In a 3some, do you prefer to fuck a friend or a stranger

[naughtoldperv]

I have to say that I prefer fucking a stranger altho the wife would be more open to fucking a friend. My reasoning is that NSA sex with a stranger has fewer dangers of it coming back to haunt you in the future...........seen it happen where close friendships have been destroyed by adding sex to the equation.
Good friends are harder to find than quick impulsive fucks!

 

[screwher]

In all likelihood my participation in a threesome would be watching my wife in one with two other men. Or another married couple. I have no desire for her to have sex with any of my friends. Or really anyone from "my side" of the relationship. So I'd want them to be strangers. Or friends of hers.

 

[mikendel]

We started with friends and didn't move to strangers for about 10 years. friends are fun but strangers are very sexy and fun.

 

[pumperguy191]

we had this conversation over dinner tonight. I said it will probably happen while on vacation so it would have to be strangers.

anyone going to be Gatlinburg, TN, Nov 2 - 6 ?

 

[SweetAndMerry]

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[naughtoldperv]

Yes fucking strangers has the X factor of knowing that you most probably won't run into each other on the street and that you can play out your wilder fantasies.

 

[SweetAndMerry]

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[naughtoldperv]

I like having a shared intimate history with friends. It excites me. Sometimes they are embarrassed and I feel bad for them. I'm not ashamed though. They saw me at my best!

I really enjoy that 'shared history' with my wife..........like we're the only one [other than Xman] that knows what went on. Otherwise, we're just an ordinary boring couple [with kids] from a small town where everyone knows what's going on and talks about it.

 

[HayleyLuvsSex]

Stranger

 

[bibethhotwet]

Not that we have not bedded down with strangers within a few hours of meeting but as swingers we prefer people we know.

 

[jackstud]

good call Hon

 

[SamLaraCroft]

I am single right now, so the prospect of two strangers isn't really appealing, I would prefer to have my boyfriend invite his friend to try double penetration and spit roasting, so two guys I don't know could be risky xx

 

[Isevil1976]

Stranger, and we both prefer if we don’t know her or his name.

 

[JackOffer]

Friends and family.

 

[Sunshine420]

Both.

I've done both and enjoy both.
Although I prefer friends... If it gets to the point of fucking it's because we're comfortable and trust each other.

 

[live4thebj]

This is based on actual experience from the past. I prefer fucking a stranger or the closest to a friend a fuck buddy. Or if we are talking about having someone fuck my wife that would have to be a stranger or at least the person is a stranger to me. I had friends fuck my GF in the past during a gang-bang and another time in a 3-way, but since she fucked my friends I couldn't see being with her long term since when we hung out with them it's that weird bond we all shared. Now if we just fucked some girl then it would be cool. Or I had a 3-way or gang-bang with people we don't hang out with, then I am more into that.

But in the end, if she gets fucked I get at least sucked and down the road we have to have a 3-way or more with just woman. It's only fair.

 

[Gamine67]

Hypothetically a friend, that I choose.

Every time I hear Carly Simon sing "Come Upstairs" I think, yes that's the way I'd like it.

 

[tallladiesman]

I prefer two strangers if I'm being honest

 

[janeyl]

Both have their attractions but the strangers we've fucked in the past have tended to turn into friends anyway and the sex tends to get better the better we know each other...

 

[chame1eon]

Friend.

 

[PleasePeesMe]

If my wife

turned up and said, I've got a cock for us to share, I wouldn't care who it belonged to.

 

[loveupskirt]

Hmmm

Even though there is about a .001% chance of ever adding a third person with my wife, i would strongly prefer a stranger, especially if it were a guy. Never met, never see him again. Same for a woman for the most part. Of course none of my wifes friends do it for me either. An old friend of hers, say from college, might be intetesting though, especially given what she did in those explorative years..... now her sisters might be another story.

 

[naughtoldperv]

When we did it with a stranger [guy], we got to know each other slowly via messages and a skype show before we met............almost like the old fashioned way of getting to know each other and their likes/dislikes/limits before we actually met in a public place, then all saw that we could click and we went straight to the hotel room and had a hot time fulfilling all our fantasies and then went on our own ways. Had a couple of other meetings that went well until we moved to a distant location.
All in all, it went well and fuck buddies turned into friends.
We did a few things that I would never consider doing with friends, but felt totally comfortable with a stranger.

 

[Icygurl423152000]

I prefer acquaintances someone I know and feel easy with yet not someone in mine or my partners day to day.

 

[ADIDAS00]

I'd prefer a stranger or at least someone who started out as a stranger. I'd prefer it to be a handsome guy who's well endowed for my wife to enjoy. Someone who's easy going and open minded. And having chemistry between us three would be the most important part. Just my two cents