I'm looking for some information

[Star of Penumbra]

I'm not really into the D/S thing, but I'm kinda curious about it. Basically I'm just looking for ideas for things that doms and thier subs can do together (or as part of a group) that's not sex of some kind.

 

[AngelicAssassin]

Click me.

 

[s'lara]

I'm not really into the D/S thing, but I'm kinda curious about it. Basically I'm just looking for ideas for things that doms and thier subs can do together (or as part of a group) that's not sex of some kind.

Hello Star. In addition to the general link provided above, please take a look at the following links. As i am not sure where your proclivities lie, i've provided general categories which relate to non-sexualized D/s. Good luck and safe exploration. Feel free to further peruse the Library for additional information. Also, feel free to begin a thread about a topic which interests you.

Age Play

Bondage

Chastity

Checklists

Discipline/Punishment

Enemas

Explorations

Humiliation

Limits

Pain/Sensory Play

Polyamory

Ritual

Safewords

Scenes

Spanking

Submission

Techniques

TPE - Total Power Exchange

 

[LunarKitten]

I'm not really into the D/S thing, but I'm kinda curious about it. Basically I'm just looking for ideas for things that doms and thier subs can do together (or as part of a group) that's not sex of some kind.

BDSM is very sensual, it's also very sexually charged. But none of it HAS to include sex of any kind or form (thankyouverymuchmrclinton lol). In fact, before my Master collared me, genital manipulation and sex were hard limits for me with my casual play partners.

Basically, if you find something that sparks your interest, go for it. It doesn't have to involve sex in any way shape or form. My favorites, personally, are rope bondage - especially Shibari - and spanking. I also love a good, thuddy flogging. And we play a lot with our local groups, where at one sex is allowed as long as you use a condom (that way the newbies don't have to guess who is fluid bonded and who isn't or guess who is with what person that it is allowed). But haven't engaged in the groups (unless you count NYE, which wasn't a group party, but contained a lot of the same people we circle around lol).

Also, you can check out www.castlerealm.com or www.iron-rose.com for more info.

 

[Etoile]

whoops! had my threads mixed up here, too many open windows