In a way, some of the posts here remind me of classic cases of denial

[lavender]

There are days when reading certain threads/posts make me feel as tho I need to go cleanse my mind afterwards. I find it disheartening to read how people passive aggressively attack others continuously and then pretend as though they were only beginning a sincere thread that was serious. It is hard to read the words without rolling your eyes and thinking about the pot and the kettle.

 

[Lancecastor]

There are days when reading certain threads/posts make me feel as tho I need to go cleanse my mind afterwards. I find it disheartening to read how people passive aggressively attack others continuously and then pretend as though they were only beginning a sincere thread that was serious. It is hard to read the words without rolling your eyes and thinking about the pot and the kettle.

Agreed.

Recognizing you have a problem is your first step, Lavender. I encourage you to keep trying.

Do you ever see a time when you'll stop doing it completely?

Lance

 

[Freya]

I always think it's funny though how the pot gets shit on for it while the kettle consistently denies doing the same.

 

[Mia62]

Hi Kettle.

 

[Guest]

 

[lavender]

Well I haven't had my accusation of being the drama queen yet. As soon as that comes in, I'll know I've hit a sore spot, and then it'll degenerate into abuse.

 

[claude_moveml]

I always think it's funny though how the pot gets shit on for it while the kettle consistently denies doing the same.

Grammar Buddy says shitted. Or possibly shat.

 

[Mia62]

Well I haven't had my accusation of being the drama queen yet. As soon as that comes in, I'll know I've hit a sore spot, and then it'll degenerate into abuse.

No, lavender. You are not being a drama queen here...just bitchy.

 

[Art.Donovan]

Drama Queen..how's that?

 

[lavender]

Possibly because it doesn't seem to matter what I post these days - the comments will be made regardless. I get insulted when I post fluff, I get insulted when I try to be serious - so why not confront the situation head on.

 

[sunstruck]

I think seeing this once or twice is coincedence, but there are posters who do it ALL the time.

It's cowardice. I can't abide cowardice.

 

[Art.Donovan]

Oh, you have saggy tits as well.

 

[Beebeeblue]

Well I haven't had my accusation of being the drama queen yet. As soon as that comes in, I'll know I've hit a sore spot, and then it'll degenerate into abuse.

Lavy, you will never be a drama queen.


You keep to much of your personal life to yourself.

 

[Lancecastor]

Well I haven't had my accusation of being the drama queen yet. As soon as that comes in, I'll know I've hit a sore spot, and then it'll degenerate into abuse.

Better idea....how about we skip ahead 12 hours or so to the point where you apologize to me and the Board and promise you're not going to do this anymore?


Lance

 

[Guest]

 

[claude_moveml]

I think seeing this once or twice is coincedence, but there are posters who do it ALL the time.

It's cowardice. I can't abide cowardice.

Spelling Buddy says coincidence. Or possibly koinkidink.

 

[lavender]

Actually, if you'll look beyond the fact that you think I'm trying to be extraordinarily bitchy, you'll understand the point I'm trying to make.

The point is actual a neutral one for both sides. It's admitting a realization I have made and I think everyone else should.

Playing the "sides" war will never solve anything. Each group can say the same thing about the other side.

It's just perspectives due to our placement in this "sides war."

Seriously. Think about it.

 

[claude_moveml]

Lavy, you will never be a drama queen.


You keep to much of your personal life to yourself.

Grammar Buddy says too much.

 

[Mia62]

I think seeing this once or twice is coincedence, but there are posters who do it ALL the time.

It's cowardice. I can't abide cowardice.

Perhaps because you see yourself reflected.

This comment and the above one to lavender were not passive/aggressive...just honest.

This thread is again a choice that someone made to passively attack a viewpoint that I had. Personally, I don't care whether you agree with me or not...it is MY viewpoint and I am entitled to it.

If you choose to disagree with the statement, then by all means, feel free as that is YOUR entitlement. Just do it in an honest manner while staying on topic, instead of adding to the continual verbal abuse.

 

[mbb308]

Grammar Buddy says shitted. Or possibly shat.

Shit, shitted, and shat are all correct in my Webster's.

 

[lavender]

I have used the exact words of people on the other side, and have shown how they can be applicable. I could do the same thing with respect to what we say.

The fact is, Hamlet was right the other day. If I posted that BDSM thread with Diet Coke instead, I might get the same reaction. Right now, I'm making everyone defensive. Similar words were used by Freya about bratcat.

Right now, tensions are high. We have to keep getting defensive and bitchy. I'm just trying to show you that it's all a two way street.

I'm not here to insult Mia or Freya. I said I wouldn't for a week, and I wont. I have no desire to insult Freya and Mia has a history that just invites commentary.

As for Lance, I am no longer throwing around insults but am answering rationally and logically.

 

[tulip2lipservice]

I agree with you Lavender on

this. I am sure by the time I post this several people would have responded.

I take full responsibility on insulting one person last week. Mind you it was fun and my intent was aimed solely on one troll. Since then several people felt as if they were attacking me, but I took it as a grain of salt. Not worth my time for in my mind it was already done and over with. Some people do not know how to let things drop. Even if the other party tries to move on somebody always tries to drag the same stuff up. Broken record. Notice there are no names mentioned within this post.

I do know that it is the Holiday season and I can deal without others trying to bring me into the drama. It is a good soap opera going on and such. Funny how the just suppose thread keeps getting bumped by unregister. Usually there are always good things that come out of bad things. I have seen a few in regards to that over this week. I also have seen one that I never would of thought would be the way I see him now.

Peace,
Tulip

 

[Freya]

And mocking other threads to make your own bitchy points makes you just as bad as those you are criticizing. I'd like to repeat the sentiment of "Hello kettle".

Funny for all that you and your buddies attack her, you're just exactly the same. Someone needs to stick a pin in your overinflated ego and pop it down to normal size once again - if it was ever normal size.



And claude, I think it might be shit. Had I said it as she had been shit on in the past it would have been shat. I'm not really sure if grammar lessons apply to curse words however.

 

[Lancecastor]

Playing the "sides" war will never solve anything. Each group can say the same thing about the other side.

It's just perspectives due to our placement in this "sides war."

Seriously. Think about it.

Sounds like it's time for you to show us your other side, Lav.

Does this mean you'll be posting your other boobie now?



Lance

 

[sunstruck]

Perhaps because you see yourself reflected.

At what point have I ever been passive agressive in my posting??? LMAO!

Those straws are far out of your grasp hon.