I'm so happy, relieved, sore, bruised, giddy...

[TxBelle]

and just wanted to say thank you to everyone that has been so helpful in just the past week. Not to mention all the wonderful back posts I've read.

My girls and I went out friday and had fun. I came home woke the hubby up and enjoyed myself MANY times which is a first for me. Maybe it's being 32 or drunk or rubbing and being rubbed by soooo many people and coming home more aroused than ever before but I'm appreciative of whatever factor allowed me to ride that beautiful wave over and over and over again.

Saturday the hubby and I had a great date with drinking and dancing and flirting and just generally being slutty. We talked indepth about sex and so forth. I let him read my posts here. I was so sure he would be freaked. I was right but in such a good way. He is so much more into the whole BDSM thing than I ever imagined! He's also more into inflicting pain than I imagined I would like, but DAMN it was soooooo nice. My god I have never been made to feel so good in my life. The last thing I remember was it was 5:30 in the morning and I was thinking as I drifted off to sleep.....I wonder if that's justa pulled muscle.........

So thanks to each of you I am now going to the Dallas Fetish Ball and my hubby is taking me shopping!

HUGS HUGS HUGS HUGS HUGS
Belle

 

[NemoAlia]

Wow, Belle! Congratulations! Your rays of happiness warm the entire board. I hope that you continue to be so happy and that you always feel welcome to share it here. Enjoy the fetish ball! (And, if you don't mind, would ya send me date/time/location? I'm only a few hours away -- and it would be loads of fun if I could make it there!)

 

[P. B. Walker]

Wow. That is great new TxBelle. I always love to hear success stories.

Keep us posted on the new happenings. And enjoy.

PBW

 

[TxBelle]

The ball is on Dec 31st. Check out dallasfetishball.com. I'm going to reserve a table tomorrow. Wanna sit with us?

 

[NemoAlia]

Darn. On any other night, I would, but I already have plans for New Year's Eve. Thanks for the invitation, though! It would have been cool to meet a fellow litster!

 

[zipman]

I too am very happy to hear of your success. While telling a significant other about our secret desires can backfire, it also can work out extremely well, as this thread shows.

I met my gf in the 'nilla world, and was a little concerned when I first broached the subject of BDSM with her. Her instant enthusiasm was unexpected and has turned into a true source of happiness in my life.

Congrats TxBelle!! Now there is the whole world of BDSM to explore with him. Have fun!

 

[Ebonyfire]

Congrats!

I am so happy for you and your hubby!

Ebony

 

[TxBelle]

Darn. On any other night, I would, but I already have plans for New Year's Eve. Thanks for the invitation, though! It would have been cool to meet a fellow litster!

If anything else comes up I'll let you know. From what I've been reading there's something going on here in Dallas all the time.

 

[TxBelle]

I too am very happy to hear of your success. While telling a significant other about our secret desires can backfire, it also can work out extremely well, as this thread shows.

I met my gf in the 'nilla world, and was a little concerned when I first broached the subject of BDSM with her. Her instant enthusiasm was unexpected and has turned into a true source of happiness in my life.

Congrats TxBelle!! Now there is the whole world of BDSM to explore with him. Have fun!

I wonder what my husband was thinking as he read my posts and then put his head in his hands only to raise it with tears in his eyes. He just blows me away sometimes. But that was just for a moment and then his enthusiasm came into play pretty fast.
This world is a very strange place and I'm surrounded by things that constantly amaze me.

 

[Ebonyfire]

I wonder what my husband was thinking as he read my posts and then put his head in his hands only to raise it with tears in his eyes. He just blows me away sometimes. But that was just for a moment and then his enthusiasm came into play pretty fast.
This world is a very strange place and I'm surrounded by things that constantly amaze me.

You should be bery proud of him that he allowed his feelings to show. Men are taught to hide their feelings to the point that sometimes they cannot articulate them at all.

But because he is so open, you and he are able to truly communicate feelings and needs. That is a very big blessing, trust me.

Eb

 

[P. B. Walker]

Might be a good time to look into mentoring... for both him and you. Just a thought

PBW

 

[Ms_Lilith]

congratulations! I'm so happy for you! *grin* Oh to have been a fly on the wall, though...

and it must have been such a pleasant surprise for you to discover that he's really into inflicting pain... and an even better surprise when you discovered how much you like it!

*sending happy thoughts your way!*

 

[lark sparrow]

I wonder what my husband was thinking as he read my posts and then put his head in his hands only to raise it with tears in his eyes. He just blows me away sometimes. But that was just for a moment and then his enthusiasm came into play pretty fast.
This world is a very strange place and I'm surrounded by things that constantly amaze me.

Beautiful and strange - thanks for sharing this on the board.

Taking a chance in furthering intimacy with your partner can be frightening, but pays off in unexpected and delightful ways sometimes. Being accepted for who you are, rather than for what you hide, is hard to beat! Unless of course, one enjoys a good beating!

 

[wetandslave]

Hope you have a good time. Its a really fun place to go to. Thought we sould stop by and say Hi.