full responsibility on insulting one person last week. Mind you it was fun and my intent was aimed solely on one troll. Since then several people felt as if they were attacking me, but I took it as a grain of salt. Not worth my time for in my mind it was already done and over with. Some people do not know how to let things drop. Even if the other party tries to move on somebody always tries to drag the same stuff up. Broken record. Notice there are no names mentioned within this post.

I do know that it is the Holiday season and I can deal without others trying to bring me into the drama. It is a good soap opera going on and such. Funny how the just suppose thread keeps getting bumped by unregister. Usually there are always good things that come out of bad things. I have seen a few in regards to that over this week. I also have seen one that I never would of thought would be the way I see him now.

Peace,
Tulip

Spelling Buddy says Unregistered. :D
 
lavender said:
So much for the I like you lav, bullshit. Glad you stopped lying to me and the board.

Now why don't you add this onto Lance's two faces of the BB thread.

Grow up Lavender. Seriously. Poor you. Unlike so many others around here, I have an ability to like a person without liking everything they do or say. I don't need to agree with, or accept every part of a person and their actions to still have a healthy respect or admiration for a person. There are parts of my best friends that I dislike - yet they are still my friends.

Once again you have created exactly the drama you claim to dislike by posting a thread, and phrasing it purposefully hostile. Rather than just coming out and saying what you truly mean, you have to get your digs in first. Nobody will read it you say? So let's create the drama so that you can then go back and justify it by using that excuse.........again. Like I have said all along, you have good points to be made, but your phrasing (which I used to think was inadvertant) is what creates the tension and hostility. You are no more and no less a drama queen than Mia is.
 
Freya2 said:
Grow up Lavender. Seriously. Poor you. Unlike so many others around here, I have an ability to like a person without liking everything they do or say. I don't need to agree with, or accept every part of a person and their actions to still have a healthy respect or admiration for a person. There are parts of my best friends that I dislike - yet they are still my friends.

Once again you have created exactly the drama you claim to dislike by posting a thread, and phrasing it purposefully hostile. Rather than just coming out and saying what you truly mean, you have to get your digs in first. Nobody will read it you say? So let's create the drama so that you can then go back and justify it by using that excuse.........again. Like I have said all along, you have good points to be made, but your phrasing (which I used to think was inadvertant) is what creates the tension and hostility. You are no more and no less a drama queen than Mia is.

LOL

Yes, you can think I have an overly inflated ego that needs to be popped and say all this stuff about me and still like me.

Whatever Freya.

Thanks for doing this though. I like to know where I stand with someone. In the past you were just pussyfooting around. I can't respect that. But now, you've said it outright. We can be on more level playing field. :)
 
Lav is an attention whore bitch with saggy tits. Really, does anything else need to be said on the subject?
 
lavender said:
That was my point. If I had just said it, it would have been overlooked. The fact that you make a statement and a demonstration makes it stick with people more. Thus, the reasoning for my post. Thanks Mia, for acknowledging it.

Unfortunately, in the midst of me trying to show this, I found out Freya's true opinion of me.

I guess when I use her own words to demonstrate hypocrisy - even when I'm addressing my own - that stings a bit too much.

But, maybe that's just my overly inflated ego talking.

No, lavender...it would not have been overlooked.

It would have just shown you to be a classier person than this thread did.

I have told you many times that I think you have an incredibly intelligent mind and a wonderful heart. I still stand by that opinion whether I agree with your tactics or not.

This was a highly inflammatory thread...done on purpose for the sole reason of creating drama and innuendo. It worked.
 
sunstruck said:
At what point have I ever been passive agressive in my posting??? LMAO!

Those straws are far out of your grasp hon.

Spelling Buddy says aggressive. :D
 
lavender said:
LOL

Yes, you can think I have an overly inflated ego that needs to be popped and say all this stuff about me and still like me.

Whatever Freya.

Thanks for doing this though. I like to know where I stand with someone. In the past you were just pussyfooting around. I can't respect that. But now, you've said it outright. We can be on more level playing field. :)

Actually Lav - whether you choose to believe it or not, I do like you. Well the persona that you display on here. I don't know "you" and have no urge to do so. I like how you stand up for your beliefs, how you are so passionate in arguing those, and your intelligence impresses me as well. What I don't like about you is your ongoing need to pretend to be something you aren't - which is a drama queen. I do believe that all those things that I like about you, also create an overpowering sense of yourself, and that you have a big ego. You mock and insult those for being and doing exactly what you are and do, while sitting back and pretending that you don't. You qualify everything, and have an excuse for all of your actions so that by the end of the thread, after you've got everyone worked up, you can pretend to have not really mean what you said in the first place. You dislike people who see through your act. It's funny because not only are you similar to Mia in most of what you insult her about - you are also eeerily similar to Lance in those things that you insult him for.
 
lavender said:
LOL

Yes, you can think I have an overly inflated ego that needs to be popped and say all this stuff about me and still like me.

Whatever Freya.

Thanks for doing this though. I like to know where I stand with someone. In the past you were just pussyfooting around. I can't respect that. But now, you've said it outright. We can be on more level playing field. :)

Grammar Buddy says on a more. :D
 
Freya2 said:
... you are also eeerily similar to Lance in those things that you insult him for.
Which would make Lance eerily similar to her in those things he insults her for :D
 
lavender said:
I don't care for peas, but the pods are nice.

Too fluffy as in the corny kind. Come on you just wanted to show off your shiny new signature line didnt you? Admit it.
 
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