Important - about Christabel

[impressive]

Thinking of you and hoping you are getting stronger each day!

 

[Stella_Omega]

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I did the same thing. She asked what was wrong, she said she sensed you were hiding something from her and I told her not to concern herself with anything but her health for now. The day will come soon enough that she'll be back and read all the hurtful things people said about her. I didn't want to tell her anything and I didn't. She's not crazy or stupid though, she knows that something is wrong.
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When the shit hit the fan, I kept my mouth shut and didn't say anything but now it's overdue and I can't stand by and say nothing anymore.

Why is is so hard to believe that Christa is so sick? Is it because she's not part of a select group? Is it because she's not part of a few friends and refused to play the favoritism game?

Why is it so hard. We've had plenty of people having health problems, dying, giving birth on this board. To my knowledge no one has ever questionned the validity of what was said.
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Word, there.

And why do we keep getting breathless reports on celebrity health issues? People to whom we have no connection, who have the best emotional support systems money can buy-- In my personal moral scheme, some toxic senator with brain cancer has no claim on my sympathies, and I couldn't possibly care less about his prognosis-- Chris, Trini, Neon; these are important people to me.

I am asking anonymous to please, please, get in touch with their sense of decorum at least, and delete that ugly, self-righteous, and utterly useless post. Please?

And, LadyCibelle, the split between people who trust that Cristabelle is telling the truth, and those who don't-- has nothing to do with cliques or select groups. It has certainly caused a few rifts in said groups, in fact, which has made it difficult to speak up at times. Me, I'm having to disagree with someone I adore and that hurts, makes me cowardly. For which I apologise.)

 

[Guest]

Christabel, I don't know you very well, but I hope you're feeling better each day. Stick in there, chip up in your recovery. x dozen.

 

[scheherazade_79]

Keep getting better, Christabel

 

[English Lady]

*hugs* Christabel, you're always in my prayers you know.

And Lady C, for what it's worth, I completely agree with you, I wondered exactly the same thing.*hugs*

 

[AllardChardon]

Christabel, the world awaits your re-emergence, and so do we! Let bye-gones be bye-gones and love the one you're with is my advice.

I think of you and Odessa often while watering my lovely summer flowers and pray your headaches will lessen every day until they are no more.

Allard

 

[Chantilyvamp]

 

[LadyCibelle]

Word, there.

And why do we keep getting breathless reports on celebrity health issues? People to whom we have no connection, who have the best emotional support systems money can buy-- In my personal moral scheme, some toxic senator with brain cancer has no claim on my sympathies, and I couldn't possibly care less about his prognosis-- Chris, Trini, Neon; these are important people to me.

I am asking anonymous to please, please, get in touch with their sense of decorum at least, and delete that ugly, self-righteous, and utterly useless post. Please?

And, LadyCibelle, the split between people who trust that Cristabelle is telling the truth, and those who don't-- has nothing to do with cliques or select groups. It has certainly caused a few rifts in said groups, in fact, which has made it difficult to speak up at times. Me, I'm having to disagree with someone I adore and that hurts, makes me cowardly. For which I apologise.)

Stella,

My point had nothing to do with clique per se. (even though they do exist, lets not hide our collective head in the sand, shall we?)

It had more to do with the fact that Odessa wasn't believed when she was talking about Christa's condition because....well just because some people decided it couldn't be true. Of course, if it had been someone of their entourage, they've had blown a gasket if anyone had questioned the veracity of it.

I hate to stir shit and I'm the first one who'd rather back down from a fight but, there's come a point in life where you have to take a stand, and Christa's situation was MY point in life.

As for you being cowardly, there are a lot of things I could think you are, but cowardly is certainly not one of them.

Might sound weird but I've seen you act enough to say that never once have you wavered in your behaviour or opinion when you had something to say. That's one of the thing I respect most about you, you don't take shit and you don't give shit.

One always knows where one stand with you.....I couldn't ask for more.

 

[LadyCibelle]

*hugs* Christabel, you're always in my prayers you know.

And Lady C, for what it's worth, I completely agree with you, I wondered exactly the same thing.*hugs*

Thanks, EL. What you just said means a lot to me.

 

[SweetWitch]

The support I see here for a lovely person is astounding. I believe that Christabell has to feel better knowing how many people she has in her corner. I'm going to take an unpopular view here, though, and I apologise if it hurts anyone's feelings. That's not my intention.

There are always going to be unbelievers, no matter the situation. People will always doubt and question the conditions, situations, issues and motives of others. It's something we must live with.

This thread is something that Christabell has read and found upsetting. I'd like to think of myself as a friend, so I mean this with the best of intentions for Christabell, or anyone who is ailing. Can we just let this be a place to support our friend and not bring all the anger and negative emotions that she doesn't need? She will eventually read here again and I fear that seeing her friends so upset by the things we cannot change will only drag her down farther.

She needs our support and our joy -- all things positive, and nothing negative.

Let the past remain where it belongs. Let's focus on a safe and healthy future for Christabell.

 

[DesertPirate]

The support I see here for a lovely person is astounding. I believe that Christabell has to feel better knowing how many people she has in her corner. I'm going to take an unpopular view here, though, and I apologise if it hurts anyone's feelings. That's not my intention.

There are always going to be unbelievers, no matter the situation. People will always doubt and question the conditions, situations, issues and motives of others. It's something we must live with.

This thread is something that Christabell has read and found upsetting. I'd like to think of myself as a friend, so I mean this with the best of intentions for Christabell, or anyone who is ailing. Can we just let this be a place to support our friend and not bring all the anger and negative emotions that she doesn't need? She will eventually read here again and I fear that seeing her friends so upset by the things we cannot change will only drag her down farther.

She needs our support and our joy -- all things positive, and nothing negative.

Let the past remain where it belongs. Let's focus on a safe and healthy future for Christabell.

Good idea Molly *Hugs*

For Christabel :
*Hugs*

 

[Tarakin]

Get well soon, Christabell.

 

[AllardChardon]

And have a few really good laughs just for the heck of it. All of our drama is laughable, later on, of course.

 

[christabelll]

I'm not back. I am not at all well (vertical does not mean healthy). I am not happy and have been miserable and upset for weeks despite a steady if slow return to simply poor health.

But I am amazed in so many ways. Appalled in others...
Heartfelt gratitude to those who held the light.
A swift kick in the ass to those who couldn't stand that the light was there at all. (I reallywant to slap the hell out of some people for insulting and hurting Odessa who was trying her best to carry out my wishes during a extremely hard time.)

Take care of yourselves. Don't ignore those nigling little health issues. Don't be so tough that you break rather than bend and for godsakes don't take anyone or anything for granted because it can all be gone in that one instant of stubborn inattention.

One day I might share the oddysey that I have undergone... For now its all I can do to be here and know that spiritual anitvenin serum doesnt really work on the hurting heart.

Take care my friends I'll be back before you know it. Until then please be well.

 

[TheeGoatPig]

Aren't there guards keeping you off the computer

Get better yourself Christa.

 

[Lady Reiha]

*Hugs* I don't know you, but my deepest wishes that you get better, soon.

You seem like a nice person, Odessa too ^-^

http://i56.photobucket.com/albums/g184/waiting_4him/Health/GetWellSoonAnime.jpg

 

[christabelll]

Aren't there guards keeping you off the computer

Get better yourself Christa.

Yes. LOL. But I am leaving now. My own computer is not working LOL. Gentle thought he may be he is really tough about the time I spend doing anything except resting and excercises to strengthen my weak hand.

Hugs!

 

[impressive]

I'm not back. I am not at all well (vertical does not mean healthy). I am not happy and have been miserable and upset for weeks despite a steady if slow return to simply poor health.

But I am amazed in so many ways. Appalled in others...
Heartfelt gratitude to those who held the light.
A swift kick in the ass to those who couldn't stand that the light was there at all. (I reallywant to slap the hell out of some people for insulting and hurting Odessa who was trying her best to carry out my wishes during a extremely hard time.)

Take care of yourselves. Don't ignore those nigling little health issues. Don't be so tough that you break rather than bend and for godsakes don't take anyone or anything for granted because it can all be gone in that one instant of stubborn inattention.

One day I might share the oddysey that I have undergone... For now its all I can do to be here and know that spiritual anitvenin serum doesnt really work on the hurting heart.

Take care my friends I'll be back before you know it. Until then please be well.

Nice to see you. Take care of yourself.

 

[rgraham666]

Take care, christbell. Get well.

 

[Liar]

Just want to say it's good to see ya.

Take it easy, take your time, take what's good, don't fret over what's not, and be or become well.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Big smiles, to see you here!

 

[English Lady]

*hugs* love, take care of yourself!

 

[LadyCibelle]

Hmmm and what do you think you're doing being on the computer, Miss? Aren't you supposed to be in bed and rest? Will I have to get a plane ticket and go sit on you?

Seriously, it's good to see you here, but, please, please, stay off the computer for now and just think about your health.

I've missed you, sweet; missed you a whole lot.

Now, stay off the computer and go to bed. Nobody that cares want to see you back on your ass because you've overdone yourself.


Hugs, babe

 

[DesertPirate]

*Hugs*
and a big to see you back for a bit.

 

[Belegon]

Yes. LOL. But I am leaving now. My own computer is not working LOL. Gentle thought he may be he is really tough about the time I spend doing anything except resting and excercises to strengthen my weak hand.

Hugs!