I'm Your Best Friend: Can I Fuck YOU?

[Sabineteas]

Best friends

Ummm, did that. At the time seemed like a good idea. Then after it was a really strange feeling. Didn't know what to say, didn't know if I should hold and cuddle him and he was worse than me. Thankfully, we stayed friends until he moved away<sigh>. But, I would suggest caution<laughing>. It was a very unusual night.

 

[The Dipsomaniac]

why is it that if you become best friends first it is harder to convert to a "fucking" relationship, where'as if you fuck first you can still become good or even best friends???

there is something wierd going on here? It happened to me! Had a good friend, got intimate a couple of times (every time we went out and got pissed we would get on to each other) then in the morning we'd be back to friends?! I couldnt work it out.
Now we are just friends. She's in a relationship and so am i. We still catch up. Could never work out what kind of dynamic was going on there!
(strange thing was that we only got to be good friends coz i REALLY liked her and went out of my way to see her... somewhere thru it we bacame friends not lovers - bugger!)

Ok now though.

DM

 

[Sabineteas]

why is it that if you become best friends first it is harder to convert to a "fucking" relationship, where'as if you fuck first you can still become good or even best friends???

there is something wierd going on here? It happened to me! Had a good friend, got intimate a couple of times (every time we went out and got pissed we would get on to each other) then in the morning we'd be back to friends?! I couldnt work it out.
Now we are just friends. She's in a relationship and so am i. We still catch up. Could never work out what kind of dynamic was going on there!
(strange thing was that we only got to be good friends coz i REALLY liked her and went out of my way to see her... somewhere thru it we bacame friends not lovers - bugger!)

Ok now though.

DM

I think because if you are best friends and see yourself as such it is hard to be intimate. I mean it can happen, but then you feel really strange after. It is something I cannot explain, but it is. My friend and I could talk about almost anything, but after we had sex we just couldn't talk. Then in a couple of days, we were back to best friends.

It doesn't make sense, but ...... it is just a really strange feeling.

 

[sch00lteacher]

Re: Re: I'm Your Best Friend: Can I Fuck YOU?

NO

I don't hit on freinds, and refuse to admit they hit on me.

don't want a freindship ruined that way.

Right on. I lost my best friend in the world by doing that, making love to her. AT HER request. We had been friends for two years. Did everything together. I spent many a night sleeping in the same room with her, on a couch (small apartment). Then one night... she invited me to bed.

We had a little too much to drink... I said yes and went to her.

It ruined our friendship. And the sex wasn't even that good. I made her come, oral sex. She tried every trick in the book to help me orgasm. I just couldn't I felt so guilty. It was almost like messing around with a sister. Not my cup of tea.

We continued to be friends for awhile. Went on a skiing trip to Austria together. Went bar hopping that night. The room we were sharing had only one bed. The same thing happened again.

It was all down hill after that. We saw less and less of each other as time passed.

I miss her. I'd give almost anything to hear from her, it has been 20 years. I miss her friendship. We could talk about anything...

I never let it happen again.

 

[Andreina]

I had sex with one of my best male friends... it wasnt like the act of "sex" it was more like making each other feel comfortable. Hard to describe if you havent experienced it. It was more of an act of mutual trust than purely sexual. Our relationship deepend then. I love him - as a friend.

Halo

 

[Guest]

I had sex with one of my best male friends... it wasnt like the act of "sex" it was more like making each other feel comfortable. Hard to describe if you havent experienced it. It was more of an act of mutual trust than purely sexual. Our relationship deepend then. I love him - as a friend.

Halo

That sounds so wonderful.............

 

[Quisath]

Hmmmmmmmmmmm

But will you still respect me in the Morning?