I'm not getting what I need....

ejredlady

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Is it just me or is there an underlying thread of men wanting to chat who are married? I find it fairly offensive that so many married men whine aobut not getting what they need from their wives and think cyber sex or even assignations with others is alright. No it is not alright. Do you ever think if you aren't getting what you need/want your wife probably isn't either? Have you tried talking with her? I have a difficult time believeing so many wives are fine with an "open" marriage. Apparently there are plenty of women who do have a sex drive/interest far more compatible with yours, perhaps you should seek them out. Get divorces, nobody dies from a divorce. Perhaps they are miserable, perhaps they go into a depression but those are choices and can be changed.
 
Is it just me or is there an underlying thread of men wanting to chat who are married? I find it fairly offensive that so many married men whine aobut not getting what they need from their wives and think cyber sex or even assignations with others is alright. No it is not alright. Do you ever think if you aren't getting what you need/want your wife probably isn't either? Have you tried talking with her? I have a difficult time believeing so many wives are fine with an "open" marriage. Apparently there are plenty of women who do have a sex drive/interest far more compatible with yours, perhaps you should seek them out. Get divorces, nobody dies from a divorce. Perhaps they are miserable, perhaps they go into a depression but those are choices and can be changed.

Chat works for you?

It's never worked for me.
 
I don't know about anybody else but I think it's alright to whine and talk about sex on a porn board. If we were happy I don't think we'd be on a porn board we would be in the porn. Just saying.
 
I don't know about anybody else but I think it's alright to whine and talk about sex on a porn board. If we were happy I don't think we'd be on a porn board we would be in the porn. Just saying.

brilliant :)
 
I think you would be surprised how many wives are very kinky and open. That being said this place has its share of creeps
 
Have you considered the possibility that you're too stupid to engage in chat?

I'm not sure how else to characterize someone who believes depression to be a "choice".
 
LOL.. I just caught my husband cheating on me online. He was apparently also cheating on his five other online girlfriends online. Bastard!! Anyways, I am looking for forums to catch him at, I've already caught him at www.flirtsnfriends.com AND he's probably a member at this one too...i just haven't found him yet.
 
I knew this would tweak some noses. I do understand this is a good forum for chatting. I am saying Ido not wish to chat with married men. I politely decline and attempt not to be insulting. This is just my preference. and to IslandMan, I am not too stupid to chat. I am smart enough to recognize what doesn't work for me.
 
All you can do is put on your signiture what you did and then when someone says they are married say goodbye. :rose:
 
On lit, they're all middle-aged men, married and poor. Even the women.

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Will you please get your ass out of my face?
 
Do I have to put a disclaimer as my signiture?: I am 46 years old female and my marriage sucks and I'm not getting any. I'm on a porn board a lot because I have no life and I like to talk about sex. I like to talk about who's snake is bigger and decide if a cat would beat a catfish in a fight. I also like the fruit smoothies at the Lit Cafe. I like everybody so would love to talk. In fact that is why I post on the general board. Deal with it!
 
Do I have to put a disclaimer as my signiture?: I am 46 years old female and my marriage sucks and I'm not getting any. I'm on a porn board a lot because I have no life and I like to talk about sex. I like to talk about who's snake is bigger and decide if a cat would beat a catfish in a fight. I also like the fruit smoothies at the Lit Cafe. I like everybody so would love to talk. In fact that is why I post on the general board. Deal with it!

wanna see my anaconda??
 
Do I have to put a disclaimer as my signiture?: I am 46 years old female and my marriage sucks and I'm not getting any. I'm on a porn board a lot because I have no life and I like to talk about sex. I like to talk about who's snake is bigger and decide if a cat would beat a catfish in a fight. I also like the fruit smoothies at the Lit Cafe. I like everybody so would love to talk. In fact that is why I post on the general board. Deal with it!

that's not a disclaimer, that's a craigslist ad :)
 
Do I have to put a disclaimer as my signiture?: I am 46 years old female and my marriage sucks and I'm not getting any. I'm on a porn board a lot because I have no life and I like to talk about sex. I like to talk about who's snake is bigger and decide if a cat would beat a catfish in a fight. I also like the fruit smoothies at the Lit Cafe. I like everybody so would love to talk. In fact that is why I post on the general board. Deal with it!

What kind of cat are we talking about? Tabbies are lazy. Catfish wouldn't have a chance against a Siamese.
 
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