Impregnation and cheating

Reminds me of the Law and Order: SVU episode in which John Stamos played a guy who impregnated over 40 women and financially supported all of them but didn't actually act like a dad and parent them. He was called a "reproductive abuser." Yeah, sounds so hot. :LOL:
Huh never seen that
 
Wow now that you can actually go to jail for I’ve read I’m talking about agreed between 2 people impregnating risks
 
^^^ I wish a lot of people would stop doing a lot of things, but I'm trying to find a way to get a point across without stomping on toes too hard. This board hasn't had a Mod for a year or more and lots of bad habits developed. Trying to smooth things out might take some time.

Quite frankly a lot of the threads are kind of disgusting, but I can't really do anything about that as long as they don't break a rule.
 
My first wife came equipped with a long sexual history. She said that she had always thought of sex as a friendly thing to do so she had accumulated a long string of lovers. I loved hearing her stories, especially the ones where she was involved with more than one man at a time.

For the first few years (at least as far as I knew) she was "loyal" to me, but eventually admitted that she missed her old ways. She was very attractive -- 5' 8", long dark hair, about 115 lbs -- and guys were always hitting on her. So she was hit on guys all the time. One of my friends even hit on D at our wedding party. Then a few years after we wed she had to go on a lengthy business trip to London. We agreed that she was was free to "cheat" if she wanted to and cheat she did. First with a German student who she had just met that night, but then she settled down to an office affair with a guy five years her junior. She called me every few days and told me all about her partners and I then interrogated her about what clothes she had worn for a particular date and whether she had cum with the guy.

After about six months she was home. I picked her up and we went to the airport parking lot and fucked in the car, while she told me about all the affairs she had had while she was away including several rather casual ones she hadn't mentioned before. Soon after we found that she was pregnant. She wasn't sure who the father was, but it certainly wasn't me.
 
My first wife came equipped with a long sexual history. She said that she had always thought of sex as a friendly thing to do so she had accumulated a long string of lovers. I loved hearing her stories, especially the ones where she was involved with more than one man at a time.

For the first few years (at least as far as I knew) she was "loyal" to me, but eventually admitted that she missed her old ways. She was very attractive -- 5' 8", long dark hair, about 115 lbs -- and guys were always hitting on her. So she was hit on guys all the time. One of my friends even hit on D at our wedding party. Then a few years after we wed she had to go on a lengthy business trip to London. We agreed that she was was free to "cheat" if she wanted to and cheat she did. First with a German student who she had just met that night, but then she settled down to an office affair with a guy five years her junior. She called me every few days and told me all about her partners and I then interrogated her about what clothes she had worn for a particular date and whether she had cum with the guy.

After about six months she was home. I picked her up and we went to the airport parking lot and fucked in the car, while she told me about all the affairs she had had while she was away including several rather casual ones she hadn't mentioned before. Soon after we found that she was pregnant. She wasn't sure who the father was, but it certainly wasn't me.
Your reaction?
 
We lost the baby early in the pregnancy, but the whole experience was a turn on. I wouldn't have minded if she had had a child. I loved her being with other guys though and we had a few foursomes too
 
Not to be a downer but don't think of kids as cum stains that you walk away from and hope somebody else cleans up. I was the result of an affair that AncestryDNA brought to light. I was fortunate my non biological dad had no idea and raised me with love.

Fuck around all you want but stop fetishizing leaving kids in your wake.
 
Not to be a downer but don't think of kids as cum stains that you walk away from and hope somebody else cleans up. I was the result of an affair that AncestryDNA brought to light. I was fortunate my non biological dad had no idea and raised me with love.

Fuck around all you want but stop fetishizing leaving kids in your wake.
I think you may be reading something into my post -- didn't say I was walking away from anything
 
We lost the baby early in the pregnancy, but the whole experience was a turn on. I wouldn't have minded if she had had a child. I loved her being with other guys though and we had a few foursomes too
Sorry to hear that. My son was a still born and it really sucks to have to bury your offspring.

They say it takes 5 years to get over a loss of a spouse, 7 years to get over a loss of a parent, but a parent NEVER gets over the loss of a child. That I can attest too. As the years go on, and I see other kids the same age as he would be hit the milestones, it saddens me for sure.

As for pregnancy risk, I understand it. It has nothing to do with leaving babies in the wake of casual sex, its the idea that sex is lasting and more than a grin, some small talk, all before the couple goes to sleep. It's the creation of human life! That is amazing and gives sex true meaning. I mean the best sex of my life was after my first child, my goodness I had to wait six weeks to be with her,and then when I did, I realized sex... THAT simple three letter word... produced a mini human with a heart, eyes, ears, ten fingers, ten toes... all in 9 months. It is mind blowing sex when you realize what can really happen.

And this is coming from a guy that has had a horrific life. My conception was a complete accident and I ended up growing up in a foster home. But in a strange way it is good because I don't expect anyone to be "friends" with anyone. My own mother did not want me, so why would anyone else? It really sets the bar low, but then 80% of the people in the world don't care about your problems anyway, and the other 20% are glad you have them.
 
There were three major studies sometime in the 90's, One by Stanford, and two others. All of them said the same thing, though the percentages were a bit different, and the percentages also differed on the reasons but not much.

The result of the study/surveys, was that in cases of long term marriages with multiple kids, at least one, and most often the second one, was not the biological offspring of the husband. The Stanford study put it at around 14%, another study put it at almost 15%, and the other, considered an outlier, put it at almost 19%.

I am currently working on a story, highlighting those reasons, and tying it into a husband and wife role playing the issue, and the end result
 
There were three major studies sometime in the 90's, One by Stanford, and two others. All of them said the same thing, though the percentages were a bit different, and the percentages also differed on the reasons but not much.

The result of the study/surveys, was that in cases of long term marriages with multiple kids, at least one, and most often the second one, was not the biological offspring of the husband. The Stanford study put it at around 14%, another study put it at almost 15%, and the other, considered an outlier, put it at almost 19%.

I am currently working on a story, highlighting those reasons, and tying it into a husband and wife role playing the issue, and the end result
I would concur with that study...

In my own experience in being on the dating scene a few years ago, it seemed there was a lot of "band aid babies" as they are called. Dating woman of my age group, which was around 40-45, quite a few ladies I dated had 2 teenage kids then a much younger one, in the 3-5 year range. That was a "band aid baby", or a baby created in the hopes that it would save the marriage. The fact that they were dating a few years later tells you how well that worked...
 
Stealthing. It’s a kind of rape. It’s happened to me; it’s happened to a lot of us. And it’s one of the reasons I wish @Rockabilly52 would stop with this roulette impregnation bullshit.
It happens to guys too though. There is an agreement not to use a condom, and then at the last second as we go to withdraw, the lady wraps her legs around us and keeps us pinned. Whether right or wrong, the natural desire, and one that is hard to resist, is to just cum inside her. I mean it is at the moment of release!

What does every dead-beat dad everywhere say though: "I didn't want a child in the first place", so in this situation it becomes your word versus theirs.

It happens more than you think, whether it is a cheating couple where the lady wants to secretly get pregnant to ruin the man's marriage, or done in the hopes of having a band aid baby for their own marriage to survive. There is a lot of reasons for it, but it happens a lot..
 
Sorry to hear that. My son was a still born and it really sucks to have to bury your offspring.

They say it takes 5 years to get over a loss of a spouse, 7 years to get over a loss of a parent, but a parent NEVER gets over the loss of a child. That I can attest too. As the years go on, and I see other kids the same age as he would be hit the milestones, it saddens me for sure.

As for pregnancy risk, I understand it. It has nothing to do with leaving babies in the wake of casual sex, its the idea that sex is lasting and more than a grin, some small talk, all before the couple goes to sleep. It's the creation of human life! That is amazing and gives sex true meaning. I mean the best sex of my life was after my first child, my goodness I had to wait six weeks to be with her,and then when I did, I realized sex... THAT simple three letter word... produced a mini human with a heart, eyes, ears, ten fingers, ten toes... all in 9 months. It is mind blowing sex when you realize what can really happen.

And this is coming from a guy that has had a horrific life. My conception was a complete accident and I ended up growing up in a foster home. But in a strange way it is good because I don't expect anyone to be "friends" with anyone. My own mother did not want me, so why would anyone else? It really sets the bar low, but then 80% of the people in the world don't care about your problems anyway, and the other 20% are glad you have them.
Five years for a spouse is BS; I'm almost at ten. 😢
 
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